Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.0.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Etz Hayim at Hollis Hills Bayside A Conservative Congregational Community ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Shabbat Korah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/06/shabbat-korah-5783/) - This week's Torah portion is named for a bad guy. It's not the only time this happens; just a week from now Balak gets his name on synagogue marquises all over the world. This week's parshah is named for Korah, instigator of a major rebellion against Moshe's leadership. Isn't it odd that our tradition would - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5783/) - When, on that rare occasion, you make an egregious error, it's likely that you overcompensate for that mistake and go out of your way to fix it. Especially if it was an error of omission. "I neglected to return so-and-so's phone call, and she was furious with me, so now I call her every three - [Passing of Gail Englander z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/06/passing-of-gail-englander-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Gail Englander, daughter of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Dolores Goldowski and wife of Mark. The funeral will be held on Sunday, June 11 at 2 PM at Schwartz Brothers Chapel on Queens Blvd. Burial is taking place in Israel. Shiva information will follow. The Kevurah/Burial in - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5783/) - Do you remember the last Jewish holiday we observed? It wasn't that long ago that we celebrated Shavu'ot, but maybe it feels like it was ages ago. That's because we tend to look forward, not behind us. It's an occupational hazard for Jewish professionals in that the moment we finish one special event, we are - [Etz Hayim Welcomes Cantor Wendi Fried](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/08/cantor-wendi-fried/) - We welcome to our Congregation, Cantor Wendi Fried. The Congregation has approved the Board of Trustees recommendation to retain the services of Cantor Fried as Cantor of Congregation Etz Hayim. Cantor Fried is an active member of the Cantor's Assembly and has been a Congregational Cantor serving communities in Maryland, Virginia and Minnesota. Cantor Fried's - [Passing of Corinne Steel z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/07/passing-of-corinne-steel-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Marathon Legacy Congregant, Corinne Steel. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, July 21st at 2 PM at Star of David Chapel, 1236 Wellwood Avenue in West Babylon. Burial at Wellwood Cemetery in West Babylon. Shiva will be observed at Judy & Rabbi Greene's Shabbat house in - [Parshot Mattot BE A PERSON OF YOUR WORD](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/07/parshot-mattot-be-a-person-of-your-word/) - Mattot-Massei A man dies and heads toward the proverbial pearly gates. He is met along the way and told he is being given a choice between spending eternity in Heaven or in Hell. His first instinct is to choose heaven, but the messenger tells him things are not necessarily what he had been taught to - [CHUKKAT THE RITUAL OF THE RED HEIFER (and it’s what you do with it that counts)](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/06/chukkat-the-ritual-of-the-red-heifer-and-its-what-you-do-with-it-that-counts/) - CHUKKAT THE RITUAL OF THE RED HEIFER (and it’s what you do with it that counts) Parsha Chukkat starts off with what seems to be, and in my mind is, a rather strange ritual. God tells Moses and Aaron to take a pure red cow which had never done any work and give it to - [Passing of Edward Rosen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/06/passing-of-edward-rosen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Edward Rosen, father of our Hollis Hills congregant, Jaye Solomowitz. The funeral will be held graveside on Friday, June 12 at 10 AM at State Veterans Cemetery, 317 Bow Lane, Middletown, CT. Shiva will be held at the home of Jaye and Ben Solomowit in Bayside, with visits - [Passing of Cara Trager z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/06/passing-of-cara-trager-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Cara Trager. The funeral will held on Sunday, May 31 at 1 PM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be held at the home of Michael Trager in Hollis - [It's All Connected](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/its-all-connected/) - Sometimes, to most of us, the various holidays and observances in the Jewish calendar seem unrelated to each other. They feel like each is discreet and stand-alone. We might say, in early March “ok, Purim is coming” and start to think of Hamentashen and megillah reading. Or, in December we think about preparing for Channukah. - [Why is Abraham a Greater Man Than Noah?](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/11/why-is-abraham-a-greater-man-than-noah/) - There seems to be a general consensus that Abraham was a better man, better human being than Noah. I do not believe that we should dismiss Noah as a Tzaddik, a righteous person, however. Noah, imperfect though he MIGHT have been, still serves as a role model. In Sefer B’reishit (Genesis) chapter IV verse 8 - [Ignore History at Your Own Risk](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/ignoe-history-at-your-own-risk/) - The second book of the Torah, Shemot, tells us that a new king arose in Egypt who did not know Joseph. How could he not know Joseph? Surely, having ascended to the throne after Joseph’s death, he did not now Joseph personally, but, even if he was a few generations down the road, he would - [Terumah: Making a Sanctuary for God to Dwell Within Us](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/02/terumah-making-a-sactuary-for-god-to-dwell-within-us/) - (How does this apply today) At the beginning of Parashat Teruma, starting at Shemot (Exodus) Chapter 25, God tell Moses to tell the Israelite people to bring God gifts as their hearts move them. These gifts of various valuables whether precious metals, cloths, fragrant oils and the such are to be used in the construction - [Reflection on Pesach](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/04/reflection-on-pesach/) - Passover (Pesach) is an intriguing, and, in some ways conflicting) holiday. Some people get so absorbed in the physical preparations that they forget the real religious aspect of what we are observing and celebrating. All the folks (sadly, mostly women) who are responsible for the pre-Pesach cleaning, shopping and food preparation feel so “enslaved” by - [Why Read the Book of Ruth During Shavuot?](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/05/why-read-the-book-of-ruth-during-shavuot/) - How are Megillat Ruth and Shavuot connected? There are several holidays when one the “megillot” included in the Ketuvim section of the TaNaKh, (the Hebrew Bible) is read in conjunction with the holiday. Most notably is the reading of the book of Esther during Purim. We also read Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) at the end of Sukkot - [Finding Torah and Inspiration in Adversity](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/07/finding-torah-and-inspiration-in-adversity/) - My wife and I, along with several other people from our community, traveled to Israel recently for a wedding. Most of the people reading this essay have heard all or parts of the story of this trip/adventure. The war with Iran broke out. Our eight-day trip became eighteen days. The wedding almost did not happen. - [Our Humanity in the Season of Teshuvah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/08/our-humanity-in-the-season-of-teshuvah/) - The last few verses of Psalm 146, which we recite every morning as part of P’sukei D’Zimra tell us Adonai frees the bound Adonai gives sight to the blind Adonai raises those bowed down, and loves the just Adonai protects the stranger, supports the widow and the orphan, But frustrates the desire of the wicked. - [Lech L'cha: What is Avram Really Supposed to be Doing](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/10/lech-lcha-what-is-avram-really-supposed-to-be-doing/) - In the third parasha in the book of B’reishit (Genesis) God tells Avram (chapter 12 verse 1) “Go forth from your native land and from your father’s house to the land I will show you”. The language in the Torah lech l’cha, “Go… for or to yourself,” not just lech, “go.” So, what is the - [Seemingly Harsh Punishments in the Torah: Tikkun L'ayl Shavuot 5786](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/05/seemingly-harsh-punishments-in-the-torah/) - I would like to talk about justice, or really what might seem injustice, in certain life-or-death decisions God makes in the Torah. I am concerned with four apparently untimely deaths which, on their face, seem profoundly unfair. These are the killing of Nadaav and Avihu, sons of Aaron on what should have been a magnificently - [Mi Sheberach](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/05/mi-sheberach/) - MI SHEBERACH The prayer we call Mi Sheberach, because it starts with those words, is usually recited as a request of healing. The - [Cleaning Our Homes and Our Lives of Chametz](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/04/cleaning-our-homes-and-our-lives-of-chametz/) - GETTING RID OF CHAMETZ On erev Pesach, at about 11:00 AM, we gathered at the shul’s driveway to burn the scraps and crumbs of chametz we had collected for the occasion. This activity and the accompanying prayers and statements are the final act in cleaning out chametz in preparation for the Feast of Unleavened - [Why Shalt Thou Not Covet](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/02/why-shalt-thou-not-covet/) - WHAT IS SO BAD ABOUT COVETING? Every year, some time in mid-winter, we read parshat Yitro which, most famously, contains the “Aseret HaDivrot” what most of the Judeo-Christian world calls the Ten Commandments. It has been said that all the other 603 mitzvot can be derived from these ten utterances. It has also been said - [Making Our Senses Part Our Spiritual Life, Part 2](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/making-our-senses-part-of-our-spiritual-life-part-2/) - MAKING OUR SENSES PART OF OUR SPIRITUAL LIFE – PART 2 I have written before about connecting our senses and our spirituality. The earlier essay focused on the senses of hearing and sight. But what about our other, perhaps more earthly, senses, smell, touch and taste. How can these be part of our spiritual lives? - [The Shema, Part 1](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/the-shema-part-1/) - THE SHEMA Part 1 The unit of biblical passages that we know as The Shema is essential to our out liturgy. It is part of our morning (Shacharit) and evening (Ma’ariv) services on weekdays, Shabbat and on holidays. It is also recited when retiring for the night. It has been referred to as “the watchword - [The Shema, Part 2](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/the-shema-part-2/) - THE SHEMA PART 2 The Shema, as I noted earlier, is an integral part of our statement of faith and of our prayer services. It consists of three passages from the Torah, Deuteronomy 6:4-9, Deut. 11:13-21 and Numbers 15:37-41. Part one dealt with the first verse (Deut 6:4), the definitive statement of monotheistic connection to - [The Shema, Part 3](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/the-shema-part-3/) - THE SHEMA – PART 3 The third major theme that I see in the first two passages of the Shema and in virtually all of the third passage (Num 15:37-41) is that we should provide ourselves with virtually constant reminders of our connection to God and God’s laws. These reminders are set forth in three - [The Spiritual and Communal Importance of the Daily Minyan](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/the-spiritual-and-communal-importance-of-the-daily-minyan/) - THE SPIRITUAL AND COMMUNAL IMPORTANCE OF THE DAILY MINYAN The daily minyan, morning and evening, is one of the most important services (pun intended) a synagogue can provide its community. The synagogue is, by definition fact, a faith-based community organization. Certainly, one of the ways of expressing that faith is by daily prayer. Jewish - [Participation in the Shaliach Tzibbor's Repetition of the Amidah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/participation-in-the-shaliach-tzibbors-repetition-of-the-amidah/) - THOUGHTS ON CONGREGATONAL “PARTICIPATION” IN THE REPETITION OF THE AMIDAH The Amidah is the central section of the traditional prayer service. It consists of 19 separate prayers or B’rachot on ordinary weekdays, seven on Shabbat or a Holiday and what feels like 15 or 20 million on the High Holidays, especially Rosh Hashana Musaf. The - [Deuteronomy as a Metaphor for Growth](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/deuteronomy-as-a-metaphor-for-growth/) - DEUTERONOMY AS METAPHOR The book of D’varim (Deuteronomy) can be looked upon as a metaphor for personal growth. Let’s start with a look at Moses at the burning bush in Exodus, chapter 3. Moses has, rather impetuously, killed an Egyptian taskmaster and had to flee to Midian. Now he is tending his father-in-law’s sheep - [Sounding the Shofar During Elul](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/sounding-the-shofar-during-elul/) - SHOFAR BLOWING DURING ELUL During the month of Elul, the last Hebrew month before Rosh Hashanah, the Shofar is sounded at every morning service except Shabbat. In our congregation we also blow shofar at night, a custom we developed for congregants who, because of work schedules etc., could not make the morning minyan. The sounding - [The Changes to the Amidah for the High Holiday Season](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/08/the-changes-to-the-amidah-for-the-high-holiday-season/) - THE CHANGES TO THE AMIDAH FOR THE HIGH HOLIDAY SEASON Each year, between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, there are changes and additions to the weekday and the holiday and Shabbat Amidah. There are changes to all of the first three blessings. To one of the thirteen weekday petitions, and to the last two. Taken - [It Takes Several Readings to Get the Full Meaning](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/it-takes-several-readings-to-get-the-full-meaning/) - INQUIRE, STUDY DEEPLY, STUDY REPEATEDLY Why do we read the entire Torah in annual cycles? Every year, starting and ending at Simchat Torah we read, in the same order, the same words from the five books of Moses. Is there not some concern the repetition will become rote or even boring? Might we not just - [A Question of Sequences](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/a-question-of-sequence/) - A QUESTION OF SEQUENCE A friend pointed out an interesting anomaly in a portion of our liturgy. There are a number of places in the service, notably early in the Torah service where we say “HaShem Melech, HaShem Moloch HaShem Yimloch la’olam va’ed, God is King, God was King, God will be king for - [Observing the Fast Days](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/07/observing-the-fast-days/) - THE FAST DAYS I was thinking about the rituals commemorating the humiliating defeat of Israel/Judea culminating with the destruction of the first and second Temples first by the Babylonian Empire under Nebuchadnezzar in 586 BCE and later the Roman Empire in 70 CE. Our rituals concerning national calamity involve scriptural readings, changes to the prayer - [Kabbalat Shabbat](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/kabbalat-shabbat/) - KABBALAT SHABBAT One of the most beautiful moments in the week is the time, late Friday afternoon, when the work week is finally ending and Shabbat is about to begin. It is, for those of us who take Shabbat at all seriously, a special, spiritual mystical time. It is a moment when we can - [Applying Spiritual Growth to Living One's Life](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/applying-spiritual-growth-to-living-ones-life/) - APPLYING SPIRITUAL GROWTH TO LIVING ONE'S LIFE LIFE Recently, a friend who had read most of my posts asked how my spirituality and my relationship to the prayers and the texts affects my day-to-day life. How does this change my life, my behavior, my relationship with the world? I have paraphrased his question a bit, - [Treat Others As You Want God to Treat You: Shabbat Chol Hamoed Pesach 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/05/treat-others-as-you-want-god-to-treat-you-shabbat-chol-hamoed-pesach-5784/) - SHABBAT CHOL HA’MOED PESACH (5784) Shabbat Shalom. Mo’adim l’Simcha. In a moment of great weakness, Rabbi Greene has permitted me to prepare a D’var Torah for this morning. Some of you long-time regulars in the evening minyan may recognize a familiar theme. If so, I apologize, but it is one that is very important to - [Passing of Ron Zinner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/05/passing-of-ron-zinner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Marathon Legacy congregant, Ron Zinner. A remembrance service will be held on Sunday, May 24 at 11 AM at R. Stutzmann & Son, 244-39 Jamaica Avenue in Queens Village There will be no Shiva visitation. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Anita Goldowski z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/05/passing-of-anita-goldowski-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Anita Goldowski. The funeral will be held on Sunday, May 3 at 1:30 PM graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be in NJ at Anita's sister's home. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Sandi Lukin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/04/passing-of-sandi-lukin-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Sandi Lukin, wife of Arthur. The funeral will be held on Monday, April 13 at 1:30 PM at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 175 North Long Beach Road in Rockville Centre, NY. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be - [Passing of Helen Diker z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/04/passing-of-helen-diker-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Helen Diker, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Willy Diker. The funeral will be held on Sunday, April 12 at 1:30 PM graveside at Cedar Park Cemetery, 735 Forest Avenue in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at the home of Beth and Willy Diker in Hollis - [Passing of Robert Greenbaum z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/04/passing-of-robert-greenbaum-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Robert Greenbaum, husband of Jo Beth. The funeral will be held on Friday, April 10 at 9:30 AM at Riverside Nassau North Chapels, 55 North Station Plaza, in Great Neck. Burial will follow at Wellwood-Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be - [Passing of Adrienne Larrain z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/03/passing-of-adrienne-larrain-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Adrienne Larrain, wife of Julio. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, April 1 at 1:00 PM graveside at Wellwood Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the home of Julio Larrain in Hollis Hills until the arrival of Yom - [Passing of Edith Cohn z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/03/passing-of-edith-cohn-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Edith Cohn, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Marcy Sackett. The funeral will be held on Thursday, March 26 at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels in Forest Hills. Burial at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the home of Marcy & Jeffrey - [Passing of Esta Varon z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/03/passing-of-esta-varon-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Esta Varon, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Cherryl Kovarsy. The funeral will be held graveside on Tuesday, March 10 at 10:00 AM at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Cherryl & Shlomo Kovarsy in Hollis Hills, at the - [Passing of Rita Wallace z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/02/passing-of-rita-wallace-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Rita Wallace, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Michele Miller. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, February 18 at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Funeral Home on Queens Blvd. Burial will follow at Wellwood-Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. For those who would like to watch - [Passing of Shirley Wolkofsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/02/passing-of-shirley-wolkofsky-zl-2/) - We are saddened by the passing of Shirley Wolkofsky, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant and past president, Michael Wolkofsky. The funeral will be held on Sunday, February 15th at 11:00 AM graveside at King Solomon Cemetery, 550 Dwasline Road, Clifton, NJ. Shiva on Sunday will be observed at the home of Allan Wolkofsky - [Sisterhood Murder Mystery Night](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/01/sisterhood-murder-mystery-night/) - A great turnout and an exciting and entertaining evening with good company, food, and friends. Pictures from our evening (click the photo to open the slide show) - [HHB's Mahjongg Club - Sponsored by Sisterhood Social (non-betting) Mahjongg Game](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/hhbs-mahjongg-club-sponsored-by-sisterhood-social-non-betting-mahjongg-game/) - HHB's Mahjongg Club - Sponsored by Sisterhood Social (non-betting) Mahjongg Game We invite you to play non-tournament Mahjongg following National Mahjongg League Rules. Practice your skills in your own group or come individually and play with new people. All levels of players are welcome. We play one Sunday a month from 1:00 pm - - [Upcoming Sisterhood Events](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/01/upcoming-sisterhood-events/) - Sunday February 22nd at 11 am Come Paint and Nosh. ********* Sunday March 15th, 2-4 pm join our Women’s Sederbration. ******** Sunday morning March 22nd enjoy our Torah Fund Brunch. ******** Information will be forthcoming about reservations for each program. - [Passing of Marcia Sparrow z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/01/passing-of-marcia-sparrow-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Marcia Sparrow. The funeral was held last week and there is no shiva in the area. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Bert Nisonoff z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/01/passing-of-bert-nisonoff-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bert Nisonoff, father of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Maddy Kofman. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, January 20th at 2:00 PM graveside at Mount Ararat Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Geri Nisonoff, 81-10 Chevy Chase St. in Jamaica Estates, - [Passing of Shirley Perla z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2026/01/passing-of-shirley-perla-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Shirley Perla. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, January 13th at 2:30 PM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. There is no Shiva in New York. Letters of condolance can be sent to her daughter, Suzanne Perla, 7619 Rossville Lane, - [Passing of Jerry Sandell z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-jerry-sandell-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Jerry Sandell. The funeral will be held on Monday, December 29th at 1:30 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels in Forest Hills. Burial at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be held in Jerry's home Monday-Thursday. Please contact the office for - [Passing of Marshall Hambro z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-marshall-hambro-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Marshall Hambro, brother of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Vicki Blumenfeld. Funeral arrangements are out of state. Shiva will begin today. Please see the schedule below to see which days will be on Zoom Only. In person days will be at the home of Vicki & Joel - [Passing of Frances Roberts z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-frances-roberts-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Bayside JC congregant, Frances Roberts. The funeral was held this past Friday, December 12. There is no Shiva in the area. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Ruth Herman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-ruth-herman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Ruth Herman. The funeral will be held on Friday, December 12th at 12 PM at Star of David Memorial Chapels, 1236 Wellwood Avenue, West Babylon, NY. Burial at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be at the home of Spencer and - [Passing of Sandra Singer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-marilyn-singer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sandra SInger, sister of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Marilyn Singer. The funeral will be held on Thursday, December 11th at 11:30 AM at Gray-Parker Funeral Home, 100 East Main Street, Port Jervis, NY 12771. Burial at Agudath Cemetery/Temple Beth El Cemetery, 197 North Orange Street in - [Passing of Rose Demel z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/12/passing-of-rose-demel-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Rose Demel, mother of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Michelle Zitofsky. The funeral will be held graveside on Sunday, December 7th at 1:30 PM at Mt. Carmel Cemetery, 57-80 Cooper Avenue, Glendale, NY. Shiva will be held at the home of Michelle & Neil Zitofsky on Monday - [Passing of Jack Levy z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/11/passing-of-jack-levy-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Jack Levy, husband of Helene Levy. The funeral will be held on Sunday, November 9th at 9:30 AM at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 8000 Jericho Turnpike in Woodbury. Burial at Mount Moriah Cemetery in NJ. Shiva will be held at the home of - [Passing of Steven Finkelstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/11/passing-of-steven-finkelstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Steven Finkelstein, brother of our late Oak Hills congregant, Fred Finkelstein. The funeral will be held graveside on Friday, November 7th at 11 AM at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Kew Garden Hills. We are hoping to get a minyan at the funeral. Anyone who can attend will be - [Passing of Bernd Bildstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/10/passing-of-bernd-bildstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Bernd Bildstein, husband of Harriet Bildstein. The funeral will be held on Friday, October 24th at 1 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be held at the Parker Jewish Institute - [Passing of Abraham Shulman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/10/passing-of-abraham-shulman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Abraham Shulman. The funeral will be held on Thursday, October 16 at 11 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial at Mount Moriah Cemetery in Fairview, NJ. Any shiva information will follow. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Pierre Merdinger z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/09/passing-of-pierre-merdinger-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Pierre Merdinger, beloved brother of our long time Hollis Hills congregant Suzanne Chemtob. The funeral was held today. Shiva will be observed Friday-Sunday at the home of Rabbi Gilboa Merdinger, 6944 173rd Street in Fresh Meadows. Shiva will be observed on Friday from 2-5 PM. Shiva will be - [Passing of Helene Dyzenhaus z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/09/passing-of-helene-dyzenhaus-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Marathon Legacy Congregant, Helene Dyzenhaus, wife of Past President Abe Dyzenhaus. The funeral will be held on Sunday, September 7th at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels on Queens Boulevard in Forest Hills. Burial at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at Abe's home, - [Passing of Rose Solasz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/08/passing-of-rose-solasz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Rose Solasz. The funeral will be held on Sunday, August 17th at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels on Queens Boulevard in Forest Hills. Burial at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. The funeral service will be live streamed. Click here to watch the live - [Passing of Josh Sussman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/08/passing-of-josh-sussman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Bayside JC congregant and Past President, Josh Sussman. The funeral will be held on Thursday, August 14th at 1:30 PM graveside at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the synagogue on Thursday, August 14th from after 7:30 PM evening minyan until 9:15 PM - [Passing of Jerome Tiger z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/07/passing-of-jerome-tiger-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Bayside JC congregant, Jerome Tiger on July 1st. Jerome turned 98 on June 29th. The funeral has already been held and there is no Shiva information. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Denis Sackett z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/07/passing-of-denis-sackett-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Denis Sackett, brother of our long time congregant, Jeffrey Sackett. The funeral will be held on Thursday, July 10th at 11:30 AM at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 175 N. Long Beach Road, Rockville Center, NY 11570. Burial at Beth David Cemetery, 300 Elmont Road, Elmont, NY 11003. Shiva will - [Etz Hayim HHB's You Tube Channel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/hhbjc-you-tube-channel/) - A You Tube Channel sponsored by HHBJC, an egalitarian Jewish community in Northeast Queens - [Passing of Florence Katzman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/06/passing-of-florence-katzman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Florence Katzman, mother of our congregant, Judy Katzman. The funeral will be held on Thursday, June 26th at 10:30 AM graveside at Mount Golda Cemetery in Huntington. The family will be observing Shiva at North Shore Towers in Floral Park. Please contact the office for the address. Visitation - [Passing of Sheldon Levine z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/06/passing-of-sheldon-levine-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Marathon congregant, Sheldon Levine, husband of Adele. The funeral will be held on Friday, June 20th at 12:00 PM at Riverside-Nassau North Chapels, 55 North Station Plaza, Great Neck, NY. Burial will follow at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Adele's home. - [Passing of Joan Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/06/passing-of-joan-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Joan Cohen. The funeral will be held on Thursday, June 5th at 11:00 AM at Shalom Memorial Chapels, 760 Smithtown Bypass, Smithtown, NY. Burial is at Washington Memorial Park in Mount Sinai, NY. Shiva will be observed at the home of Joan's daughter, Thursday after - [Passing of Walter Schaffer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/05/passing-of-walter-schaffer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Oak Hills congregant, Walter Schaffer. The funeral will be held graveside on Sunday, May 25th at 11:00 AM at Mt. Hebron Cemetery in Queens. The family will not be sitting Shiva in the area. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Replay of Cantor Zim's Concert](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/04/replay-of-cantor-zims-concert/) - If you did not get the chance to see Cantor Zim's Am Yisrael Chai concert in person or would like to see it again, the Jewish Broadcasting Service (JBS) is broadcasting the Concert on the following dates. Thursday, May 1 at 6:30 PM Friday, May 2 at 12:30 PM Saturday, May 3 at 11:00 PM - [Passing of Arlene Shulman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/04/passing-of-arlene-shulman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Arlene Shulman, wife of Abraham Shulman. The funeral will be held on Sunday, May 4th at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial is at Mount Moriah Cemetery in Fairview, NJ. There will be an opportunity to see the family on - [Passing of Thelma Stieglitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/04/passing-of-thelma-stieglitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Oak Hills congregant Thelma Stieglitz, mother of our President Steven Stieglitz. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, April 30 at 11:15 AM graveside at Cedar Park Cemetary, 735 Forest Avenue, Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at the Stieglitz home at the following times: Wednesday and Thursday - [Passing of Theodore Lazarus z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/02/passing-of-theodore-lazarus-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Theodore Lazarus, husband of Rosalinda and father of our congregants Ellana Sanders and Kara Keppel, and of Ari Lazarus. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, February 19 at 2:30 PM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd. Shiva will be observed at the home of Ellana - [Passing of Marvin Sklamberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/02/passing-of-marvin-sklamberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our congregant Marvin Sklamberg, husband of Lynne and a past president of the Jewish Center of Oak Hills. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, February 18 at 11:00 AM graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Lynne's home, 56-03 E. Hampton Blvd - [Passing of Sylvia Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/passing-of-sylvia-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sylvia Cohen, grandmother of our Masa director, Scott Eckers. The funeral will be held Thursday, January 30 at 1:00 PM at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 175 N. Long Beach Road in Rockville Centre. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be at the home of Scott - [Passing of Norma Brooks z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/passing-of-norma-brooks-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Norma Brooks, mother of Diane Landau. The funeral will be held Thursday, January 23rd at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels in Forest Hills. Burial at Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge, NJ. Shiva will be observed at Norma's home, through Wednesday morning. No visits past - [Passing of Michele Goetz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/passing-of-michele-goetz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Michele Goetz, sister of our congregant Gary Newman. The funeral has taken place. Shiva will be observed at the home of Gary and Esta Newman, 162-20 9th Avenue in Whitestone, apartment 7A, on Sunday and Monday, January 19/20, from 2-5 PM and 7-9 PM. Minyan will be at - [Passing of Carol Lieber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/passing-of-carol-lieber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Carol Lieber. The funeral will be held on Friday, January 17th at 1 PM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Though there is no shiva, the family will be receiving guests on Sunday, January 19th from 2pm to 5pm at 8054 215th Street - [Passing of Frank Stumer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2025/01/passing-of-frank-stumer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Frank Stumer, husband of Susan Stumer. The funeral will be held Thursday, January 9th at 1:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels in Forest Hills. Burial to follow at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the Stumer home. Please contact the office for - [Passing of Lenard Brafman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/12/passing-of-lenard-brafman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Lenard Brafman, son of our long time members William Brafman z'l and Eleanor Brafman z'l. The funeral will be held at Shwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapel, 114-03 Queens Blvd. in Forest Hills on Friday, December 6th at 9:30 AM. Burial at Riverside Cemetary in Saddle Brook, NJ at 11:45 - [Upcoming Family Connections Events](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/11/upcoming-family-connections-events/) - The weather is getting colder and we are gearing up for a warm and busy year! Here is a list of our upcoming events. As always, contact Nicole with any questions. - [Passing of Barry Wheatman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/11/passing-of-barry-wheatman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Barry Wheatman, husband of our Marathon Legacy member Kathie Wheatman. The funeral will be held, Wednesday, November 6th at 9:00 AM at Sinai Chapels of Great Neck, 55 N. Station Plaza, Great Neck, NY. Burial to follow at Wellwood Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed - [Passing of David Levine z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/11/passing-of-david-levine-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of David Levine, son of our legacy Marathon congregants, Adele & Sheldon Levine. The funeral was this past Friday in California. Shiva will be observed at Adele & Sheldon's home, 51-10 248th Street in Little Neck through Thursday morning. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Iris Gerhardt Kelley z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/10/passing-of-iris-gerhardt-kelley-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Iris Gerhardt Kelley, sister of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Linda Silverman. The funeral will be held on Monday, October 28 in Texas. Linda will be observing shiva in Texas before returning home to Queens. She can be reached on her cell phone at (917) 306-3186, or by - [Passing of Saul Singer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/10/passing-of-saul-singer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Saul Singer, brother of our Hollis Hills congregant, Marilyn Singer. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, October 9 in San Diego. Shiva will be observed at the Singer/Geltman home, 78-29 223rd Street, Thursday from 10 AM - 5 PM and Friday from 10 AM - 3 PM. - [Passing of Allyson Rosenberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/10/passing-of-allyson-rosenberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Allyson Rosenberg, wife of Ethan Rosenberg and daughter-in-law of our long time Hollis Hills congregants Robyn & Marc Rosenberg. The funeral was held in New Jersey on Wednesday, October 2nd. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Stan Gabay z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/passing-of-stan-gabay-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Stan Gabay, brother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, Victor Gabay. The funeral will be held Sunday, September 29th at 2 PM graveside at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at the home of Stan's widow, Irene Gabay, 5303 Veterans Dr. in Wharton, NJ - [Passing of Roslyn Bernstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/passing-of-roslyn-bernstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Hollis Hills congregant, Roslyn Bernstein, wife of Arnold Bernstein. The funeral was held on Sunday, September 29th. Burial was at Wellwood Cemetary. Shiva will be held at the Bernstein home, 69-16 260th Place in Glen Oaks Monday from 3-7 PM, Tuesday from 3-7 PM and Wednesday from - [Passing of Sharon Davis Kaplan z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/passing-of-sharon-davis-kaplan-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sharon Davis Kaplan, mother of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant, James Kaplan. The funeral will be held Wednesday, October 2nd at 11:30 AM graveside at Congregation B'nai Israel Cemetery, Grocholl Road, Fleishchmanns, NY. Shiva will end with the start of Rosh Hashanah on Wednesday evening. To express condolences - [Passing of Neal Drabman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/passing-of-neal-drabman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Neal Drabman, a friend of the shul and a regular at our daily minyan in recent years. The funeral will be held on Thursday, September 19, at 10:45 AM at Jerusalem Memorial Chapel, 3026 Hempstead Turnpike in Levittown, NY. Burial will follow at United Hebrew Cemetery, 122 Arthur - [Passing of Joan Thau z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/09/passing-of-joan-thau-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Joan Thau, mother of our Marathon Legacy members Ivy Messer and Jeff Thau. The funeral will be held today, Tuesday, September 3rd at 1:15 PM graveside at Cedar Park and Beth El Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Please meet at the Chapel, Gravesite to follow. Jeff and Ivy will be - [Passing of Michael Sosnick z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/08/passing-of-michael-sosnick-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Michael Sosnick, brother of our Marathon Legacy member Laura Rovin. The funeral will be held today, Wednesday, August 28th at 12:00 PM at Schwartz Bros Funeral Home on Queens Boulevard. Burial to follow at Mount Golda Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at 716 Brower Avenue in - [Passing of Michael Kossin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/08/passing-of-michael-kossin-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our legacy Marathon congregant Michael Kossin, husband of Lori. The funeral will be on Sunday, August 11th at 1:30 PM, at Jerusalem Memorial Chapels, 3026 Hempstead Turnpike, in Levittown. Burial to follow at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at Lori's home, 61-28 245th Place, in - [Passing of Lucille Judith Kupietz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/08/passing-of-lucille-judith-kupietz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Lucille Judith Kupietz, mother of our long-time congregant and Men's Club President, Neil Cohen. The funeral will be held Sunday, August 4th at 1:30 PM, at Schwartz Brothers Funeral Home on Queens Boulevard. Burial at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at Lucille's apartment, North Shore - [Passing of Shirley Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/07/passing-of-shirley-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Shirley Cohen, mother of our longtime office administrator, Nancy Morse. A private graveside funeral will be held on Wednesday, July 17th, in Providence, RI. The family will be sitting Shiva in RI. To express condolences to Nancy and family, you can write to her at office@etzhayimhhb.org. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort - [Passing of Joan Green z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/06/passing-of-joan-green-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant, Joan Green, mother of Jill Green. The funeral will be held Wednesday, June 19th at 11:30 AM, at Schwartz Brothers Funeral Home on Queens Boulevard. Burial at Sharon Gardens, 273 Lakeview Avenue in Valhalla, NY. Shiva will be observed at Joan's apartment, 67-00 192 St., - [Passing of Dr. Martin Valins z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/06/passing-of-dr-martin-valins-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Dr. Martin Valins, husband of Roberta Valins. The funeral will be held Sunday, June 9 in Lake Worth Florida. The family will be sitting Shiva in Florida. Roberta can be reached at 929-441-0640 or by email at bvalins@aol.com. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Lenore Hanau z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/06/passing-of-lenore-hanau-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills Congregant, Lenore Hanau. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, June 5th at 11 AM at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be held at the home of Larry and Sharon Hanau, 215 Seton Drive, New Rochelle, NY 10804 on the - [Passing of Vera Goldenberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/05/passing-of-vera-goldenberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Vera Goldenberg, mother of Jake Goldenberg z'l and Grandmother of Monica & Michael Goldenberg. The graveside funeral was held today at 2:30 PM at New Montefiore Cemetery. Shiva will be observed at the Goldenberg home,82-08 Abingdon Road in Kew Gardens starting this afternoon until Monday morning, June 3. - [Passing of Dov Troy z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/05/passing-of-dov-troy-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dov Troy, past long time congregant, and father of Tevi Troy. The funeral will be held at 10:30am on Sunday at Torchinsky (254 Carroll Street NW, DC, 20012). It will be live-streamed on Zoom at https://sites.google.com/view/bernard-troy-funeral/home. Shiva hours The family will sit shiva Sunday-Tuesday at the house of Dan and - [Shabbat Metzora'/Hagadol 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/04/shabbat-metzora-hagadol-5784/) - Dear Friends, Little did Judy and I know when we concluded last year's seder with leshanah haba-ah birushalayim, "New Year in Jerusalem," how much the Jewish world and life in Israel would have changed by the next Pesah. Indeed, we are spending Pesah 5784 in Yerushalayim, but not because of the arrival of the messianic redemption. - [Passing of Elliot Moskowitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/03/passing-of-elliot-moskowitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Elliot Moskowitz, brother of our long time congregant Marjorie Lesch. The funeral will be held Thursday, March 28th at 11 AM at Riverside Memorial Chapel, 180 West 76th Street in New York City. Burial at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be held at the Lesch home, 60 - [Passing of Andrew Messer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/03/passing-of-andrew-messer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Andrew Messer, brother of our Marathon JC congregant Ira Messer. The funeral will be held today, March 26th at 2 PM at Cedar Park Cemetery, the Beth El Cemetery section, 735 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ. Ira will be sitting Shiva for the week at his home at 252-21 60th Avenue - [Shabbat Pekudei 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/03/shabbat-pekudei-5784/) - The Thursday lunch-and-learn group started a new course last week--a look at the weekly haftarah. For the next year, I'll use this space to share something that didn't make it into our class discussion. The architectural details of the Torah reading, Pekudei can numb us to a moment of profound excitement in the Torah reading. On the - [Shabbat Ki-Tissa 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/03/shabbat-ki-tissa-5784/) - The Thursday lunch-and-learn group started a new course last week--a look at the weekly haftarah. For the next year, I'll use this space to share something that didn't make it into our class discussion. Eliyahu took an enormous gamble when he arranged a contest on Mount Carmel. He, the solitary remaining prophet of God, faced - [Shabbat Tetzaveh 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/02/shabbat-tetzaveh-5784/) - The Thursday lunch-and-learn group started a new course last week--a look at the weekly haftarah. For the next year, I'll use this space to share something that didn't make it into our class discussion. For the second consecutive week, our Torah portion and haftarah focus on the minutiae of the mishkan and mikdash, the portable and stationary sanctuaries of ancient - [Shabbat Terumah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/02/shabbat-terumah-5784/) - The Thursday lunch-and-learn group started a new course this week--a look at the weekly haftarah. For the next year, I'll use this space to share something that didn't make it into our class discussion. In Haftarat Terumah, we read of King Solomon's project to build the Temple. There was something out-of-the-ordinary about the stones that were - [Passing of Frances Richard z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/02/passing-of-frances-richard-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Frances Richard. The funeral will be held on Sunday, February 11 at 11:15 AM at Hungarian Union Field Cemetery, 82-11 Cypress Ave in Ridgewood. The funeral will be live streamed via Zoom. Please click the link below to join: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82603000152 Webinar ID: 826 0300 0152 - [Shabbat Yitro 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/02/shabbat-yitro-5784/) - Jewish tradition has many metaphors to attempt to describe God. Look through the siddur or Humash and you'll find no shortage of names that are descriptions of the roles we believe God can play. Sometimes, God is Ish Milhamah, "Man of War," as last week's Song at the Sea said. Every morning in our prayers, we refer to God as Tzur - [Shabbat Beshalah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/shabbat-beshalah-5784/) - Not long after the Exodus, not long after the rescue at the Sea of Reeds, not long after the miraculous sweetening of water to quench their thirst, the Israelites have another crisis. This time, it's about food. And their anxiety triggers memories of the good old days: "If only we had died by the hand - [Shabbat Bo 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/shabbat-bo-5784/) - If you ever think that putting up a mezuzah is challenging, consider the origins of the practice. God told Moshe and Aharon to command the Israelites to take a lamb and slaughter it at home. Next, "they shall take some of the blood and put it on the two doorposts (mezuzot) and the lintel of the houses - [Shabbat Shemot 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/shabbat-shemot-5784/) - And I wanted to begin this dvar Torah on the second book of the Torah by reminding us all that one must never begin a sentence with a conjunction. Let alone a paragraph. Let alone a book! But (oops, I did it again) that's exactly how Sefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, begins. "Ve-eleh shemot Bnei Yisrael--And these - [Passing of Bruce Hambro z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/passing-of-bruce-hambro-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bruce Hambro, brother of our long-time congregant Vicki Blumenfeld. The funeral will be held on Friday, January 5 at 10:00 AM in Brookline, MA. To view the funeral on livestream, click here, look for Bruce's obituary, and the link will be available. Shiva visits will be by Zoom only on - [Shabbat Vayehi 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2024/01/shabbat-vayehi-5784/) - As we come to the end of Sefer Bereshit, the Book of Genesis, we read Ya'akov's farewell to his sons. Famously, at the end of his life, he says: "Come together that I may tell you what is to befall you in days to come" (Genesis 49:1). And then, he proceeds to...say something very different to - [Shabbat Vayigash 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/12/shabbat-vayigash-5784/) - On Wednesday morning, as I studied my 929 Project daily chapter of Tanakh, I realized that it sounded very familiar. Ezekiel 37 begins with the famous vision of the Valley of Dry Bones. But then it continued with another metaphor, one that sounded even more familiar. Then it hit me that this passage was the - [Shabbat Miketz 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/12/shabbat-miketz-5784/) - When the Torah wants to say that something exists or will exist in unimaginable quantity, it uses the term "kehol hayam--like the sand of the sea." We recognize this expression from the promise to Avraham about the number of his offspring (an analogy that alternates with "stars in the heavens"). This week, in Parshat Miketz, it - [Shabbat Vayeshev/Hanukkah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/12/shabbat-vayeshev-hanukkah-5784/) - As if the sibling rivalries of earlier generations didn't produce enough anxiety for the Biblical reader, now we have a generation with a dozen brothers from four different mothers, and there's even more rivalry. From chapter 37 of Genesis until the end of the book, we are telling the story of Yosef, who becomes the - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5784/) - After all the practical and emotional preparation that went into his encounter with Esav after 20 years of estrangement, you can imagine that Ya'akov figured he was entitled to some peace and quiet. The Torah narrates that this expectation is fulfilled: "Vayavo Ya'akov shalem 'ir Shekhem--Jacob arrived safe in the city of Shekehm..." (Genesis 33:18). - [Passing of Ellen Sue Rhoden z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/passing-of-ellen-sue-rhoden-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ellen Sue Rhoden, sister of our long-time congregant Bob Gropper. The funeral will be held on Monday, November 20 at 10:00 AM graveside at Mount Hebron Cemetery, 130-04 Horace Harding Expressway, in Queens. Shiva will be observed at the Gropper home, 78-09 221 St. in Hollis Hills from - [Shabbat Toldot 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/shabbat-toldot-5784/) - Yitzhak suffers from Middle Patriarch Syndrome. In most of the Torah's narrative about him, he is passive, primarily acted upon. Think of the Akedah, in which is literally bound to an altar, and the story of Rivkah and Ya'akov deceiving him into giving the blessing to the younger of his twin sons. But this week's Torah - [Passing of Diane Gottlieb z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/passing-of-diane-gottlieb-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Diane Goldman Gottlieb. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, November 15th at 12:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial at Old Montefiore Cemetery in Springfield Gardens. The family will be sitting Shiva at Diane's home, 219-09 Peck Avenue on - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5784/) - Though Avraham has just buried his beloved wife Sarah, the Torah anticipates his final years as truly golden. "Avraham was now old, advanced in years; and the LORD had blessed Avraham in all things" (Genesis 24:1). The Hebrew word translated as "in all things" is bakol. Of course, the narrative that follows focuses on the one - [Shabbat Vayera 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/11/shabbat-vayera-5784/) - Last week, we learned about the entourage that accompanied Avram and Sarai as they made their way toward the Promised Land. Commenting on the phrase about that entourage, "and the persons they had acquired in Haran" (Genesis 12:5), Rashi described these people--literally nefesh, "souls," as the newest converts to the belief in one God. "[These were] - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5784/) - If you hear or read anyone saying that Judaism has a clear teaching that should be guiding Israel's strategy to secure the release of the more than 220 people held hostage in Gaza, you should be deeply skeptical. That's because there is no way that such a complex moral issue can have one clear answer. - [Passing of Bonnie Epstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/passing-of-bonnie-epstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bonnie Epstein, wife of our Hollis Hills congregant Stanley Epstein. The funeral will be held on Sunday, October 22 at 11:30 AM at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 175 N. Long Beach Road in Rockville Center. Burial at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the home - [Passing of Donna Ludwig z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/passing-of-donna-ludwig-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Donna Ludwig, mother of our congregant Richard Ludwig. The funeral will be held on Sunday, October 22 at 12 PM at Riverside Nassau North Chapel, 55 N. Station Plaza, in Great Neck. Burial at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of - [Shabbat Noah 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/shabbat-noah-5784/) - In the beginning, God created the world, with humanity as the crowning achievement. Ten generations later, God regretted creating humanity and destroyed almost all of it. And then God made a rainbow as a promise that never again would God bring such a deluge upon us. I've been thinking a lot about the promise and - [Shabbat Bereshit 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/shabbat-bereshit-5784/) - The very same Torah portion that includes the creation of humankind Betzelem Elohim, in the Divine image, also includes the first destruction of a human being, Cain's murder of Abel. Nahum Sarna, in his JPS commentary on Genesis, captures the literary power of this story: "The first recorded death is not from natural causes but by - [Shemini Atzeret 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/10/shemini-atzeret-5784/) - The chapter we are reading from Kohelet this year begins with one of every rabbi's favorite texts for use in a eulogy. Tov shem mishemen tov, "A good name is better than fragrant oil"(Ecclesiastes 7:1). As Michael V. Fox wrote in his JPS Commentary to the biblical scroll, "The words themselves glide like oil" (The JPS Bible - [Sukkot 5784](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/09/sukkot-5784/) - Ushpizin is one of the most beloved Israeli films. Written by and starring the beloved Israeli actor and musician Shul Rand, the 2004 movie told the story of a devout Bratslav hasidic man, his love of his wife, their prayers for a child, and his checkered past. It was a sensation in America, and in Israel, religious - [Shabbat Nitzavim-Vayelekh 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/09/shabbat-nitzavim-vayelekh-5783/) - On this final Shabbat of 5783, we don't quite finish the Torah, but we're pretty close to the end. Think about where we are, and where Moshe and the Israelites are in the Torah. We both stand at a threshold, ready to cross from one state to another. For us, that transition is in the - [Passing of Irene Epstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/09/passing-of-irene-epstein-zl-5783/) - We are saddened by the passing of Irene Epstein, mother of our Hollis Hills congregant Stanley Epstein. The funeral was held on Sunday in Montreal. Throughout the week, Stanley will be sitting shiva at home, but we request that people refrain from making visits. He can be reached by phone at 718-740-3549 (home) or - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5783/) - Though the bad news in this week's parshah, Ki-Tavo, gets most of the attention, there's also some good news. Before the tokhekhah, the long warning of what will befall Israel if they aren't faithful to God and the covenant, the Torah also includes blessings. Given that the context is the impending conquest of the Promised Land, military success or - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/08/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5783/) - It may be enshrined in Hollywood, but nowhere in Judaism do we find marriage vows, and certainly none that include "till death do us part." Divorce is established as an authentic possibility as early as the Biblical era, as we find in this week's Torah portion, Ki-Teitzei: When a marriage goes sour, "he writes her a - [Shabbat Shofetim 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/08/shabbat-shofetim-5783/) - We encounter the Hebrew word tam, and its close relative tamim, in several places in our tradition. Maybe the most familiar is the third of the four children in the Pesah Haggadah. Tam, mah hu omer? "What does the tam child say? We've seen this translated as "simple," "pure," even "stupid." This variety of translations means that we don't have unanimity about - [Shabbat Re-eh 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/08/shabbat-re-eh-5783/) - It's been a long time since I was a regular South Park viewer, so until today I was not aware of a sketch from 2021 that became a pop culture phenomenon and viral meme (see me at kiddush if you need that translated). In this episode, the incorrigible and profane Eric Cartman goes with his mother on - [Shabbat Devarim 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/07/shabbat-devarim-5783/) - We always make a big deal out of completing one of the books of the humash. We did just that last Shabbat, chanting hazak hazak venithazek--"be strong, be strong, and we will be strengthened"--in honor of the person who had the final aliyah of Sefer BeMidbar. We stand for the final verse of the book. It's a moment of pomp - [Passing of Tishawn Folkes-Taylor z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/06/passing-of-tishawn-folkes-taylor-zl/) - We are saddened by the devastating murder of Tishawn Folkes-Taylor, stepdaughter of our long-time facilities staff member, Tony Crooks. The funeral will be held on Thursday, June 8 at 10 AM at Granby Funeral Home, 4021 White Plains Road in Bronx. Burial will follow at Mt. Hope Cemetery in Hastings-on-Hudson, at Bronx River Parkway and - [Passing of Phyllis Stein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/05/passing-of-phyllis-stein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Phyllis Stein, sister-in-law of our long time congregant, Sandie Altman-Baker. The funeral will be held graveside on Thursday, June 1 at Beth Moses Cemetery, 1500 Wellwood Avenue, West Babylon. Meet at the cemetery office at 9:45 AM. Shiva will be observed at the home of Marilyn Blaine, - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5783/) - It may well be that the only reason I got into the college program of my choice was because of the phenomenon of "rounding up." Though my grades may have come up a few percentage points short of the score I needed, I suspect my teachers gave me a boost. Having been a teacher myself, - [Shabbat Behar-Behukotai 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/05/shabbat-behar-behukotai-5783/) - The covenant of Sinai, of which we haven't heard much since the Book of Exodus, is revisited in Parshat Behar, the first of our two Torah portions this Shabbat. We read of the laws of Shemittah, or as the sabbatical year is called in this part of the Torah, "Shabbat Ha-aretz," the Sabbath of the Land. Included in - [Shabbat Emor 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/05/shabbat-emor-5783/) - Every Pesah, I hear this refrain from at least a couple of people: "Oh, I like matzah. I eat it all year round." For those who enjoy matzah "off-season," Friday is good news. It's Pesah Sheini, the make-up Passover that the Torah ordains for those who were ritually ineligible to observe the Pesah sacrifice at its proper time. Some people observe the - [Passing of Zena Barsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/04/passing-of-zena-barsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time Hollis Hills congregant Zena Barsky. The funeral will be held on Monday, April 24 at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd. Burial to follow at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Hawthorne, NY. Shiva will be observed at the home of Jay and - [Shabbat Tazria'-Metzora'](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/04/shabbat-tazria-metzora/) - Much of the content of this week's two Torah portions, Tazria' and Metzora', address how the priesthood was to deal with people afflicted with skin ailments. But it's not just a training manual for kohanim. It also includes guidance for the one who is afflicted and affected. See, for example, this verse: "As for the person with a leprous - [Passing of David Schmais z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/03/passing-of-david-schmais-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of David Schmais, brother of our Hollis Hills congregant Naomi Horowitz. At this time there is no funeral or Shiva information to share. Naomi can be reached for condolences at 718-740-6174 or nhorowitzq@gmail.com. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Tzav/HaGadol 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/03/shabbat-tzav-hagadol-5783/) - How long does your Seder last? It probably doesn't run quite as long as the Seder of the FIve Sages, about whom we read in the Haggadah: "An incident happened with Rabbi Eliezer, Rabbi Yehoshu'a, Rabbi El'azar ben 'Azaryah, Rabbi 'Akiva, and Rabbi Tarfon. They were reclining at the table in Bnei Brak, and - [Passing of Eveline Sergold z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/03/passing-of-eveline-sergold-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Eveline Sergold, mother of our Hollis Hills congregant Viviane Verstandig. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, March 28th at 2:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers in Forest Hills. Burial to follow at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Flushing. Shiva will be observed at Viviane's and Steve's home, - [Shabbat Ki Tissa/Parah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/03/shabbat-ki-tissa-parah-5783/) - As the Torah tells it, the tablets that Moshe brought down from the mountain were unlike any other writing sample ever. They were “inscribed on both of their surfaces: they were inscribed on one side and on the other” (Exodus 32:15). Rashi, the great commentator from the 11th century, said that “both sides” doesn’t mean - [Passing of Laura Reich z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/03/passing-of-laura-reich-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Laura Reich, mother of our Hollis Hills congregant Fran Bodner.The funeral will be held tomorrow, Monday, March 6th at 11:00 AM graveside at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ.Shiva will be observed at Fran’s sister’s home, 70 Colgate Road, in Great Neck, from after the funeral until 5:30 - [Shabbat Terumah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/02/shabbat-terumah-5783/) - Beginning this week and continuing for several more, the Torah's attention turns to the Mishkan. God commands Israel to build a sanctuary, the first major fundraising project in Israelite history. Several of the Mishkan's items are to be built with gold and silver. If you wonder where the Israelites got those precious metals, recall that - [Passing of Manuel Soifer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/02/passing-of-manuel-soifer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Oak Hills congregant, Manuel Soifer, father of Scott Soifer. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, February 14th at 10:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels on Queens Boulevard. Burial at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at Scott's home, 57-04 224th - [Shabbat Yitro 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/02/shabbat-yitro-5783/) - One of the most provocative teachings in all of rabbinic literature describes the conditions under which Israel received the Torah. The key word in that sentence is "under." In our Torah portion, Yitro, we read of the preparations for Revelation, for experiencing God and receiving commandments. Moshe positions the people, the Torah tells us, "at - [Shabbat Beshalah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/02/shabbat-beshalah-5783/) - As soon as the Israelites emerge from the miracle at the Sea of Reeds unscathed, they face an entirely new set of challenges. Firstly, they journey three days from a body of water unable to find potable water. The waters they do find are bitter--hence the place is called Marah. Next, they enter the Wilderness - [Passing of Fred Finkelstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/01/passing-of-fred-finkelstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Oak Hills congregant, Fred Finkelstein. The funeral will be held on Monday, January 30, graveside at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Queens, at 1:00 PM. We would like to have a minyan at the cemetery so Fred's brother, who will be joining us remotely, can say Kaddish. - [Shabbat Bo 578](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/01/shabbat-bo-578/) - What was the nature of the plague of Hoshekh, darkness, the ninth calamity that God brought on the Egyptians? The Torah describes a darkness so thick it was tangible. What's more, it prevented Egyptians from any and all movement. "People could not see one another, and for three days no one could move about" (Exodus 10:23). - [Shabbat Shemot 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/01/shabbat-shemot-5783/) - When we first meet Moshe as a grownup, we are introduced to a man of action. He goes out, ostensibly from his sheltered life in the palace, among his People. He sees an Egyptian man beating a Hebrew. "He turned this way and that and, seeing no one about, he struck down the Egyptian and - [Passing of Edith Feldman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/01/passing-of-edith-feldman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Marathon congregant, Edith Feldman. The funeral will be held graveside today, Tuesday, January 10th at 2 PM at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at Edie's home 249-33 61st Avenue, Upstairs apartment, in Little Neck today after the funeral through Thursday. - [Shabbat Vayehi 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2023/01/shabbat-vayehi-5783/) - "What the magic word?" We probably know this expression from our childhood, when we were taught to say things like "please" and "thank you." Or maybe we think of mythic tales with words like "abracadabra," which, by the way, has an Aramaic origin (avra kedabra--I will create as I speak"). As we arrive at the - [Passing of Bernice Lefkowitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/12/passing-of-bernice-lefkowitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bernice Lefkowitz, mother of our Marathon Congregant, Mitchell Lefkowitz. The funeral will be held graveside tomorrow Friday, December 30th at 11 AM at United Hebrew Cemetery, 122 Arthur Kill Road in Staten Island. Sunday and Monday the family will conduct a zoom Shiva minyan at 8 - [Shabbat Vayigash 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/12/shabbat-vayigash-5783/) - As we reach the height of narrative drama in the Yosef story, we encounter the longest speech in Sefer Bereshit. At the end of last week's Torah portion, Miketz, Yosef's "stolen" divining cup has been found in Binyamin's backpack. Despite Yehudah's commitment that all the brothers shall remain in Egypt as slaves, Yosef in his continuing concealed - [Shabbat Miketz/Rosh Hodesh/Hanukkah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/12/shabbat-miketz-rosh-hodesh-hanukkah-5783/) - My go-to resource for all things Hanukkah is the pair of books edited by Noam Zion called A Different Light. These volumes are full of the history and big ideas of what is probably Judaism's best-known holiday. There is no doubt that this holiday is meant to give a boost to Jewish pride; the placing of - [Passing of Joel Barsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/12/passing-of-joel-barsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Joel Barsky, husband of Zena. The funeral will be held Sunday, December 18th at 9 AM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd. in Forest Hills. Burial will be at Mount Pleasant Cemetery, 80 Commerce Street, Hawthorne, NY 10532. Shiva will be - [Passing of Zena Wise z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/passing-of-zena-wise-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Zena Wise, mother of Bryna (and Rabbi Vernon) Kurtz, Leah Wise Torem, and Rabbi David Wise (and Judy Krinitz). The funeral will be held on Thursday, December 1, at 1:15 PM graveside at Pardes Shalom Cemetery in Vaughan, Ontario in the Beth David section. The funeral can - [Shabbat Toledot 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/shabbat-toledot-5783/) - This past Monday, we had the first topical session of our adult education class on Jewish ethics. Using the book Modern Musar: Contested Virtues in Jewish Thought, we explored a variety of attitudes in modern Jewish thought to the topic of honesty and love of truth. And the timing couldn't have been better, since this is - [Passing of Lila B. Fait z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/passing-of-lila-b-fait-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Lila B. Fait, mother of our long-time congregant Susan Meyers. The funeral will be held Tuesday, November 22nd at 2:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapels in Forest Hills. Burial to follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. If you would like to join virtually - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5783/) - Long before When Harry Met Sally became an American classic, the Torah has another story of a couple's first encounter. This week, near the end of Parshat Hayei-Sarah, Rivkah meets Yitzhak. And she has quite the reaction when she does. Or does she? Where Yitzhak, wandering in the field just before nightfall, sees camels, Rivkah sees a - [Shabbat Vayera 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/shabbat-vayera-5783/) - As I mentioned on Rosh Hashanah, I'm engaged daily in the 929 Project, a journey through the entire Hebrew Bible, all 929 chapters of it. Today's chapter, Joshua 13, seems especially timely on the cusp of Veterans Day. The chapter comes after a summary of the conquests of 31 kings and city-states under Joshua's military - [Shabbat Bereshit 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/shabbat-bereshit-5783/) - In English, the expression is "saving the best for last." In Hebrew, it would be "aharon aharon haviv." We humans like this idea, since we are the final element of the first creation story in Genesis 1. After God gives the universe order and structure, after the sun, moon, and stars have been set in - [Passing of Adrienne Meyers z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/11/passing-of-adrienne-meyers-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Adrienne Meyers, mother of our long time congregant Rob Meyers. The funeral will be held Friday, November 4th at 10:00 AM at Menorah Chapels, 2145 Richmond Avenue in Staten Island. Burial to follow at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the home - [Passing of Edith Schaffer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/passing-of-edith-schaffer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Oak Hills congregant, Edith Schaffer, wife of Walter Schaffer. The funeral will be held graveside at 11:30 AM Thursday, October 27th at Mt. Hebron Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be observed on Sunday, October 30 only at the homes of Edith's children: Robert, 124 Triangle - [Passing of Arthur Barsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/passing-of-arthur-barsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Arthur Barsky, brother of our congregant Joel Barsky. The funeral will be held graveside at 11:00 AM Thursday, October 27th at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, 80 Commerce Street, Hawthorne, NY 10532. The phone number for the cemetery is 914-769-0397. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort - [Passing of Nellie Belopolsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/passing-of-nellie-belopolsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Queens Village congregant, Nellie Belopolsky. Condolences can be sent to Nellie's daughter, Nancy Fisher, 134 N. Broadway, Nyack, NY 10960. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Gregory Sirota z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/passing-of-gregory-sirota-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Gregory Sirota, father of our congregant, Eugene Sirota. The funeral will be held on Friday, October 21st at 11:30 AM at Lisovetsky Memorial Home, 1283 Coney Island Avenue, Brooklyn, NY. Burial at 2:00 PM at Mt. Sinai Cemetery in Morganville, NJ. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the - [Shabbat Hol HaMo'ed Sukkot 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5783/) - In keeping with our custom to explore a chapter of Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, on Sukkot, I tried making sense of chapter 6 of this Biblical scroll. When I read the last verse of the chapter, I felt that the text was "throwing shade" at me. Do you know that expression? The urban dictionary defines it as "acting - [Shabbat Ha-azinu 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/10/shabbat-ha-azinu-5782/) - The very first tallit clips I had--you know, the thing that keeps my tallit from sliding off my non-existent shoulders--had sweet words on each clasp. "Like an eagle who rouses its nestlings, gliding down to its young." Those words are half of a verse in this week's Torah portion, Ha-azinu. The verse continues speaking of the eagle: "So did [God] - [Shabbat Vayelekh/Shuvah 5783](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/09/shabbat-vayelekh-shuvah-5783/) - While in our era, the rabbinic sermon is a regular part of Shabbat and holy day services, formal preaching in the synagogue was not so common in previous centuries. But Shabbat Shuvah, the Shabbat between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, was a big day for preaching. In fact, the title given to the preacher on that Shabbat was "the - [Shabbat Hukkat/Balak 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/shabbat-hukkat-balak-5780/) - Dear Friends, Ever since Shavu'ot, we have been out of sync with our Israeli sisters and brothers. For us, that Yom Tov was Friday and Shabbat; they only observed Friday, and resumed the Torah reading cycle on Shabbat. So we've been a week and parshah behind them. This is the week we catch - [Shabbat Miketz 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/shabbat-miketz-5781/) - As you know. we have moved temporarily to the triennial Torah reading on Shabbat mornings, for the purposes of keeping the people who come indoors to make a minyan a little more safe. This week, while we'll again read the middle third of the portion, we have a special treat. Janet Hiller-Jacobowitz prepared the first - [Shabbat Vayikra 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/shabbat-vayikra-5782/) - This week, we begin reading the third book of the Torah, which has several names. In Hebrew, it's known by its opening word, Vayikra, which literally means "And He called." But the rabbis of antiquity referred to this book as Torat Kohanim, "the Priestly Instruction." That name actually bears more than just a passing resemblance to the - [ CAN THERE BE JEWISHNESS AND SPIRITUALITY WITHOUT” GOD-CENTRICITY”](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/can-there-be-jewishness-and-spirituality-without-god-centricity/) - CAN THERE BE JEWISHNESS AND SPIRITUALITY WITHOUT” GOD-CENTRICITY” (for DIH with love and respect) The question arises “can I be spiritual and have a sense of connected Jewishness without stressing the primacy of God and a relationship with God? I have known proclaimed atheists who are still very spiritual people. I know secular, non-observant - [Sing A New Song to the Lord](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/sing-a-new-song-to-the-lord/) - SING A NEW SONG “Shiru l’Hashem shir chadash” sing unto the Lord a new song. This is the opening verse of several of the psalms. They include two of the psalms recited before “L’cha Dodi” on Friday evening during the Kabbalat Shabbat service and one psalm which is recited every morning as part of the - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/09/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5782/) - There isn't a person alive who didn't aggravate his or her parents, at least a little. Some of us, or our children, may have even been a tad rebellious. Some may have exceeded the "a tad" part. But it remains jarring to me on an annual basis when we read Parshat Ki-Teitzei, to encounter the law - [Shabbat Shofetim 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/09/shabbat-shofetim-5782/) - Tzedek tzedek tirdof--"Justice, justice, shall you pursue." Few verses are as familiar and frequently quoted as this one from this week's Torah reading, Shofetim. Maybe it's the doubling of the word tzedek that makes it even more memorable than other verses that invoke the word and the theme of justice. So why is tzedek there in duplicate? My favorite - [Shabbat Re-eh/Rosh Hodesh 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/shabbat-re-eh-rosh-hodesh-5782/) - The Book of Deuteronomy is relentless in its demands that the Israelites, upon conquering the Promised Land, leave no trace of idolatry. This is a point of emphasis near the beginning of this week's reading, Parshat Re-eh. After instructing them on the demolition of all idolatrous shrines, to the point that the names of foreign gods - [Passing of Arthur Isman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/passing-of-arthur-isman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills congregant, Arthur Isman. The funeral will be held graveside on Friday, August 26th at 11 AM at Beth Moses Cemetery in West Babylon. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Ekev 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/shabbat-ekev-5782/) - One morning back in my JTS days, a group of students was finishing up breakfast after morning minyan, getting ready to head to our first class of the day. A faculty member, beloved for his authenticity as a serious scholar and religious thinker, walked over to our table and pointed to a JTS bentscher--the small booklet - [Shabbat Vaet-hanan 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/08/shabbat-vaet-hanan-5782/) - As I said in my sermon last Shabbat morning, the end of Tish'ah BeAv, the most mournful day of the Jewish year, signals a turn to hope. Right on the heels of this day of fasting and dirges comes Tu BeAv, the 15th day of the month. This day, which coincides with Friday, is one of the - [Passing of Robert Goodman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/07/passing-of-robert-goodman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Robert Goodman, brother of our congregant, Joan Green and Uncle of our Congregant, Jill Green. The funeral will be held graveside on Sunday, July 24th at 10:45 AM at Sharon Gardens Cemetery, 273 Lakeview Ave, Valhalla, NY. In-person shiva will be private for family only Sunday - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5782/) - When the scouts return from reconnoitering the Promised Land, their panic proves to be contagious. The Israelites bewail their predicament, longing for a more peaceful death. They would rather have perished in Egypt and would even accept death in the wilderness. Anything would be better than to die by the sword of the giant enemy - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5782/) - The wilderness journey gets underway this Shabbat, but while the Israelites are supposed to be going north, their experience quickly goes south. Despite gifts of Divine accompaniment, a reliable notification system, and a steady diet of manna, the Israelites begin to complain with such bitterness (and irony) that Moshe is ready to give up. Instead - [Passing of Charles Levitt z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/passing-of-charles-levitt-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Charles Levitt, husband of Marcia Levitt. The funeral will be held on Sunday, June 19th, at 9:30 AM at Riverside-Nassau North Chapels, 55 N Station Road in Great Neck. Burial will follow at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed - [Shabbat Naso 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/shabbat-naso-5782/) - This week we read Parshat Naso, which is dominated by the longest chapter in the Humash. That's where we read of the gifts brought by each tribe to the dedication of the altar. Each gift is identical, yet the Torah records each separately, to emphasize the devotion of each and every tribe. Earlier in the Torah portion, - [REFLECTIONS ON COUNTING THE OMER](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/06/reflections-on-counting-the-omer/) - REFLECTIONS ON COUNTING THE OMER We are told in Leviticus 23:15-16 starting with the eve of the second day of Pesach, (when in temple times we are to bring an omer of barley as an offering) we are to count seven weeks, 49 days. The day after the end of seven weeks will make fifty - [Shabbat Behukotai 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/shabbat-behukotai-5782/) - This week, I am going to share music of a different nature. Our Torah portion, Behukotai, includes a long warning about what can happen to the Israelites if they do not adhere to God's commandments. It's not a pretty picture, and it seems that societies unmoored from basic decency are liable to fall apart. Their decline - [Shabbat Behar 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/shabbat-behar-5782/) - Parshat Behar is small but mighty! It introduces us to Shemittah and Yovel, the sabbatical and jubilee years. Its focus is economic, not environmental. It also emphasizes the transitory nature of property, both real estate and moveable assets. The forgiveness of debt is a powerful reminder that nothing is truly ours to own forever. Judaism - [Passing of Elena Eisdorfer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/passing-of-elena-eisdorfer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Elena Eisdorfer, mother of our congregant David Adar. The funeral will be held on Sunday, May 8, graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island at 1 PM (meet at the main office at 12:45). Shiva will be observed throughout the week at Elena's home, 73-63 - [Shabbat Emor 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/shabbat-emor-5782/) - From the moment we began reading about the building of the Mishkan, we have been immersed in a pursuit of orderliness. That is the primary fascination of the Priestly strand of the Torah, and it continues to dominate this week's Torah portion, Emor. Our portion can be divided into three units. The first two are laws governing - [Shabbat Kedoshim 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/shabbat-kedoshim-5782/) - This week we read Parshat Kedoshim, continuing the unit of Leviticus known as the Holiness Code. Chapter 19 is in many ways the epicenter of the Torah, its moral and ethical foundation, as it prescribes behavior for the ideal society in its pursuit of kedushah. We ought to be able to find some good music connected to - [Passing of Mayer Smith z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/05/passing-of-mayer-smith-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Mayer Smith, father of our congregant Steve Glushakow-Smith. The funeral will be held today, Wednesday, May 4th graveside in Virginia. Steve will be observing Shiva at his home 209-20 18th Avenue in Bay Terrace. Please call 718-423-5824 before making a visit. Please be advised that there - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/04/shabbat-aharei-mot-5782/) - This week, instead of my usual musical selections that are connected to the Torah portion, I'm sharing some of the songs I'll be referencing in my dvar Torah Shabbat morning. With Yom Ha'atzmaut just days away, it's great for us to get in the mood to celebrate Israel with some great Israeli music! Please click the links below for - [OUR OWN RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/04/our-own-relationship-with-god/) - YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD To me, a big part of religious involvement is developing and understanding a relationship with God. I understand that this is not necessarily true of everyone. I understand that there are people who feel a connection to, and who observe religious tradition without a deep sense of connectedness to God - [Shabbat Metzora'/HaGadol 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/04/shabbat-metzora-hagadol-5782/) - On Shabbat HaGadol, our attention turns even more sharply to Pesah. It's a time for great excitement, anticipation, and joy. At the same time, these past two weeks have been very difficult for our People, with a spate of terror attacks on Israelis in residential settings. So this week's musical selections focus more on the events that - [WHO BENEFITS FROM MOURNERS' KADDISH](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/who-benefits-from-mourners-kaddish/) - WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF MOURNERS’ KADDISH? There are several different versions of the statement we know as Kaddish. There is the full Kaddish, an abbreviated one we call Hatzi Kaddish, a longer Kaddish d’Rabbanan we say after Torah study and a couple of others. The best-known version, to most of the Jewish community, - [Shabbat Tazri'a/Hahodesh 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/04/shabbat-tazria-hahodesh-5782/) - This Shabbat, we will experience what can only happen at most twice a year: reading from three Sifrei Torah. We start with the weekly portion, Tazri'a, and continue the priestly emphasis on holiness and ritual purity. Since it's Rosh Hodesh Nisan, we read the passage from Numbers that ordains additional sacrifices (musaf) for special occasions, starting with - [Passing of Anita Colman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/passing-of-anita-colman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Anita Colman, mother of our congregant Larry Colman. The funeral will be held on Friday, April 1, at Star of David Memorial Chapel, 1236 N. Wellwood Avenue in West Babylon. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery, down the road from the chapel. Shiva will be - [Shabbat Shemini/Parah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/shabbat-shemini-parah-5782/) - Like the rest of Leviticus, this week's Torah portion, Shemini, is laser-focused on holiness. It's important to appreciate what kedushah meant in ancient religion: it was all about distinctions. The new priestly family of Aharon and Sons had to maintain distinctiveness in dress and in behavior. Whatever Nadav and Avihu did in offering "strange fire," their deaths are a - [Passing of Rebecca Ross z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/passing-of-rebecca-ross-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of HHJC founding member Rebecca Ross, mother of Karen Ross. Rebecca was very active in Sisterhood and Hadassah at HHJC. The funeral will be held graveside on Tuesday, March 22 at 9:30 AM at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the home of - [Shabbat Tzav 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/shabbat-tzav-5782/) - We continue reading the instructions about the different sacrifices this week in Parshat Tzav. Once the Torah lays out all these details, it's time to plan the big event--the initiation of formal worship in the mishkan. This is shaping up to be a great event in the lives of Aharon, the new High Priest, and his sons. - [MEETING GOD HALF-WAY](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/meeting-god-half-way/) - PERSONAL RESPOSIBILITY There is an old joke. An old man is shaking a fist at God. He says “Dear Lord, I’ve been a pious man all my life. I observe the mitzvot. I am ethical and kind in my dealings with my fellow man. I pray regularly in shul. I have only asked one - [Passing of David Karsch z'l Shiva Update](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/passing-of-david-karsch-zl-shiva-update/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, David Karsch, husband of Charlotte. The funeral will be held on Sunday, March 6 at 1:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at Charlotte's home, 85-48 214th - [Passing of David Karsch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/passing-of-david-karsch-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, David Karsch, husband of Charlotte. The funeral will be held on Sunday, March 6 at 1:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva information to follow. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort - [Shabbat Pekudei 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/03/shabbat-pekudei-5782/) - In this final Torah portion of Sefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, Moshe puts the finishing touches on the Mishkan. Parshat Pekudei has a common refrain: "As the LORD commanded Moses," reminiscent of the refrain at the end of the first creation story in Genesis 1: "And it was evening, and it was morning, day x." The Torah is being - [A PRE-PURIM DELIGHT THAT CAME FROM ISRAEL ABOUT OUR VERY OWN CANTOR SOL ZIM...](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/a-pre-purim-delight-that-came-from-israel-about-our-very-own-cantor-sol-zim/) - A PRE-PURIM DELIGHT THAT CAME FROM ISRAEL ABOUT OUR VERY OWN CANTOR SOL ZIM... AFTER READING THE BELOW ARTICLE, CLICK ON THE LINK BELOW FOR A VERY SPECIAL MUSICAL TREAT ********************************************** On the eve of Shabbat Mevarchim of month Adar II, the "Yuval" archive "remembers" the "Miracles and Wonders" concert, which we held - [Shabbat Vayakhel/Shekalim 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/shabbat-vayakhel-shekalim-5782/) - In addition to continuing the regular sequence of Torah portions, this week sees the beginning of the four special readings in the weeks leading up to Pesah. After reading Parshat Vayakhel, which tells of the fulfilment of many of the recently given instructions to build the mishkan, we turn to Maftir Shekalim, where we find the poll tax. That - [Passing of Herbert Benario z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/passing-of-herbert-benario-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Herbert Benario, brother of our Oak Hills legacy congregant Lenore Hanau. Lenore will be observing shiva at home until Monday morning and is reachable at (718) 225-6310. On Sunday, February 27, minhah/ma'ariv services will be held at her home, 50-32 201st St. in Oakland Gardens, at 5:30 - [Shabbat Ki Tissa 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/shabbat-ki-tissa-5782/) - While this week's Torah reading, Ki Tissa, doesn't begin with great drama, it soon turns to one of the most troubling narratives in all of Torah. The Israelites, unable to tolerate Moshe's absence, insist that Aharon build them a replacement. Het Ha'Egel, the Sin of the Golden Calf, is a stain on almost everyone involved. Not even - [THE BEAUTY OF HOME OBSERVANCE](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/the-beauty-of-home-observance/) - BRING IT HOME Enhancing spirituality and knowledge in the synagogue are, to me, important parts of growth as a Jew and as a human being. Paying attention to my obligations to God in ritual behavior (prayer, using tallit and t’fillin, being part a minyan) are important, perhaps vital, to a full Jewish life. I say - [Shabbat Tetzaveh 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/shabbat-tetzaveh-5782/) - The Mishkan is our continued focus this week, as we read about pure olive oil and sacred clothing. As we encounter Parshat Tetzaveh, we find Moshe instructed to get his brother and nephews ready for their forthcoming priestly roles with bigdei kodesh, "sacral vestments." In this particular case, clothes make the man--the uniform is a key component of the - [Shabbat Terumah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/shabbat-terumah-5782/) - The next several Torah portions contain the detailed instructions for the building of the Mishkan, the portable sanctuary that would serve the Israelites in their wilderness journey. Of course, it will serve as the model for the Temple in Jerusalem. It is ornate in some ways and simple in others. Notice that the more precious materials - [Passing of Salima Levy z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/02/passing-of-salima-levy-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Salima Levy, mother of Ruth Kessler. The funeral was held yesterday in Israel. Ruth will be observing shiva at her home, 75-08 198 St, 2nd floor (ring bell for entry). The phone number is (516) 690-5651. Hours for visiting are as follows: Thursday, February 3 from - [Shabbat Mishpatim 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/shabbat-mishpatim-5782/) - After reading about God's will in terms of big-picture commandments, this week's Torah reading turns to laser-focus detail. Parshat Mishpatim demonstrates a shift from narrative, which has been the genre of the Torah up to this point, to an emphasis on law. But at the end of the portion, we find another narrative--and an alternate telling of - [THE IMPORTANCE OF TEACHERS](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/the-importance-of-teachers/) - SELECT A MASTER-TEACHER FOR YOURSELF The statement above is from Pirke Avot 1:6. (It is so important the it is repeated by a different sage in 1:16). This Mishna goes on to tell us to acquire a colleague for study and that when judging others to tip the scale in their favor (in other words, - [Shabbat Yitro 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/shabbat-yitro-5782/) - This Shabbat, I will be addressing the events of last Shabbat in Colleyville. I'm using this space to say a few words about what I’m not going to speak about. For thoughts about antisemitism, we can all read these excellent and important essays: Deborah Lipstadt Yair Rosenberg Bari Weiss They express what American Jews are - [Passing of Norman Weinstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/passing-of-norman-weinstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our past longtime congregant Norman Weinstein. A private family graveside funeral will be held on Sunday, January 23rd at 2:15 PM at Eternal Light Cemetery in Boynton Beach, Florida. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Dr. Matthew Sofer z'l Shiva Update](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/passing-of-dr-matthew-sofer-zl-shiva-update/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dr. Matthew Sofer, brother of our long time congregant Beth Diker. A private family funeral was held on Thursday, January 13th. Beth will sit shiva at her home, 82-09 214th Street in Hollis Hills on Tuesday, January 18th from 1:30-4 PM and 7-9 PM. Ma'ariv minyan at - [Shabbat Beshalah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/shabbat-beshalah-5782/) - After releasing the Israelites, Pharaoh realizes that they aren't coming back, and regrets his decision. He gathers his crack chariot corps and chases down the Israelites, trapping them by the Sea of Reeds. The miracle that ensues inspires another miracle--the Israelites finally have faith in God and in Moshe, God's emissary. That faith is tested - [Passing of Dr. Matthew Sofer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/passing-of-dr-matthew-sofer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dr. Matthew Sofer, brother of our long time congregant Beth Diker. A private family funeral will be held on Thursday, January 13th at 1:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Beth David Cemetery. If you would like to live stream the funeral - [Passing of Barry Richard Johnston z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/passing-of-barry-richard-johnston-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Barry Richard Johnston brother of our long time congregant and past president, Dana Johnston. The funeral will be held on Monday, January 10th in South Carolina. Dana will be available for Zoom shiva visits on Rabbi Wise's Zoom link on: Wednesday from 10 AM-12 PM Wednesday from - [Shabbat Bo 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/shabbat-bo-5782/) - The confrontation between Pharaoh and God (through Moshe and Aharon) continues this week. It becomes even more contentious when Pharaoh boots them out of the palace. But there's still one more plague to announce: makkat bekhorot, the slaying of the firstborn. Israel won't be safe from this carnage unless they follow the instructions, as they are - [Passing of Stefan Giesen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2022/01/passing-of-stefan-giesen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Queens Village congregant Stefan Giesen, husband of Socorra. The funeral will be held tomorrow, January 6th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Beth David Cemetery in Queens. Shiva information is still being worked out. HaMakom Yenahem--may - [Shabbat Vaera 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/shabbat-vaera-5782/) - We ended last week's Torah reading with a despondent Moshe feeling that he was right in the first place: he wasn't the right person for the job of leading the Israelites to freedom. But God reassures him that redemption is coming, even as it won't be easy. Pharaoh will not let Israel go, just as - [Shabbat Shemot 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/shabbat-shemot-5782/) - We ended last week's Torah reading with Yosef entombed in Egypt. That's pretty much what happens to all of the Israelites once we begin reading Sefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, this week. A new Pharaoh arises with no memory of Yosef's economic rescue of Egypt, and he oppresses the Israelites in a variety of ways - [Passing of Sima Schapiro z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/passing-of-sima-schapiro-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sima Schapiro, sister of our Rabbi Emeritus, Rabbi H. Joseph Simckes. Shiva information is still being worked out. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayehi 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/shabbat-vayehi-5782/) - This week's Torah portion is called Vayehi, which means "he lived." But this parsha is replete with death, and about promises made about burial plots. We also learn just how accepted Yosef became in Egyptian society. He lived to be 110, which is to Egyptian mythology what 120 is to our culture--the quintessential full life. But unlike Ya'akov, - [Passing of David Shapiro z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/passing-of-david-shapiro-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time MarathonJCC congregant and Past President, David Shapiro. The funeral will be held Wednesday, December 15th, graveside at 2:30 PM at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. The family will sit shiva at David's son Richard's house, 120 Columbus Drive in Jericho on Wednesday after - [Passing of Irene Schneider z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/passing-of-irene-schneider-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Irene Schneider. The funeral will be held on Monday, December 13th graveside at 10:30 AM at Mount Lebanon Cemetery in Queens. Shiva details to follow. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayigash 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/shabbat-vayigash-5782/) - This is the Shabbat of the "big reveal." Moved to tears by Yehudah's powerful plea for Binyamin's release, Yosef can no longer keep up the charade. He reveals his true identity to his brothers and begins the process of family reunification. He also implements an economic policy that Egyptians will probably not recall with fondness - [Shabbat Miketz/Rosh Hodesh/Hanukkah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/12/shabbat-miketz-rosh-hodesh-hanukkah-5782/) - Before getting to the Torah reading, I can't forget to share my warm wishes for a joyous and light-filled Hanukkah. This season's new hit Hanukkah song comes from the Israeli pop duo, Static and Ben-El. It's as over-the-top as you could ever want, and a sign of Jewish pride from the land where Hanukkah is - [Passing of Barnett Maller z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/passing-of-barnett-maller-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of long time MarathonJCC congregant, Board Member, and Past President, Barnett Maller, husband of Helen. The funeral was held on November 28th, at 1:30 pm, at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Shiva is being held at Helen's home, 60-10 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck, NY. - [Al HaNissim / Chanukah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/al-hanissim-chanukah/) - Al HaNissim (for the miracles) is passage added to the Amidah and the Grace After Meals (Bentching) on ChanukahPurim and Israel Independence Day. In it we offer thanks and credit God with the miraculous event being celebrated on those holidays. On Chanukah the prayer refers to two different miracles. First it discusses the military victory - [Passing of Miriam Wolf z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/passing-of-miriam-wolf-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Miriam Wolf, mother of our long-time congregant Janice Costi. The funeral was held on Sunday, November 28 at 11:00 AM graveside at King Solomon Memorial Park. Janice is not having in person shiva visits, but welcomes phone calls. She can be reached on her home phone 718-464-9439 - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/shabbat-vayeshev-5782/) - The narratives of Sefer Bereshit turn now to Yosef, who will be the focus of this week's Torah reading, Vayeshev, and for the next three weeks as well. The multigenerational instinct of parental favoritism creates even more consternation among Yosef and his brothers, and nearly leads to Cain/Abel fratricide. Meanwhile, Yehudah's voice as a leader among the siblings - [Passing of Jerry Glass z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/passing-of-jerry-glass-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant and officer, Jerry Glass. A private family funeral was held on November 14th graveside at Beth David Cemetery. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5782/) - Ya'akov can no longer run from his past; it's coming to confront him head on. After 20 years away from home, it's time to return, which means an inevitable meeting with Esav. And even when he emerges whole from that encounter, he will endure more trials and tribulations involving his daughter, vigilante sons, his beloved - [Passing of Dr. Kenneth Glick z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/passing-of-dr-kenneth-glick-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dr. Kenneth Glick, son of our past congregants, Jean & Robert Glick. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, November 17th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be held out of town - [Shabbat Vayeitzei 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/shabbat-vayeitzei-5782/) - Now that he's become a man on the run, we see Ya'akov encounter challenges and build a family under the watchful eyes of his uncle Lavan. Lest you say that the Torah never condemns or even critiques Ya'akov for taking his older twin brother's blessing, notice that experience turns out to be justice delayed. Upon - [Shabbat Toldot 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/11/shabbat-toldot-5782/) - The recurring theme of sibling rivarly intensifies in this week's Torah portion, Toldot. The brothers are described in contrast to one another: one is an outdoorsman, while the other is more of a tent-dweller. Last time we saw such a brotherly contrast, it was Cain and Abel, and that relationship ended really badly. One can imagine - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5782/) - If God's promise to Avraham of countless progeny is going to come true, Yitzhak is going to need a wife so that the family line can be extended. This week's Torah portion, Hayei-Sarah, is all about firming up that legacy. We meet one character who has no name (Avraham's executive director, if you will), one character - [Passing of Leroy Schultz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/passing-of-leroy-schultz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant, Leroy Schultz. The funeral will be held on Friday, October 29th, graveside at 11:00 AM at Cedar Park Cemetery, 735 Forest Avenue, Paramus, NJ. To extend your condolences, Leroy's son Ira can be contacted at mirasch12@yahoo.com. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Harold Fluss z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/passing-of-harold-fluss-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant, Harold Fluss, husband of Judy Fluss. The funeral will be held on Sunday, October 24th, graveside at 10:15 AM at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be observed at the Fluss home, 82-31 213th Street in Hollis Hills, today, Monday, October 25 - [Shabbat Vayera 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/shabbat-vayera-5782/) - In this week's action-packed Torah portion, Vayera, we find some of the best-known stories in our tradition. From the hospitality of Avraham and Sarah, to the destruction of Sodom, to the birth of Yitzhak and banishment of Yishma'el, to the spellbinding narrative of the 'Akedah, we have one Biblical greatest hit after another. See if you can - [Passing of Joyce Weissman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/passing-of-joyce-weissman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Joyce Weissman, sister of our longtime congregant, Ivan Tantleff. A private family funeral will be held on Friday, October 22, graveside at 10:30 AM at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be held out of town in the children's respective homes. To extend your - [Passing of Arnold Kitzes z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/passing-of-arnold-kitzes-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant, Arnold Kitzes, husband of Reena Kitzes. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, October 19th, graveside at 9 AM at IJ Morris at Star of David of the Palm Beaches, 9321 Memorial Park Road, Palm Beach Gardens, FL 33412. More information to follow. - [Passing of Shirley Heymann z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/passing-of-shirley-heymann-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Shirley Heymann, our longtime Oak Hills legacy congregant. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, October 19, at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway, at 9:30 AM. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Shirley's home, 73-20 185th - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5782/) - At the end of last week's Torah reading, we met Avram and Sarai. This week, in Parshat Lekh-Lekha, they become the focus of the narrative. God promises that they will be the parents of a great nation. The only problem is that they are infertile. Still, God reinforces the promise, and it will take another week - [Shabbat Noah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/shabbat-noah-5782/) - As we read the story of Noah and the flood in the Torah portion named for its hero, there are so many obvious songs that come to mind. I'm going to try to be a bit more subtle in my selections this week See if you can connect these songs to the Torah portion. - [Shabbat Bereshit 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/10/shabbat-bereshit-5782/) - As we begin the Torah reading cycle again at Parshat Bereshit, we learn what it means to turn chaos into order (or, to use the religious term, Cosmos). My challenge to you, dear reader of the Shabbat email and of the weekly Torah portion, is to imitate God and make some order out these scrambled - [Passing of Leslie Plush z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/passing-of-leslie-plush-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Leslie Plush, daughter of our longtime congregant Rita Plush. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, September 29, at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway, at 3 PM. Shiva will be observed at Rita's home, 1 Bay Club Drive, Apt. 9C, in Bay Terrace. Please restrict - [Passing of Howard Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/passing-of-howard-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Howard Cohen, father of our longtime office administrator Nancy Morse. A private graveside funeral will be held on Friday, September 24, in Providence, RI. To express condolences to Nancy and family, you can write to her at office@etzhayimhhb.org. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [MAKING OUR SENSES PART OF OUR SPIRITUAL LIFE](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/making-our-senses-part-of-our-spiritual-life/) - MAKING OUR SENSES PART OF OUR SPIRITUAL LIFE While participating in prayer and observing mitzvot are important parts of our spiritual lives, they are “acts” that can be performed autonomously and unthinkingly. I use the word “acts” in quotations for a purpose. The potential problems is that while are act or perform it can - [Passing of Janice Temple z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/passing-of-janice-temple-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills congregant, Janice Temple. The funeral will be held Thursday, September 23rd at 9:4M AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. You must be fully vaccinated and wear a mask to attend the service at the chapel. Burial at Beth David Cemetery - [acquiring greater meaning from our prayers](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/15215/) - Feeling and Meaning our Prayers A couple of weeks ago Rabbi Greene commented (note: one must give his or her teachers credit) that often we go through our prayers but we don’t let our prayers go through us. I believe that his point was that while we (too) quickly mutter the various prayers for - [Passing of Michael Siegel z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/passing-of-michael-siegel-zl/) - We are saddened by the sudden and untimely passing of Michael Siegel, son of our congregants Barbara and Steven Siegel. The funeral will be held on Sunday, September 12, at 1:30 PM, graveside at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Those attending should meet at Beth Moses Cemetery next to Wellwood. Shiva for Michael - [Shabbat Vayelekh/Shuvah 5782](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/shabbat-vayelekh-shuvah-5782/) - On this first Shabbat of 5782, we contemplate and commit to coming home. Shabbat Shuvah, so named because the prophet Hoshe'a urges us to return to God in light of our stumbles, is an opportunity for deep introspection. This year, it's also the 20th anniversary of the September 11 attacks on our country, a day etched - [Shabbat Nitzavim 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/09/shabbat-nitzavim-5781/) - This is the final Shabbat of 5781. As we prepare to turn the page on the calendar and enter a New Year, we read Parshat Nitzavim. The Torah reading reinforces the eternal nature of the Covenant God makes with the People of Israel. It's good to have this idea ringing in our ears as we prepare - [Passing of Milton Hochman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/passing-of-milton-hochman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Milton Hochman, beloved father of our long time congregant, Stephanie Hochman. A private funeral will be held on Wednesday, September 1. The family understands navigating the pandemic is extremely challenging and their priority remains the health and safety of all. With that in mind, they are - [Introduction to this Page](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/introduction/) - Introduction To My Ritual Blog Friends, I have been offered the opportunity as Ritual Director to share, from time to time, to share my thoughts on ritual or spiritual matters. I am flattered by the offer and more than happy to take on the task. A caveat: I am not The Rabbi. I am not - [Psalm 27 and the penitential season](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/psalm-27-and-the-penitential-season/) - Psalm 27 For the Penitential Season During the penitential season, from the first day of the month of Elul through Hoshana Rabba ( the last say of Sukkot before Shemini Ha’atzeret and Simchat Torah) it is customary to recite Psalm 27 at the end of the morning and evening services. To be honest, I - [Passing of Renee Sklar z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/passing-of-renee-sklar-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Renee Sklar. The funeral will be held Sunday, August 29th at 2 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd in Forest Hills. Burial at Old Montefiore Cemetery in Springfield Gardens. Shiva information to be announced. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/shabbat-ki-tavo-5781/) - The music world was saddened this week by the passing of Charlie Watts, the original drummer of The Rolling Stones. By all accounts, he was one of the kindest people in the music business. To honor his memory, this week's musical Torah portion scavenger hunt will be all music by The Stones. Read through Parshat Ki-Tavo and see if - [Passing of Marilyn Weinberger z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/passing-of-marilyn-weinberger-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Marilyn Weinberger, sister of our teacher and friend, Rabbi Pamela Barmash. A private funeral was held today. Rabbi Barmash is observing shiva at the family home, 85-33 215th St. in Hollis Hills, until Thursday morning, and then continuing shiva in St. Louis. We are moving the - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5781/) - Seventy-two of the Torah's commandments appear in this week's Torah portion, Ki-Teitzei. This includes a wide variety of themes with legal significance. Can you identify which mitzvot are hinted at in the following songs? There's one for each aliyah, so read the whole parshah to find the clues. 1990s Anger from The Offspring Thomas - [Shabbat Shoftim 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/shabbat-shoftim-5781/) - This Shabbat is the 40th anniversary of my Bar-Mitzvah, so I have a special affection for this week's Torah reading, Shoftim. The portion is best known for its classic phrase, "Justice, justice shall you pursue." But it's rich in laws that are core to the worldview of the author of the Book of Deuteronomy. I hope - [Shabbat Re-eh 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/shabbat-re-eh-5781/) - After being in Israel for two weeks, I am honored to resume teaching the weekly Torah portion through music. I encourage you to read this week's parshah, Re-eh, and learn about it through these YouTube clips. What do the following songs have to do with this week's reading? The Clash ask an eternal question Hot Summer - [Passing of Murray Sherman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/passing-of-murray-sherman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Marathon Congregant Murray Sherman. The funeral will be held Friday, August 6th at 10:30 AM graveside at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. On Sunday, August 8th at 1:30 PM a Shiva/Memorial will be held for anyone who would like to join in. The family is hoping - [Passing of Barry Schoenfeld z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/08/passing-of-barry-schoenfeld-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Barry Schoenfeld, brother of our long time congregant, Arlene Schwartz. The funeral will be held today in Boca Raton, Florida. Arlene will be sitting shiva this week at the Schoenfeld home in Boca Raton. To extend your condolences Arlene can be reached at 917-886-1542. HaMakom - [Passing of Samuel Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/07/passing-of-samuel-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Samuel Cohen, brother of our long time congregant, Rose Solasz. The funeral will be held Friday, July 30th at 11:30 AM at Cedar Park Cemetery, 735 Forest Avenue in Paramus, NJ. Donations in Samuel's memory can be made to The Pap Corps Comprehensive Cancer Center. Click here to - [Passing of Emil Schoen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/07/passing-of-emil-schoen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Emil Schoen. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, July 21st at 11 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Shiva Information: Wednesday from 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM at the home of Emil Schoen, 85-32 213th Street in - [Shabbat Mattot-Mas'ei 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/07/shabbat-mattot-masei-5781/) - This Shabbat, in addition to being Rosh Hodesh, has the longest Torah reading of the year. The double parshah of Mattot and Mas'ei is full of narrative about the Israelite wilderness journey, including a detailed travelogue. The Masorites, who codified the system of chanting the Torah that we call trope, knew that reciting the litany of stops and starts along the - [Shabbat Balak 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/shabbat-balak-5781/) - Parshat Balak is most famous for its four-legged character. A Torah portion with a talking donkey should certainly be ripe for creative interpretation! As you read this week's portion, see if you can find the connection to these songs: The late Chris Cornell and Soundgarden For King and Country Pat Benatar Blind - [Shabbat Hukkat 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/shabbat-hukkat-5781/) - The Torah includes many laws that make perfect sense, and stories with endings that fit the script. But this week, we have the law of the Red Heifer, with no rational explanation, and the punishment of Moses and Aaron, which defies satisfactory explanation. The best way to navigate Parshat Hukkat is, of course, with song! What made - [Passing of Esther Baliti z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/passing-of-esther-baliti-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Esther Baliti, sister of our long time congregant, Naftali Tal. The funeral was held in Israel. To extend condolences, you may contact Naftali and Marcia at bayitham@aol.com. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Korah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/shabbat-korah-5781/) - The tension mounts in the wilderness. Maybe the heat was getting to them, but now another group of Israelites causes God, Moshe and Aharon more headaches. As you read the Torah portion, think about how these songs connect to the text: The theatrics of Peter Gabriel Surly Billy Idol Freddie and the - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5781/) - There's lots of agita in the Torah portions of Sefer Bemidbar, and Parshat Shelah-Lekha is no exception. The scouting mission goes awry, and the adult Israelite population is doomed to wander in the wilderness until they die out. Still, there's plenty of music connected to the Torah reading. The variety of artists is about as diverse as the - [Passing of Herb Storch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/06/passing-of-herb-storch-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Herb Storch, our past president and long time congregant. The funeral will be held Thursday, June 3 at 2:30 PM graveside at Old Montefiore Cemetery in Springfield Gardens. The family kindly requests that anyone attending the funeral at Old Montefiore or who is coming to the - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/05/shabbat-behaalotekha-5781/) - This week's Torah portion is rich and diverse, with many themes and narratives. As you read it, see if you can figure out the connections of these songs to Parshat Beha'alotekha. You may have to get creative, because I tried to be! Vance Joy First track from Fleetwood Mac's Rumours Listen to the Chairman of - [Passing of Mark Glasel z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/05/passing-of-mark-glasel-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Mark Glasel, brother of our congregant, David Glasel. The funeral and shiva are private. Donation's in Mark's memory can be made to the following organizations: United Hospice of Rockland 11 Stokum Lane New City, NY 10956 or Gigi's Playhouse Long Island 100 Austin - [Shabbat Naso 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/05/shabbat-naso-5781/) - As of this writing, Israel's conflict with Gaza continues, and we pray for quiet soon. No one should have to spend Shabbat, or any time, in a bomb shelter. It's good for us to hear music and read the Torah portion, and perhaps it's also a healthy distraction from the anxiety of the news. - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5781/) - This has been a traumatic week for our brothers and sisters in Israel. We pray for their safety, and we wish for all innocent people to be able to live without fear. I am grateful to the many people who reached out to check in on our children in Israel; your concern for them and - [Shabbat Behar/Behukotai 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/05/shabbat-behar-behukotai-5781/) - One way to look at the long section of warnings that we read this week is that there are far more "curses" than blessings. Simple math would bear out this reading; there are 11 verses connected to "If you follow My laws," and 30 that follow "but if you do not obey Me." But lest - [Shabbat Emor 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/04/shabbat-emor-5781/) - If last week's Torah reading reminded us of Yom Kippur, then this one should have us thinking about the other holidays on our calendar. After all, we read a good chunk of Parshat Emor on the first days of Sukkot and the second day of Pesah. And it includes the commandment to count the Omer, which we have - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/04/shabbat-aharei-mot-kedoshim-5781/) - This week. we read another double Torah portion. Much of Aharei-Mot is familiar to us from Yom Kippur, both morning and afternoon. And then there's Kedoshim, which includes the moral core of the Hebrew Bible. It's worth reading carefully, and as you do, you may understand why I chose these songs: Neil Young From a movie - [Shabbat Tazri'a-Metzora' 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/04/shabbat-tazria-metzora-5781/) - I hope that you celebrated Yom Ha'atzmaut with pride this week, as we marked 73 years since the birth of the State of Israel, a miracle in our days. I made sure to listened to Israeli music throughout the day, and especially enjoyed the latest Hartman podcast, including my friend Rabbi Joe Schwartz, on the way Israeli - [Shabbat Shemini 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/04/shabbat-shemini-5781/) - Now that we have emerged from Yom HaShoah, we are headed into Shabbat with anticipation of joy and the resumption of our routine. That includes studying the weekly Torah portion with the help of these musical clues. Enjoy figuring out why I chose these tracks: Blind Faith live Early Indigo Girls Beautiful cover of - [Shabbat Tzav/HaGadol 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/shabbat-tzav-hagadol-5781/) - In these few remaining hours before Shabbat and Pesah, I hope that the sounds of the seder will uplift and inspire you. Cantor Zim's extraordinary singalong Wednesday night was a huge hit. If you missed it, you can find it here. I'm including a few more musical tracks to get you in the mood for - [Shabbat Vayikra 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/shabbat-vayikra-5781/) - As we come closer to Pesah, we always begin reading Sefer Vayikra, the Book of Leviticus. This Biblical book is the hallmark of priestly detail, particularly ancient Israel's sacrificial system. Despite our likely disconnect from the idea of animal sacrifice, it's important to read the weekly Torah portion, so I hope these song selections get you searching - [Shabbat Vayakhel-Pekudei/HaHodesh 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/shabbat-vayakhel-pekudei-hahodesh-5781/) - I spent some time this week online with Hadar at their annual Rabbinic Yeshiva Intensive, and in addition to the great Torah I got to learn, they also shared a playlist of some of the new gems from the Rising Song Institute. Check out this catchy melody by Batya Levine. There's a lot of Torah to be - [Passing of Thomas Joseph Kin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/passing-of-thomas-joseph-kin-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Thomas Joseph Kin, father of our congregational nurse and long-time congregant, Linda Liederman. A private funeral will be held out of state. Linda will observe shiva until Monday morning. To extend your condolences Linda can be reached on her cell at 917-656-2764. You can also email - [Shabbat Ki-Tissa/Parah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/shabbat-ki-tissa-parah-5781/) - Four-legged farm animals are germane to both Torah readings this week, with a starring role for the Golden Calf in the weekly portion, Ki-Tissa, and the special Maftir reading of Parah Adumah, the Red Heifer. New footage of the Golden Calf fiasco has recently emerged. Click here for the clip. The subtitles could be bigger, but they'll have to do. - [Passing of Larry Hershkowitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/03/passing-of-larry-hershkowitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Larry Hershkowitz, father of our long-time congregant, Rita Katz. A private funeral for family only will be held Thursday, March 4, graveside at 10:30 AM at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be held via Zoom on Thursday evening from 7-9 PM. Click here to join the Zoom Shiva - [Shabbat Tetzaveh 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/shabbat-tetzaveh-5781/) - As we go from Purim into Shabbat this year, I don't want us to forget to have fun with video clips of music. Wait, don't we do that every week? We do indeed, but here's something special to enhance your Purim joy. Click here for a Sesame Street (or Avenue Q?)-inspired message about reading the - [Shabbat Terumah/Zakhor 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/shabbat-terumah-zakhor-5781/) - This is one of the more important Shabbatot of the Jewish year, as we mark Shabbat Zakhor. Every year, on the Shabbat before Purim, we remember actively what Amalek did to us on the way out of Egypt, and how they remain a prototype for baseless hatred of our People. Click here to listen to JoAnn Luquis - [Passing of Sarine (Nina) Jenus z'l Shiva Update](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/passing-of-sarine-nina-jenus-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills Congregant Sarine (Nina) Jenis. The graveside funeral was held on Sunday, February 14th at Wellwood Cemetery. Shiva will be held on Zoom on the evenings of Sunday, February 14 and Monday, February 15, following minyan at 7:30 PM Click here to access minyan Click here for Siddur - [Passing of Sarine (Nina) Jenis z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/passing-of-sarine-nina-jenis-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills Congregant Sarine (Nina) Jenis. The graveside funeral will be held on Sunday, February 14th at Wellwood Cemetery. If you are attending the funeral in person please meet at the Beth Moses Cemetery office at 10:15 AM. We will all drive to Wellwood - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/shabbat-mishpatim-shekalim-5781/) - This is a three-Torah Shabbat, one of the rare times that happens, because in addition to the weekly portion, Mishpatim, it's also Rosh Hodesh Adar. And since it's Rosh Hodesh Adar, it's time for the first of four special readings leading up to Pesah: Maftir Shekalim. It's a good time to remember that our religious institutions need our support - [Shabbat Yitro 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/02/shabbat-yitro-5781/) - The story the Torah tells about revelation is one of the great narratives in recorded human history. Filmmakers have repeatedly interpreted the power of the moment in scenes such as this. Though I prefer to refer to the laws of Exodus 20 as The Decalogue, because there are actually more than 10 commandments in those - [Shabbat Beshalah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/01/shabbat-beshalah-5781/) - This week we celebrate Shabbat Shirah, as we read Parshat Beshalah and the triumphant Song of the Sea. Before we get to the musical scavenger hunt, check out these three musical reflections on the miracle: Neo-Hasidic rock band goes reggae Is it really 10 years since we lost Debbie Friedman? The Prince of Egypt's Signature Song - [Shabbat Bo 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/01/shabbat-bo-5781/) - This is a week of hope, and we pray that our country is blessed with healing. This hope can be expressed in all languages and formats. For example: Got Bentsch Amerike Amanda Gorman's exquisite Inauguration poem Here are some musical selections relevant for this week's reading, Parshat Bo. Why did I choose them? Join - [Shabbat Vaera 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/01/shabbat-vaera-5781/) - Welcome to the month of Shevat! I know that it's hard to imagine the ground thawing out and nature revitalized, but the arrival of this month, and Tu Bishvat, reminds us that spring is on the way. In our weekly Torah reading cycle, the Egyptians certainly can't sense spring, as they are pummeled with one plague after - [Shabbat Shemot 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2021/01/shabbat-shemot-5781/) - After another week of emotionally draining news in our country, I confess that I'm not much in the mood to share music, even in the service of teaching the weekly Torah portion, Shemot. I will reflect on the events of the week in my remarks on Shabbat morning. Until then, I welcome you to contemplate what - [Shabbat Vayehi 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/shabbat-vayehi-5781/) - We begin 2021 with an instant Shabbat, and a Torah portion that means "He lived." So may it be true for us all! Here's a treat to send us into the New Year--USY and Koolulam made this little video. As you know. we have moved temporarily to the triennial Torah reading on Shabbat - [Shabbat Vayigash 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/shabbat-vayigash-5781/) - As you know. we have moved temporarily to the triennial Torah reading on Shabbat mornings, for the purposes of keeping the people who come indoors to make a minyan a little more safe. This week, we'll be reading from Genesis 45:28-46:27. We look forward to returning to our normal full parshah soon! As Israel heads - [Passing of Naomi Starr z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/14721/) - We are saddened by the passing of Naomi Starr, sister of our Rabbi Emeritus, H. Joseph Simckes. A private funeral will be held in Virginia. Rabbi Simckes will be sitting Shiva in Israel once the burial takes place in Virginia, probably Monday or Tuesday. The phone number for Rabbi Simckes is 347-632-2554 (local type - [Shabbat Vayeshev/Hanukkah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/shabbat-vayeshev-hanukkah-5781/) - I can't recall the last time Hanukkah began on a Thursday evening, which is what has to happen in order for the holiday to coincide with Parshat Vayeshev, a Torah portion earlier than usual, but here we are! We had the treat of Cantor Zim's Hanukkah singalong Wednesday evening, so I'm only going to add one - [Passing of Raisa Shlomovich z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/passing-of-raisa-shlomovich-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Raisa Shlomovich, sister of our long-time congregant, Nadia Adar. A private funeral will be held today, Sunday, December 6, graveside at 1 PM at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva info to follow. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/12/shabbat-vayishlah-5781/) - I hope you had a good week post-Thanksgiving. Now, the lights of Hanukkah burn brightly on the horizon! Last week, I shared the video clip of the COVID-era moral boost by Israeli musicians and artists called Katan Aleinu (We Got This). My friend Jessica Steinberg, who writes about culture for Times of Israel, wrote this article with translated lyrics - [Shabbat Toldot 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/11/shabbat-toldot-5781/) - I hope that this week was a safe and healthy one for you. I know that the uptick in positive COVID cases has us anxious. As we enter the Shabbat before Thanksgiving, I encourage us to remain resolute and wise in our decision-making about gatherings. Let's keep taking care of each other through restraint. - [Shabbat Hayyei-Sarah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/11/shabbat-hayyei-sarah-5781/) - This week, we acknowledged the heroic service of our veterans, and while we weren't able to have our usual Veterans' Shabbat led by our Men's Club, it was inspiring to see such love for veterans on social media. Thank you to everyone in our congregation who served, and may we have pride and loving - [Shabbat Vayera 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/11/shabbat-vayera-5781/) - Last week, I suggested that election cycles begin the moment the last election ends. Well, this year we are getting an extended election. As I write this message, several races, including that for President, have yet to be decided while votes are still counted. One wonders if the election will continue to be litigated even - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5781/) - As we enter the final Shabbat before Election Day, we meet God's elected ones--Avram and Sarai--in this week's Torah portion, Lekh-Lekha. My Shabbat morning teaching will address something that I sense many people are experiencing these days, and perhaps even more so this week: fear. I can't think of this Torah portion without thinking about - [Shabbat Noah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/shabbat-noah-5781/) - Dear Friends, I hope that the first days of the month of Marheshvan have been good to you. The name of this month is similar to the ancient Akkadian month, but the rabbis found symbolism in its first syllable, Mar, bitter, as in maror. Why is this a bitter month? Because it doesn't have any holy days, especially - [Passing of Edith Waxenberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/passing-of-edith-waxenberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant, Edith Waxenberg. The funeral will be held Sunday, October 18th graveside at 1 PM at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva info to follow. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Bereshit 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/shabbat-bereshit-5781/) - Dear Friends, For the first time since the beginning of the pandemic, we have a Shabbat morning simhah--the B'not-Mitzvah of Chase and Etana Keppel. We are excited to have a celebration in shul, and I'm excited that the young women are reading and teaching Torah! Since they are teaching, and I'm delivering a charge to - [Passing of Joel Lieber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/passing-of-joel-lieber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant, Joel Lieber, husband Carol Lieber. The funeral will be held today, Tuesday, October 13th graveside at 2 PM at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Those who are comfortable attending the funeral in person are welcome to do so. Please wear a mask and - [Shabbat Shemini Atzeret 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/shabbat-shemini-atzeret-5781/) - Dear Friends, As we enter the final days of the Tishrei holy days, I want to affirm what we're missing, and appreciate what we still have. True, we will not have a full sanctuary for Hallel, Yizkor, and Geshem on Shabbat morning, and we will not chant our chapter of Kohelet in the - [Shabbat Sukkot 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/10/shabbat-sukkot-5781/) - Dear Friends, For months now, we have been aching to get out more. Sheltering at home is premised on the idea that our homes protect us from all the elements, especially the virus. Well, this week gives us ample opportunity to step out of that shelter into another, but more flimsy, form of home. - [Shabbat Ha-azinu/Shuvah 5781](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/09/shabbat-ha-azinu-shuvah-5781/) - Dear Friends, A New Year means new opportunities for us at HHBJC. Last Shabbat was Rosh Hashanah, and it was the first time that we had a minyan in the synagogue with an option to connect via technology on a day that is kodesh, sacred. This Shabbat will be our first foray into a - [A High Holiday Message from Cantor Sol Zim](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/09/a-high-holiday-message-from-cantor-sol-zim/) - SHANAH TOVAH! My Beloved Congregation, I miss all of you so much! I miss standing on the Bima with my Pulpit Partner and my dear friend, our beloved Rabbi, David Wise. I miss seeing all of your smiling faces in the sanctuary, I miss you singing with me, I miss walking - [Shabbat Nitzavim/Vayelekh 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/09/shabbat-nitzavim-vayelekh-5780/) - Dear Friends, As I taught at our online davening this morning, the rabbis were terrified that Torah would be forgotten. Some were resigned to this eventuality, but Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai refused to accept such pessimism. He found evidence in this week's second portion, Vayelekh: "this poem...will never be lost from the mouth of their offspring" - [A High Holy Day Message from Rabbi Wise: Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/09/a-high-holy-day-message-from-rabbi-wise-shabbat-ki-tavo-5780/) - Dear Friends, Instead of my usual look at the weekly Torah portion, I share with you thoughts on the upcoming High Holy Days. You can find my message here. Every Friday in Elul, I'll be sharing a clip of music for Selihot, the penitential prayers of the season, that Sephardim have already begun - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5780/) - Dear Friends, This has been another tumultuous week, with events in Kenosha reverberating across the continent. My dvar Torah this week addresses matters of social unrest in Israel, and you will see that I take these issues seriously. Reader and viewer discretion is advised, as I tackle sensitive, adult material. You can find - [Shabbat Shoftim 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/shabbat-shoftim-5780/) - Dear Friends, Welcome to the stretch run! We are now in the month of Elul, and it is time to prepare our hearts for the season of teshuvah, self-reflection and improvement. A great way to start is to commit to studying Torah and its endless reservoir of meaning in our own day. As always, - [Passing of Marty Margolis z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/passing-of-marty-margolis-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time former congregant, Marty Margolis, husband of Greta. Due to COVID-19, a private funeral will be held today, Sunday, August 16. Shiva will be observed at the home of Barry Margolis on Long Island, with pre-arranged social distance visits, weather permitting through Thursday. Please call - [Shabbat Re-eh 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/shabbat-re-eh-5780/) - Dear Friends, We come to the end of a week that brought exciting news. The normalization of relations between Israel and the United Arab Emirates is a small step in the road toward peace. We hope that more states will follow, and that the Palestinians will be inspired to return to negotiations as - [Passing of Fay Lukin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/passing-of-fay-lukin-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Fay Lukin, sister of our long time congregant Arthur Lukin. A private funeral for family only will be held on Sunday, August 9th. Virtual Shiva hours via Zoom are as follows: Sunday 8:30-9:30 PM Monday 2-3 PM and 8:30-9:30 PM Tuesday 2-3 PM and 8:30-9:30 PM - [Passing of Ruth Heller z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/passing-of-ruth-heller-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ruth Heller, mother of our long time congregant, Irene Borman. Due to administrative circumstances beyond anyone's control, tomorrow's private family funeral is postponed until Sunday, August 16th at 11:30 AM, You can attend the funeral virtually on Zoom by clicking here. Or call in by phone 646-558-8656 Meeting ID: 963 - [Shabbat Ekev 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/08/shabbat-ekev-5780/) - Dear Friends, I hope this week's message of Torah finds you staying well. If you are struggling the longer this pandemic keeps us away from our normal shul routine, you are not alone. And if this week's storm caused you damage or inconvenience, I hope that you can recover whatever you may have lost. - [Shabbat Va-ethanan 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/shabbat-va-ethanan-5780/) - Dear Friends, As we emerge from the observance of Tish'ah B'Av, the saddest day on the Jewish calendar, we spring into Shabbat and Parshat Vaet-hanan, which includes both the Ten Commandments and the Shema'. Though those are among our greatest hit passages, I want to direct our attention to the first words of the portion, in - [Shabbat Devarim 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/shabbat-devarim-5780/) - Dear Friends, We have made it to the brink of the Holy Land. This Shabbat, we begin reading Sefer Devarim, the final book of our Humash. Click here for the written version of my dvar-Torah for this week. If you prefer a video version, click here. During the Three Weeks between the 17th of Tammuz and Tish'ah B'Av, - [Shabbat Mattot/Mas'ei 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/shabbat-mattot-masei-5780/) - Dear Friends, After a week away, I'm glad to be back in the mode of teaching Torah. In this final double portion to the Book of Numbers, here is the written version of my dvar Torah for Mattot/Mas'ei. If you want the video version, click here. During the Three Weeks between the 17th of - [Passing of Marvin Feilhardt z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/passing-of-marvin-feilhardt-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Marvin Feilhardt, husband of Karen Ross. A private funeral for family only will be held on Sunday, July 12th. Karen will be receiving Shiva phone calls on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 2-4 PM and 7-8 PM. The phone number is - [Passing of Judit Taylor z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/07/passing-of-judit-taylor-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Judit Taylor, a long-time Oak Hills congregant and wife of Alvin. The funeral will be held on Friday, July 3. Shiva will be observed in Princeton, NJ. To extend condolences, you may contact Judit's daughter, Dina Brewer, at dina_brewer@hotmail.com, or at (609) 651-3098. HaMakom Yenahem--may God - [Passing of Martin Brodsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/passing-of-martin-brodsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Martin Brodsky, long time congregant, husband of our Chesed Committee Chair, Laura Brodsky. A private funeral for the family will be held Sunday, June 28th at 1:30 PM, but you can attend the funeral virtually on Zoom by clicking here. Or call in by phone 646-558-8656. Meeting ID: - [Shabbat Korah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/shabbat-korah-5780/) - Dear Friends, The trials and tribulations of the wilderness continue this week, with the insurrections of Korah, Datan and Aviram. When you consider the results of the previous parshah, all that unrest was probably inevitable. That's what I address in this week's Dvar Torah. Click here for the written version. You can find the video version - [Passing of Anne Bodner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/passing-of-anne-bodner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Anne Bodner, mother of our long time congregant Steve Bodner. A private funeral for immediate family only will be held on Tuesday, June 23rd. Steve will receiving socially distant Shiva visits in his backyard Tuesday and Wednesday from 3-5 PM, Thursday and Friday from 10 AM - 12 - [Passing of Seymour Roth z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/passing-of-seymour-roth-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Seymour Roth, father of our long time congregant Robyn Rosenberg. A private funeral for immediate family only will be held on Sunday, June 21st. Robyn will sitting Shiva through Friday, June 26th. If you want to make a socially distant visit outside, please call first to arrange - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5780/) - Dear Friends, The tension mounts, and another traumatic moment in Israelite history consigns us to wander in the wilderness for 40 years. That's the main narrative of this week's Torah portion, Shelah-Lekha. But there are silver linings here, too. Some dreams remain intact. Click here for the written version of this week's Dvar Torah. You - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5780/) - Dear Friends, Since last Shabbat, we have had moments to listen and learn. We heard from African American Christian clergy on Sunday, and from a Jewish historian on Black-Jewish relations on Wednesday. We have uncertain days ahead, not unlike our ancestors in the wilderness. Click here for the written version of my dvar Torah - [Naso 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/06/naso-5780/) - Dear Friends, There have been no easy weeks since COVID-19 sent us to safety and shelter, but this has been the most difficult by far. If it seems that I am the last rabbi you know to make a public statement, that's because I have tried to use my ears (and eyes) more - [Shabbat/Second Day of Shavuot 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/shabbat-second-day-of-shavuot-5780/) - Dear Friends, Last night, we had a late-night early bird special: we studied Torah until midnight as a Pre-kun Leil Shavuot, since we couldn't have our annual Tikkun Leil Shavuot in person. Staying up late to learn Torah on Zoom was out of the ordinary, but it actually gave us a sense of normalcy, even if - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5780/) - Dear Friends, Everyone learns differently. So again this Shabbat, my weekly message of Torah is coming at you in two formats. For those who prefer to read the written word, click here. Or, you can watch me deliver it by clicking here. Each week, I think of music that relates to recent events, or the calendar, or the - [Passing of Rebecca Ward z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/passing-of-rebecca-ward-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Rebecca Ward, sister of our past officer Eddie Ward. Funeral arrangements are private. Shiva will be observed privately. Expressions of sympathy can be sent to eddieward49@gmail.com or 74 Wilson Avenue, Westbury, NY, 11590. Evening minyan will be held online via Zoom commencing Sunday, May 17 at 8 pm. Click here - [Passing of Renee Diamond z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/passing-of-renee-diamond-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Renee Diamond, wife of Cary Diamond. A private funeral will be held on Wednesday, May 13th. Shiva #1- 5/13, Wednesday at 7:15 EST (45 Minutes) ● Description- Shiva Prayer Service (Religious Ceremony) with Kaddish (Jewish Prayers) led by Rabbi Saks for family and friends ● Zoom - [Passing of Florencio Franco](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/passing-of-florencio-franco/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time custodian, Florencio Franco. At this time we do not have any information about funeral arrangements. If you would like to send a note to the family, the address is: 221-14 104th Avenue, Queens Village, NY 11429. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Behar/Behukotai 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/shabbat-behar-behukotai-5780/) - Dear Friends, Everyone learns differently. So for this Shabbat, my weekly message of Torah is coming at you in two formats. For those who prefer to read the written word, click here. Or, you can watch me deliver it in For your musical enjoyment this week, here are a few songs that helped me through this - [Shabbat Emor 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/05/shabbat-emor-5780/) - Dear friends, We are now at the midpoint of the month of Iyyar. Two months ago, it was Purim, our last full-scale public gathering before we began to shelter at home. You may have noticed that in recent Shabbat emails I have been counting the weeks of our physical separation consciously. In my Shabbat - [Simchas, Shiva Info - Look to Member News](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/simchas-shiva-info-look-to-member-news/) - Look to our Celebrating menu to navigate to Simcha announcements - births, graduations, engagements, marriages, and other honor received by our membership. Simcha Announcements Also Shiva Information is provided in our Loss page located in our Caring Section - [The Rabbi's Study Corner--Parshat Beshalah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/the-rabbis-study-corner-parshat-beshalah/) - The weather wasn't so nice on Shabbat, so for those who missed it, here's a brief review of what I discussed in shul. As the Israelites saw dead Egyptians on the shore of the Sea of Reeds, what were they thinking? On the one hand, they must have been happy to see their enemies thesuffer. - [Shabbat Naso 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/06/shabbat-naso-5779/) - The most famous passage in this week's Torah portion, Naso, is the priestly blessing, Birkat Kohanim. We use it liturgically in the repetition of the 'Amidah, and it forms our regular blessing of children at Shabbat dinner. Its magnificent conclusion is the ultimate blessing--that of peace. Thus, it is noteworthy and somewhat ironic that this blessing appears in Sefer Bemidbar, Numbers, - [Shabbat Vayigash 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-vayigash-5780/) - Now that Yosef has told his brothers who he really is, it's time to get his father to join the rest of the family in Egypt. What's more, when Pharaoh gets word of the connection, he instructs Yosef to tell his brothers to fetch their dad and reunite the family. "Do as follows: take from - [Passing of Martin Waxgiser z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/passing-of-martin-waxgiser-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant Martin Waxgiser, husband of Joan. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, February 12th graveside at 11 AM at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Please meet at the cemetery office by 10:45 AM. Shiva will be observed at the Waxgiser home, 85-52 212th Street - [Passing of Jack Cohen Z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/03/passing-of-jack-cohen-zl/) - [Shabbat Pekudei 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/shabbat-pekudei-5779/) - For the fifth Shabbat in a row, our Torah reading features the details of the building of the Mishkan. It is as if the house committee has monopolized the agenda of five consecutive board meetings! I can imagine the complaints from the hesed, ritual and education committees: "What about our reports? Isn't there more to this space - [Passing of Marilyn Lutsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-marilyn-lutsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our former long time congregant, Marilyn Lutsky. A private funeral will be held for the family on Friday, April 24. The family will sit Shiva privately in their homes. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Kate Mandl z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-kate-mandl-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Kate Mandl, mother of our long-time congregant, Judy Glasel. A private funeral will be held on Tuesday, April 21, at 1:30 PM, but you can attend the funeral virtually using Rabbi Wise's regular Go To Meeting link. Click here for the link. Information on virtual shiva visit hours will follow. - [Passing of Bernice Golomb z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-bernice-golomb-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Bayside legacy congregant, Bernice Golumb, wife of Marvin. A private funeral will be held on Monday, April 20. Marvin will observe shiva privately. The phone number is (718) 428-2997. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Shemini 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/shabbat-shemini-5780/) - Dear Friends, I hope that you had a meaningful Pesah, and that you are enjoying hametz again in good health. We are entering what are known as the Israeli High Holy Days. This week, we commemorate Yom HaShoah veHagevurah; the following week, we will mourn for Israel's fallen soliders and terror victims, and then celebrate her - [Passing of Robert Saltzman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/13592/) - We are saddened by the passing of Robert Saltzman, our long-time congregant and past president. A private funeral was held today. Virtual Shiva is private for family only. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Sima Kaplan z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-sima-kaplan-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sima Kaplan, mother of our congregant, Leonard Kaplan. A private funeral was held during Hol HaMoed Pesah. Shiva began at the conclusion of Yom Tov and will continue until Wednesday morning. Virtual shiva visits can be made to Len and his family at the following times: Friday, April - [Passing of Ilsa Zimmerman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-ilsa-zimmerman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ilsa Zimmerman, sister of our long-time congregant Bernd Bildstein. A private funeral was held today, April 8th. Bernd will observe shiva today until the beginning of Yom Tov at sunset, at which point shiva concludes. After Shabbat, Bernd can be reached at (718) 479-2049. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort - [Shabbat Tzav/Hagadol 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/shabbat-tzav-hagadol-5780/) - Dear Friends, I hope that you are staying safe, and well, and managing as best as one can. You can find my dvar Torah for this Shabbat here. Since it's longer in this format than my usual teaser, I am sending it as an attachment instead of in the body of this message. Since Elijah - [Passing of Gerson Madfes z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/04/passing-of-gerson-madfes-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time Oak Hills congregant, Gerson Madfes, husband of Zita. The funeral will be held on Sunday, March 29th at 11 AM graveside. Attendance at the funeral is for family only. Zita will observe shiva at home; the phone number is (718) 279-8334. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort - [Shabbat Vayikra 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/03/shabbat-vayikra-5780/) - As we enter our third virtual Shabbat, I hope that you are finding the shul's resources and reach-out to be comforting. You can find my Shabbat dvar-Torah here. Since I write about a song, and we could all use some uplifting music, click here for the music video and here for the lyrics. Please join us for davening this eveningLikrat - [Passing of Jack Cohen Z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/03/passing-of-jack-cohen-zl-2/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant and board member, Jack Cohen, husband of Joan. Virtual Shiva Options are available on the Virtual Shiva PageHaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Tetzaveh/Zakhor 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/03/shabbat-tetzaveh-zakhor-5780/) - After Mordechai convinces her that she must risk her life by going to see the king uninvited, Esther dresses in royalty and enters his room. What ensues in chapter 5 of Megillat Esther sets the scene for the dramatic reversal of fortunes that is one of the main narratives in the text. As we continue - [The Power of Music](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/the-power-of-music/) - Many studies have proven that Music & Song is a great source of healing, both emotionally and physically. Music has a soothing effect on the mind, body and soul. They say that music helps secrete endorphins that help in the process of healing. Music can divert one's mind away from pain and suffering, at least - [Shabbat Terumah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/shabbat-terumah-5780/) - [Passing of Bernice Goldklang z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/passing-of-bernice-goldklang-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bernice Goldklang, mother of our congregant Rita Zipper. The funeral will be held on Sunday, February 23, at 12:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Rita and Scott - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/shabbat-mishpatim-shekalim-5780/) - Earlier this week, we studied the Torah's first post-Sinai law: what happens when your Hebrew slave, whose six years of servitude are coming to a close, doesn't want to leave you. "But if the slave declares, 'I love my master, and my wife and children: I do not wish to go free,' his master shall - [Shabbat Yitro 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/shabbat-yitro-5780/) - One of the most fascinating questions in the history of Jewish thought is the matter of chosenness. We affirm this doctrine every time we are called up to the Torah for an aliyah. In our blessings, we praise God "who chose us from among the nations and gave us His Torah." On this Shabbat Yitro, it's fitting - [Shabbat Beshalah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/shabbat-beshalah-5780/) - We are excited to welcome our scholar-in-residence, the renowned Israeli journalist Tal Schneider, this Shabbat. No doubt she'll address the many conflicts that persist in both Israeli and American politics, and the somewhat complex relationship between Israeli and American Jews. It's also Shabbat Shirah, the Shabbat of Song, so I'll spend a few moments exploring the - [A Jewish Family in the Bahamas](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/a-jewish-family-in-the-bahamas/) - Let me share a story with you about a Jewish family that was highlighted in the AEPi website recently. As many of you probably know, AEPi (Alpha Epsilon Pi) is the Jewish College Fraternity that operates chapters at more than 175 college campuses in seven countries. As noted in the home page of their website, - [Passing of Sam Oko z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/02/passing-of-sam-oko-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant Sam Oko, husband of Tova. The funeral will be held on Friday, January 31, at 1:00 PM, graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Tova's home, 76-69 172nd Street, in Fresh Meadows. Visitation hours are on Sunday through Wednesday, February - [Shabbat Bo 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-bo-5780/) - It is fascinating to trace the evolution of Pharaoh's reactions to the barrage of plagues that God brings against him and his people. By the end of last week's Torah portion, he has come a long way since his initial reaction to Moshe's message. The man who once said "I do not know the LORD - [Passing of Norman Gastman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/passing-of-norman-gastman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Norman Gastman, long time congregant, and husband of past president Rosalie Gastman. The funeral was held on Tuesday, January 21 in Edison, NJ. Shiva is being held at the home of Marni and Ari Gastman, 161 Aimee Drive, Freehold, NJ through Friday sundown. She can be reached on her - [Passing of Larry Diker z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/passing-of-larry-diker-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Larry Diker, brother of our congregant, William Diker. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, January 22, at 1:00 PM, graveside at Cedar Park Cemetery, 735 Forest Ave., in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will begin after the funeral in Newburgh, NY. It will continue at the home of Willy - [Shabbat Vaera 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-vaera-5780/) - I keep an email folder on each and every weekly Torah portion, collecting wisdom and commentary from a wide variety of published sources. Since I am a firm believer in Judaism's emphasis on reading and listening over writing and speaking, I consult my teachers and colleagues to see what texts and ideas inspire them. For - [Shabbat Shemot 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-shemot-5780/) - When we think of spirituality, we usually think of things ephemeral and esoteric. The term itself is based on a word, spirit, that is intangible and therefore not subject to the rules that apply to concrete and tangible things. That would lead one to think that there is little-to-no connection between the spirit and the - [Shabbat Vayehi 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-vayehi-5780/) - In the final moments of his life, our third patriarch, Ya'akov, prepares to give his children a picture of the future. Instead, he proceeds to reflect on their past. "And Ya'akov called his sons and said, 'Come together that I may tell you what is to befall you in days to come...Reuven, you are my - [Passing of Todd Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/passing-of-todd-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Todd Cohen, son of our congregants, Joan & Jack Cohen. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, January 7th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Washington Memorial Park Cemetery, 855 Canal Road, Mount Sinai, NY. Shiva will be observed at the - [Passing of Emanuel Crooks z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/passing-of-emanuel-crooks-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Emanuel Crooks, father of our custodian, Tony Crooks. The funeral will be held Saturday, January 18th on the Island of Jamaica. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayigash 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2020/01/shabbat-vayigash-5780-2/) - Now that Yosef has told his brothers who he really is, it's time to get his father to join the rest of the family in Egypt. What's more, when Pharaoh gets word of the connection, he instructs Yosef to tell his brothers to fetch their dad and reunite the family. "Do as follows: take from - [The Marvelous Month of Music](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/the-marvelous-month-of-music/) - The last 4 weeks were truly a musical journey. Our Salute to Israel Gala Concert at Lefrak Concert Hall was spectacular! The symphony was superb, and Ofir Sobol conducted magnificently! In fact, I had several people who asked me how many rehearsals Ofir had with the orchestra and they were stunned to hear they only - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/shabbat-miketz-hanukkah-5780/) - The tables are turned. Once upon a time, Yosef was left vulnerable, thrown in a pit by his brothers, soon to be sold into slavery for 20 pieces of silver. Now, they have come to Egypt desperate for rations with a famine raging in the region. And it is none other than Yosef who is - [Passing of Judith Rosen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/passing-of-judith-rosen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Judith Rosen, mother of our congregant Jaye Solomowitz. The funeral will be held Thursday, December 26th at 12 PM graveside at VA National Cemetery, 317 Bow Lane in Middletown, Connecticut. Shiva will begin in Connecticut. Shiva will continue at the home of Jaye & Ben Solomowitz, 75-25 210th - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5780/) - We will soon be celebrating the miracle of Hanukkah. Or, more accurately, the miracles of Hanukkah. We light candles for eight days to commemorate the extraordinary staying power of one small cruse of oil for eight days when the Hasmoneans recaptured and rededicated the Temple. But what about the Hasmonean victory over the Seleucid Greeks? - [Passing of Seymour Rosman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/passing-of-seymour-rosman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Seymour Rosman, former Bayside Jewish Center member. The funeral will be held tomorrow Tuesday, December 17th at 12 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Further details will follow HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/shabbat-vayishlah-5780/) - We Jews are understandably jumpy these days. Yet another act of violent hatred against our People in Jersey City is deeply unsettling, and it is natural for us to be frightened. Our ancestor Ya'akov also had good reason to be anxious at the beginning of this week's Torah portion, Vayishlah. He hasn't seen his twin - [Shabbat Vayeitzei 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/12/shabbat-vayeitzei-5780/) - When we think of the many stories of sibling rivalry in Sefer Bereshit, the Book of Genesis, we tend to focus on brothers. But let's not forget that in this week's Torah portion, Vayeitzei, the relationship between two sisters, Leah and Rahel, is front and center. There are several ways that the Torah draws our attention to - [Shabbat Toldot 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/shabbat-toldot-5780/) - In the religion of Biblical Israel, as in many societies, being the first-born was of great signficance. In Deuteronomy 21:15-17, we learn the legal impications of first-born status: "If a man has two wives, one loved and the other unloved, and both the loved and the unloved have borne him sons, but the first-born is - [Passing of Orin Kitzes z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/passing-of-orin-kitzes-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Orin Kitzes, our long time congregant and husband of Eileen. The funeral was held in New Jersey on Monday, November 25th. Shiva is being observed at the home of Robin Silk, 17 Burgess Road, Scarsdale, NY Tuesday 6-9 PM and Wednesday 1-3 PM. Shiva will also be - [Passing of Ada Gams z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/passing-of-ada-gams-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ada Gams, our long time congregant. The funeral will be held Wednesday, November 27th at 12 Noon at Schwartz Brother Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial at Knollwood Cemetery. Shiva will be held at the children's homes in Florida. HaMakom Yenahem--may God comfort the mourners. - [Staying Warm at Shul](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/staying-warm-at-shul/) - Winter is back…we knew it was on the way but we are never quite prepared. We are always trying to find ways to stay warm; fire places, Hot Chocolate, extra blankets, raising the thermostat, scarves, gloves, boots, etc. All of these ideas can help keep our hands and feet warm but we also need to - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5780/) - There is trouble in King David's palace, and not for the first time. The king is elderly and cannot stay warm. All around him there is turmoil and uncertainty. As his days are numbered, who will succeed him and ascend to the throne? In a scene reminiscent of the tragic, failed rebellion of Avshalom, Adoniyah - [Passing of Cecelia Halpern z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/passing-of-cecelia-halpern-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Cecelia Halpern, mother of our congregant Marc Halpern. The funeral will be held Sunday, November 17th at 12 Noon at Gutterman's Funeral Home, 8000 Jericho Turnpike in Woodbury. Burial at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Halpern home 217-12 49th Avenue - [Passing of Alan Plush z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/passing-of-alan-plush-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Alan Plush, son of our long time congregant Rita Plush. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, November 13th at 9:30 AM at Riverside Memorial Chapel, 180 W 76th Street in New York City. Burial at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Flushing. Shiva will be observed at Rita's - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/11/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5780/) - As we mark Veterans' Shabbat this week as is our tradition at HHBJC, let's all visualize the image of a military cemetery. We can see it in our mind's eye, even if we've never been to Normandy or Arlington. We see a vast array of crosses, with an occasional Jewish star sprinkled in. That has - [Our Gala Concert - A Night to Remember](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/our-gala-concert-a-night-to-remember/) - The High Holidays and Chagim at our beloved HHBJC were truly beautiful! It warmed my heart to see all of you gleaming with love & togetherness. We chanted and swayed together as our prayers rose up to God filled with sincere faith, passion & hope. It is these moments, when we are all praying and - [Shabbat Noah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/shabbat-noah-5780/) - All the rain we've had in the last two weeks may be annoying, but I'd hardly consider it frightening. From the picture the Torah paints in this week's Torah portion, Noah, I imagine that the victims of the flood would have been terrified from the moment the skies opened and the rains came down in a - [Passing of Benjamin Spector z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-benjamin-spector-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our past president, Benjamin Spector. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, October 29th at 11 AM graveside at Mount Lebanon Cemetery, 189 Gill Lane, Iselin, NJ 08830. Shiva will be observed at the home of Ben's daughter, Amy Adler, 4043 Judith Lane in Oceanside, NY at the following - [Shabbat Bereshit 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/shabbat-bereshit-5780/) - If you look carefully at the first chapters of the Torah, you will notice two different creation stories. Genesis 1 and Genesis 2 were traditionally understood to be one and the same narrative, but there are many clear differences between them. As we studied together in the waning minutes of Simhat Torah, the most glaring - [Passing of Harvey Goldstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-harvey-goldstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Harvey Goldstein. The funeral will be held Wednesday, October 23rd at 10:15 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Goldstein home, 80-45 214th St, in Hollis - [Passing of Henry Gerber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-henry-gerber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Henry Gerber. The funeral will be held Wednesday, October 23rd at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Please stay tuned for confirmation of details after Yom Tov concludes. May God - [Shabbat Hol HaMo'ed Sukkot 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5780/) - It's one of the Hebrew Bible's most famous passages: chapter three of Kohelet, or Ecclesiastes. Pete Seeger's folk song popularized it, and The Byrds recorded the version most people know: Turn! Turn! Turn! (To Everything There is a Season). In our annual chapter-by-chapter ritual reading of Kohelet, we will chant and ruminate on this poignant passage this Shabbat Hol - [Shabbat Ha-azinu 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/shabbat-ha-azinu-5780/) - This short week has a short Torah reading, Ha-azinu. In the traditional count of the 613 commandments, we reached the final mitzvah last week, in Parshat Vayelekh. The most famous Bar-Mitzvah gift in Jewish history, Sefer HaHinukh, which lists all 613, has no entry for this portion, seeing it as a poetic recap of Israelite history from Sinai, and a - [Passing of Debra Klein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-debra-klein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Debra Klein, our long time congregant. The funeral will be held Sunday, October 6th at 2:00 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at The Marriott LaGuardia Hotel, 102-05 Ditmars Boulevard, East Elmhurst, NY, Sunday - [Passing of Mildred Berkey z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-mildred-berkey-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Mildred Berkey, our Oak Hills member. Services will be held on Friday, October 4th at 10:45 AM at the chapel at Cedar Park & Beth El Cemeteries, 735 Forest Avenue, Paramus, NJ 07652. Shiva will be observed at the homes of David and Rachel, 68 South Road, Harrison, - [Passing of Erika Potasinski z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/passing-of-erika-potasinski-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Erika Potasinski, our Oak Hills member. The funeral will be held on Friday, October 4th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Mt. Hebron Cemetery in Flushing. Shiva will be observed at the Potasinski home, 230-21 58th Avenue in Oakland Gardens on - [Shabbat Vayelekh/Shuvah 5780](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/10/shabbat-vayelekh-shuvah-5780/) - Every Yom Kippur afternoon, in the haftarah, we read one of the most fascinating short books in the Bible--Jonah. Because of time considerations, we spend more time chanting it than delving into it. So on this Shabbat Shuvah, when we are beckoned to return, we ought to look more carefully at the Jonah story and its thoughts - [Gmar Chatima Tova Our Gala Concert - A Tribute to Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/09/gmar-chatima-tova-our-gala-concert-a-tribute-to-israel/) - The Holidays are now upon us and we are bonding so beautifully as a community and as a family! Let the love and spirituality that we share strengthen our voices as we pray to Hashem for a healthy & peaceful New Year! HERE ARE DATES AND EVENTS TO REMEMBER as we begin the New Year…Get - [Shabbat Nitzavim 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/09/shabbat-nitzavim-5779/) - Is teshuvah, repentance, easy or difficult? Your thoughts on this question will surely vary, depending on your experience. They might also vary based on what we think the Torah meant when it introduced us to teshuvah in this week's Torah portion, Nitzavim. Chapter 30 of Deuteronomy begins with a ten-verse section in which the word shav--return--appears seven times. Sometimes, Israel - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5779/) - Near the end of this week's reading, Parshat Ki-Tavo, after the ceremony of announcing the choice between rich reward and frightening punishment, Moshe tells the Israelites that it is as if they have no sense of their own history. He says: "The LORD did not give your heart the ability to know, eyes to see and - [Shabbat Shoftim 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/09/shabbat-shoftim-5779/) - If you are connected to Floridians on social media, you probably witnessed their emotional rollercoaster over the past week. As forecasts for Hurricane Dorian projected catastrophic wind and rain for the heavily-populated coast, several of my relatives and friends prepared for the worst. They shopped for supplies, arranged for shutters to protect their homes, and - [Shabbat Re-eh 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/08/shabbat-re-eh-5779/) - This week's Torah portion, Re-eh, introduces us to false prophecy. "If there appears among you a prophet or a dream-diviner and he gives you a sign or a portent, saying, 'Let us follow and worship another god'--whom you have not experienced--even if the sign or portent that he has named to you comes true, do not - [Shana Tova - Looking Ahead to 5780 - Gala Concert - A Tribute to Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/08/shana-tova-looking-ahead-to-5780-gala-concert-a-tribute-to-israel/) - Wow, the summer is flying by. Yes, it was really a hot one! Soon the temperatures will start dipping & we will miss the summer warmth. The most important thing is good health, happiness and community togetherness! The High Holidays are fast approaching and I am planning programs for this coming year, 5780. Here are - [Shabbat Ekev 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/08/shabbat-ekev-5779/) - As he continues his farewell address to the Israelites, Moshe once again describes the Promised Land in glowing terms. "For the LORD your God is bringing you into a good land, a land with streams and springs and fountains issuing from plain and hill; a land of wheat and barley, of vines, figs, and pomegranates, - [Shabbat Mattot-Mae'ei 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/08/shabbat-mattot-maeei-5779/) - It's a nice coincidence for me that right after we'll read Parshat Mas'ei this Shabbat, I'll embark on two road trips--one to visit my mother in Toronto, and the other a family excursion to Virginia. As a young child, I would sit in the back seat on drives to New York or Chicago, so road trips are - [Shabbat Pinhas 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/shabbat-pinhas-5779/) - Realizing that he is nearing the end of his life and his tenure as the leader of the Israelites, Moshe turns to God to ask for a succession plan. "Let the LORD, source of the spirits of all flesh, appoint someone over the community who shall go out before them and come in before them, - [Passing of Jane Borko z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/passing-of-jane-borko-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Jane Borko, sister of our congregant Nancy Borko. The funeral will be held on Thursday, July 18th at 2:15 PM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the Borko/Fusfeld home, 212-09 64th Avenue in Oakland Gardens on Thursday until 9 PM, Friday from - [Passing of Sheldon Goldfarb z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/passing-of-sheldon-goldfarb-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sheldon Goldfarb, father of our congregant Ross Goldfarb. The funeral will be held Tuesday, July 16th at 11:30 AM graveside at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the Goldfarb home, 78-24 222nd Street in Hollis Hills on Tuesday from 7-9 PM, Wednesday from 2-4 - [Passing of Edward Steven Allen Domroe z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/passing-of-edward-steven-allen-domroe-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Edward Steven Allen Domroe, brother of our congregant Adrienne Glaubiger. The funeral will be held Monday, July 8th at 1 PM graveside at Beth Moses Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the Glaubiger home, 58-29 260th Street in Little Neck on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from - [Shabbat Korah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/shabbat-korah-5779/) - The opening words of this Torah portion remind me of the grammar joke I always loved: "This sentence no verb." In the case of our reading, Parshat Korah, we find the following: "Vayikah Korah...vayakumu lifnei Moshe--Korah [and Datan and Aviram took...and they arose." This sentence has a verb, but its first verb has no object. Korah - [Spectacular Weekend of Celebration for HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/07/spectacular-weekend-of-celebration-for-hhbjc/) - Wow, what a beautiful and very full weekend we had at HHBJC. It all started on Wednesday evening, June 12th at our YIDDISH CLUB gathering. We had a blast! We learned, we laughed & we noshed together. Boy, did we laugh! Our Yiddish Club will resume following the High Holidays. Dates to to be announced. - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5779/) - It's not easy to cope with conflicting opinions or contradictory information. That was the conundrum facing the Israelites when they heard the report of the scouts in this week's Torah reading, Shelah-Lekha. On the one hand, they heard that the land which God has promised them is "eretz okhelet yoshveha--one that devours her settlers" (Numbers 13:32); on - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5779/) - What gets you up and moving in the morning? For the Israelites, there were two signals that it was time for the camp to mobilize. One was the cloud (Numbers 9:15-23), and the other was the trumpets (10:1-10). Almost immediately after we learn of these signals in this week's Torah reading, Beha'alotekha, there's a travel crisis. - [Passing of Debra Gordon z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/06/passing-of-debra-gordon-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Debra Gordon, our Oak Hills member and wife of Norman Gordon. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, June 12 at 12:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the Norman's home, 32-18 212th St. - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/06/shabbat-bemidbar-5779/) - As we prepare to enter Shabbat Bemidbar and Shavu'ot, we are attuned to the sounds of Revelation. The area I'd like us to consider this year is the pitch and tone of those sounds. Our theme for Saturday night's Tikkun Leil Shavu'ot is "Women's Voices in Torah." In anticipation, I'd like us to consider how our gender might influence the - [Shabbat Behukotai 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/shabbat-behukotai-5779/) - The great Bible scholar and translator Robert Alter, became famous decades ago with two classic books: The Art of Biblical Narrative and The Art of Biblical Poetry. He has never written a book called "The Art of Priestly Legal Minutiae." And that is unfortunate. As we come to the end of Sefer Vayikra, Leviticus, perhaps we should consider - [HHBJC Stays Vigilant NEVER AGAIN](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/hhbjc-stays-vigilant-never-again/) - We recently commemorated Yom Hashoah and as we remember and honor the six million who were murdered by the hands of the Nazis, we say NEVER AGAIN! It is now becoming abundantly clear that what we thought would never happen in the United States is indeed happening. Sadly and frighteningly, anti-Semitism is now at a - [Shabbat Behar 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/shabbat-behar-5779/) - If someone were to research every published sermon by American rabbis on this week's Torah portion, Behar, I would be willing to wager that the most common verse cited in these sermons would be Leviticus 25:9. "You shall proclaim freedom throughout the land for all its inhabitants." After all, that's the Scriptural passage that appears on - [Shabbat Emor 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/shabbat-emor-5779/) - At the end of this week's Torah portion, Emor, we find a curious episode of blasphemy. A rare moment of narrative in a sea of ritual detail, the story goes like this: "There came out among the Israelites one whose mother was Israelite and whose father was Egyptian. And a fight broke out in the camp - [Shabbat Kedoshim 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/shabbat-kedoshim-5779/) - It has been said that Parshat Kedoshim, particularly Leviticus 19, is the core of the entire Torah, and that at the heart of that core chapter is the phrase "You shall love your neighbor as yourself" (19:18). "Amar Rabbi Akiva: zeh klal gadol baTorah--Rabbi Akiva said that this is a central principle of the Torah." That being said, - [Passing of Ruth Hersh z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/passing-of-ruth-hersh-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ruth Hersh, mother of our congregant Audrey Shepard. The funeral will be held Friday, May 10th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Audrey and Daniel Shepard, - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/05/shabbat-aharei-mot-5779/) - We know the ritual of the scapegoat, the seh la'azazel, from the Torah reading for Yom kippur morning, and it comes from this week's parashah, Aharei-Mot. On the Day of Atonement, the High Priest designates two goats for different roles. One is to be offered as the sacred day's sacrifice on the altar; let's call him the - [Shabbat/Eighth Day of Pesah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/04/shabbat-eighth-day-of-pesah-5779/) - We refer to Pesah as zeman heruteinu, the time of our freedom. Maybe that's why this is one of the most observed holidays among American Jews, as liberty is a core American concept. But are the Jewish and American versions of freedom/liberty one and the same? And if they are not, are they even compatible? - [Jewish Broadcasting Service (JBS) Spreading Jewish Education, Culture & Thought](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/04/jewish-broadcasting-service-jbs-spreading-jewish-education-culture-thought/) - I am an official JBS Groupie! Before my interview in January with Rabbi Mark Golub on JBS’s L’CHAYIM, I did not have JBS in my cable package but once I was called by Rabbi Golub’s office to come to his studio in Fort Lee, NJ for an interview, I called Spectrum and although they made - [Shabbat/First Day of Pesah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/04/shabbat-first-day-of-pesah-5779/) - The best books are the ones with pictures, especially Haggadot. One of our family's favorite Seder traditions is comparing the pictures or drawings of the Four Children. Some of the Haggadot we use have collections of drawings and artistic images depicting the wise, rebellious, simple and unable-to-ask children. The agenda and biases of a particular artist or editor can - [Shabbat Tazria'/Rosh Hodesh/HaHodesh 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/04/shabbat-tazria-rosh-hodesh-hahodesh-5779/) - For the next couple of weeks, our Torah reading will attest to an ancient fascination, maybe even an obsession, with ritual purity--the Hebrew terms being tohorah and tumah. We see it this week in Parshat Tazria', first in the context of childbirth, and then at length in terms of dermatological conditions. There's something profoundly egalitarian about these laws, archaic - [Shabbat Shemini/Parah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/shabbat-shemini-parah-5779/) - This has been a painful and traumatic week for our entire community, as we are left reeling by the tragic passing of our rabbi and teacher, Rabbi Kessler. In my eulogy on Tuesday morning, I referenced the story from this week's Torah reading, Parshat Shemini, of the sudden deaths of Nadav and Avihu, Aharon's two - [Passover Warming Our Hearts](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/passover-warming-our-hearts/) - I feel Passover is in the air. What a liberating feeling! Our festival of Freedom, our Exodus from Egypt, our liberation from slavery and our journey to Eretz Yisrael. I recently saw a movie about a German Jewish family that was so fortunate to be able to escape to Switzerland just as the Nazi’s were - [Passing of Rabbi Gary D. Kessler z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/passing-of-rabbi-gary-d-kessler-zl/) - We regret, with profound sorrow, to inform our congregational community of the passing today of our esteemed Associate Rabbi Gary Kessler, HaRav Avraham David ben Zelda. The funeral service will be held in the sanctuary of the Hollis Hills Bayside Jewish Center, 210-10 Union Turnpike, Hollis Hills New York, at 9:30 am on Tuesday March 26. Burial will follow that day - [Passing of Eva Wohl z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/passing-of-eva-wohl-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Eva Wohl, mother of our congregant Jeff Wohl. The funeral will be held Sunday, March 17 at 11:30 AM graveside at King Solomon Memorial Park, 550 Dwasline Road, Clifton, NJ. Shiva details to be announced. HaMakom Yenahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayikra/Zakhor 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/shabbat-vayikra-zakhor-5779/) - This is the fourth year that we have spent the Shabbat prior to Purim studying a chapter of Megillat Ester at a lunch and learn, so by my count we should be on chapter 4. I enjoy this annual tradition because while we read the megillah every year, and we think we know the story of Purim well, many - [Remembering My Dear Friend and Our Long Time Congregant Sam Solasz z"l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/remembering-my-dear-friend-and-our-long-time-congregant-sam-solasz-zl/) - On February 13th, my good friend, Sam Solasz passed away. He was a devoted husband to our dear Rose Solasz and loving father of Mark, Scott and Diane and grandfather to so many adoring grandchildren. I am so deeply saddened and will miss him terribly. Sam and Rose have been members of our shul for - [Fun & Laughter at HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/03/fun-laughter-at-hhbjc/) - March madness is here! Purim is around the corner and Pesach is around the next corner. How time flies! I want to give you the heads up about a fantastic program we have coming to HHBJC! My friend, CHARLES (Charlie) BERNHAUT, a well-known Jewish Radio personality, a lover of Jewish Music, Jewish Comedy, an outspoken - [Passing of Usher Farber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/02/passing-of-usher-farber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Usher Farber, long time congregant and husband of Bertha Farber. The funeral will be held tomorrow Tuesday, February 26th at 10:00 AM at Gutterman's Funeral Home in Woodbury. Burial at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be held at the home of Alan Farber, 9 Scenic View - [Shabbat Ki-Tissa 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/02/shabbat-ki-tissa-5779/) - Some of the best narratives are the ones where no one comes out looking good. House of Cards was certainly one of those stories full of entirely unsympathetic characters. It's possible to read the Golden Calf narrative the same way. Aharon (weak leader) loses control of an impatient Israelite community (ingrates). Moshe has to talk a hypersensitive - [Passing of Sam Solasz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/02/passing-of-sam-solasz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sam Solasz, our long time congregant, and husband of Rose Solasz. The funeral will be held on Friday, February 15 at 12:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. The cemetery is Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at Rose's home, 80-04 - [Shabbat Terumah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/02/shabbat-terumah-5779/) - The instruction manual for the building of the mishkan occupies the majority of our Torah readings for the next two weeks. Although one doesn't usual find great moral guidance in instruction manuals, the brilliance of our interpretative tradition is its ability to find meaning in even the materials and measurements. For example, consider what this week's portion, Terumah, - [A Cure For Our Winter Blues](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/01/a-cure-for-our-winter-blues/) - Winter is upon us. The air is frigid, days are short, snow is always lurking in the background…yet I am comforted and my heart is warm when I enter the doors of our Synagogue and feel the love & warmth. I hear…“Sol, come talk to me, I want to show you something”…“Cantor, my granddaughter just - [Passing of Morris Jassy z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2019/01/passing-of-morris-jassy-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Morris Jassy, father of our congregant Jeannette Goller. The funeral will be held on Monday, January 28 at 1:00 PM graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Jeannette and Ira Goller, 82-37 214th St. in Hollis Hills. The phone - [HHBJC Happenings & Save the Dates](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/hhbjc-happenings-save-the-dates/) - Our HHBJC ANNUAL FAMILY/COMMUNITY CHANUKAH DINNER was FANTABULOUS! The food was delicious with a great variety, something for everyone, from Fortune Glatt Kosher Chinese. I rarely eat Chinese food so it was a real treat for me. The desserts were also delicious, wonderful fresh fruit, parve ice cream sundaes and the best sufganiot I’ve had. - [Passing of Robert Beckoff z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/passing-of-robert-beckoff-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Robert Beckoff, brother of our congregant Alan Beckoff. The funeral will be held graveside Wednesday, December 26th, at 9:30 AM in Norwalk, Connecticut. Shiva will be observed at the Beckoff home, 82-19 218th Street in Hollis Hills Wednesday from 7-9 PM, Thursday 1-4 PM and 7-9 PM and Friday - [Passing of Max Gabay z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/passing-of-max-gabay-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Max Gabay, brother of our congregant Victor Gabay. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, December 26th, at 2:00 pm at Boulevard Riverside Chapel, 1450 Broadway, in Hewlett, NY. Burial and shiva information will follow. HaMakom Yenahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Vayehi 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/shabbat-vayehi-5779/) - As he learns that Ya'akov is ill, Yosef rushes to his father's bedside, bringing along his sons Menashe and Ephraim. When Yosef arrives, Ya'akov sits up in bed and launches into a rather long speech, especially considering that he is apparently gravely ill. Here is that speech in its entirety: "El Shaddai appeared to - [Passing of Ken Rudolf z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/passing-of-ken-rudolf-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our community friend Ken Rudolf, husband of Lisa and father of Daniel and Ilana. The funeral will be held Thursday, December 6th, at 10:00 AM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel in Forest Hills. Burial will be at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the - [Shabbat Miketz/Rosh Hodesh/Hanukkah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/shabbat-miketz-rosh-hodesh-hanukkah/) - If I told you that on the first night of Hanukkah, I light eight candles, and seven on the second night, and so on until the final night, when I light one candle, what would you say to me? If you were to say to me that I'm doing it wrong, you would be correct. - [Our Torah Fund Honoree JoAnn Luquis](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/12/our-torah-fund-honoree-joann-luquis/) - This past Sunday, our dear member JOANN LUQUIS received our Sisterhood Torah Fund Honor. This honor is representing the Women’s League of the Jewish Theological Seminary. I was thrilled to be a part of this event. JoAnn is a very special person and member of our community. She has been on a journey ever since - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/11/shabbat-vayeshev-5779/) - In last week's Torah reading, our People received our Biblical ethnic identity. Once Ya'akov's name was changed to Yisrael, the scene was set for us to become his descendants, B'nai Yisrael. But this week, the wheels are set in motion for us to become Yehudim, Jews. We derive our religious, cultural and ethnic moniker from only one - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5779/) - Infertility is a common thread in the Torah and in later Biblical books. Three of our four matriarchs struggle to conceive a child, as do women such as Hannah and Manoah's unnamed wife. All of these stories seem to have happy endings, but Rahel's case ends in tragedy. Last week, in Parshat Vayeitzei, Rahel is - [Shabbat Toldot 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/11/shabbat-toldot-5779/) - Esav has come home from the hunt, and all he wants is something to eat. He sees his twin brother, Ya'akov, cooking lentil stew, and demands some. Ya'akov, wily from the womb, asks for the birthright in return. Esav's answer is remarkable: "I am at the point of death, so of what use is the - [Shabbat Ekev 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/shabbat-ekev-5778/) - Thirty-five years ago, the British band The Police had their greatest commercial success with the song Every Breath You Take. On the surface, with its pleasant melody, it seemed to be a song about deep, devotional love. But a more careful listen to Sting's lyrics will expose the speaker's more sinister motives: "Every breath you take/every move you - [Some Points of Interest & HHBJC Happenings to Share](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/11/some-points-of-interest-hhbjc-happenings-to-share/) - In early October it was announced that Arthur Ashkin, Ph.D, 96 years old, born in Brooklyn and Jewish, won the Nobel Prize in Physics. He shared the prize with two of his colleagues. He was awarded this honor for his groundbreaking work on optical tweezers (optical trapping). It is described as the method of using - [Shabbat Vayera 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/shabbat-vayera-5779/) - It has been said that the pivotal moment in our tradition's history was when Avraham began to negotiate with God over the fate of the righteous people in Sodom. "Far be it from You to do such a thing like this, to kill virtuous with wicked...far be it from You. Will the judge of all - [Passing of Harriet Simon z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/passing-of-harriet-simon-zl-2/) - We are saddened by the passing of Harriet Simon, mother of our congregant and officer, Joel Simon. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, October 24, at 11:15 am at I.J. Morris Funeral Home, 1700 Coney Island Avenue, in Brooklyn. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva information will follow. HaMakom - [Passing of Meyer Goldklang z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/passing-of-meyer-goldklang-zl/) - Just prior to Rosh Hashanah we were saddened by the passing of Meyer Goldklang, father of our congregant Rita Zipper. The funeral was held on Friday, September 7 at 11:00 am at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway and burial was at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. HaMakom Yenahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Harriet Simon z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/passing-of-harriet-simon-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Harriet Simon, mother of our congregant and officer, Joel Simon. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, October 24, at 11:15 am at I.J. Morris Funeral Home, 1700 Coney Island Avenue, in Brooklyn. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva information will follow. HaMakom - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5779/) - When we say at the seder that "My father was a wandering Aramean--Arami oved avi"--we might be referring to our very first father, Avram. At the end of last week's Torah portion, we met him, and he is almost immediately on the move, leaving Ur of the Chaldeans on his way to Haran. Of course, his travels - [Shabbat Bereshit 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/shabbat-bereshit-5779/) - "When the woman saw that the tree was good for eating and a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable as a source of wisdom, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave some to her husband, and he ate" (Genesis 3:6). What kind of fruit was it? It's - [Dates and Events to Remember from Cantor Zim](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/dates-and-events-to-remember-from-cantor-zim/) - As we begin the New Year, here are some DATES TO REMEMBER & DATES TO LOOK OUT FOR… Come join our unique “YIDDISH CLUB”. We will learn a bisel, laugh a bisel and nosh a bisel. All are welcome! (Wednesday evenings at 8:00 PM) DATES: OCTOBER 24th & NOVEMBER 28th LEARN TO LEAD - [Remembering My Dear Friend Mordechai Sobol](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/10/remembering-my-dear-friend-mordechai-sobol/) - My intention was to write an article reflecting on our beautiful Rosh Hashanah services but due to life’s unexpected turn of events, it is with tremendous sadness and shock that I tell you that my very dear friend and esteemed Colleague, Dr./Cantor Mordechai Sobol, suddenly passed away on September 15th of a massive brain aneurysm. - [Shabbat Hol Hamoed Sukkot 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/09/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5779/) - Do you ever feel that all of your hard work is for naught? Do you ever ruminate on the reality that no matter how much you accumulate, you can't take it with you? Do you lay awake at night worrying? If the answer to any or all of these questions is "yes," then chapter - [Shabbat Ha-azinu 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/09/shabbat-ha-azinu-5779/) - Before delving into this coming Shabbat's readings, I want to express my gratitude to our community for such a meaningful start to 5779. It is a privilege to pray, learn, and connect with you on these most holy days. As promised, here are some video clips of the songs I referenced in my Yom - [Passing of Irving Stumer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/09/passing-of-irving-stumer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Irving Stumer, brother of our congregant Frank Stumer. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Thursday, September 13 at 10:00 am at Guttermans, 175 N. Long Beach Road in Rockville Centre. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the home of - [Shabbat Nitzavim 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/09/shabbat-nitzavim-5778/) - Teshuvah--repentance. It's one of the most important concepts in all of Judaism, but you won't find it in the Torah. Well, that's not entirely true; in this week's Torah portion, Nitzavim, we read the following: "When all these things befall you...and you take them to heart amidst the various nations to which the LORD your God - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5778/) - The Torah demands of us that we be generous. Does it expect us to extend our generosity to the point where it becomes detrimental, both to the giver and the recipient? Consider this hypothetical situation: you are walking on Broadway, and you encounter a person who is clearly stricken with both poverty and drug addiction. - [Looking Ahead 5779](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/looking-ahead-5779/) - Wow, this summer has been so hot but it has been a beautiful one…We just celebrated our merger with the Jewish Center of Oak Hills with a very special Friday Night Service & Dinner and Saturday morning Shabbat Service. So many attended this celebratory Shabbat and our Congregation was filled with spirituality, love and friendship. - [Shabbat Shoftim 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/shabbat-shoftim-5778/) - When you think of the great leaders of ancient Israel, the list would surely include at least a few kings: David, Solomon, Hezekiah, among others. Of course, there are no Israelite kings in the Torah, and the only mention of a future Israelite king appears this week, in Parshat Shoftim. It's the passage where the Torah - [Passing of Dr. George Moriber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/passing-of-dr-george-moriber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dr. George Moriber, father of our congregant Sharon Apelbaum. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, August 15 at 2:00 pm at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be observed at the Moriber home, 147-08 70th - [Passing of Barbara Saltzman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/08/passing-of-barbara-saltzman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant Barbara Saltzman, wife of Robert Saltzman and mother of Lynn Okin. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, August 7, at 12:00 pm at Schwartz Brothers Chapels in Forest Hills. Shiva will be observed at the home of Lynn & Avery Okin, 217-06 85th - [Shabbat Vaethanan 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/07/shabbat-vaethanan-5778/) - Hag Sameah! Today it is my pleasure to wish you a festive Tu B'Av, one of the least-known but most festive days on the Jewish calendar. No, it's not Tu Bishvat, so we won't be having a fruit-filled seder; and it's clearly not Tish'ah B'Av, that mournful day we commemorated earlier this week. What is Tu B'Av? It's - [Shabbat Devarim 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/07/shabbat-devarim-5778/) - Two passages from this week's Torah portion, Devarim, jump out at me this week. One is a seemingly irrelevant but oft-appearing geographical reference, for example: "Across the Jordan in the land of Moab, Moses undertook to make this instruction clear" (Deuteronomy 1:5). The phrase B'ever haYarden, "across the Jordan, occurs several times in this Biblical book. But - [Music for the Heart & Soul Jewish Talent Hits Broadway](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/07/music-for-the-heart-soul-jewish-talent-hits-broadway/) - I would like to share with all of you the beautiful moment I recently experienced at the Cantors Assembly Convention a few weeks ago, which took place in West Palm Beach, Florida. Although we were right near the beach, we stayed indoors, going from session to session, filled with music, interesting lectures, tradition and friendship. - [Shabbat Korah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/shabbat-korah-5778/) - The story of Korah's rebellion is one of most textually complicated passages in the Torah. There are multiple players, all with a similar complaint, namely that Moshe and Aharon have solidified their leadership at the expense of others who were equally deserving or qualified. But these multiple players have diverse agendas, and sorting out who - [Passing of Robert Sparrow z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/passing-of-robert-sparrow-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant Robert Sparrow, husband of Marcia. The funeral will be held on Monday, June 11, at 12:30 pm at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will take place at Mount Ararat Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Marcia Sparrow, - [Passing of Fred Feingold z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/passing-of-fred-feingold-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Fred Feingold, father of our congregant Dr. Robert Feingold. The funeral will be on Sunday, June 10 at 2:00 pm, graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Robert and Kristina Feingold, 35 Oxford Blvd, in Great Neck, until Friday - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5778/) - "How could they have done this to their children?" The Israelites have it all set up perfectly. God has freed them from slavery, rescued them from the Egyptians, sustained them in the wilderness, forgiven their foibles, and prepared them for the Promised Land. Now, so close in both location and time to arriving in - [Our Mamas and Papas](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/our-mamas-and-papas/) - June and I were down in Florida recently celebrating our grandson Jordan’s graduation from Miami Law School. I was choked up the entire weekend because it was a special day of celebration. It was also Mother’s Day and I get very emotional not only thinking of my mother but the beauty and uniqueness that all - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5778/) - Two weeks ago, I reflected on the fact that according to the Biblical model, in approaching age 50, I would soon be exempt from military service. This week, in reading Parshat Beha'alotekha, I realized that if I had been born a Levite in those days, I'd also be on the verge of retirement. "But at - [Shabbat Naso 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/05/shabbat-naso-5778/) - Who had the most famous hair in the Hebrew Bible? If your answer is Shimshon, you would be in good company. Hair is the source of his prodigious strength, and when he is betrayed by Delilah to the Philistines, he is doomed. But you might also have offered Avshalom's locks as the Bible's primary exhibit - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5778/) - I've never worn a military uniform, not even as a Purim costume, because I've never considered myself worthy of one. But as I approach my 50th birthday in a few months, I realize this week that had I been born in a different time in Jewish history, I would just be aging out of military - [Shabbat Behar-Behukotai 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/05/shabbat-behar-behukotai-5778/) - Years ago, on one of my trips to Israel, I found myself bumping into one familiar face after another as I walked in Jerusalem. It was in the days before Facebook, but I realized at the time that in terms of Jewish geography, Jerusalem was the ultimate social media site. If you haven't seen someone - [Shabbat Emor 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/05/shabbat-emor-5778/) - "In three places [Scripture] mentions the festivals: In Leviticus, because of their order; in Numbers, because of their sacrifices; and in Deuteronomy, because of the leap year [to assure that Passover is celebrated in the spring]." (Sifrei Devarim 127) It is rather fascinating that the Torah instructs us about the scheduled celebrations we call holidays - [Celebrating Israel's 70th Anniversary-Shabbat Service & Kiddish on May 5th In Honor of Rabbi Joe & Chana Simckes](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/05/celebrating-israels-70th-anniversary-shabbat-service-kiddish-on-may-5th-in-honor-of-rabbi-joe-chana-simckes/) - Seventy years since the establishment of our beloved State of Israel. What an incredible milestone! Celebrations have been taking place across the entire Jewish world. Israel has been singing, dancing & beaming with pride. Jews of all ages & backgrounds are in a “state of Simcha”. Our Jewish Homeland is strong & vibrant! I was - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/04/shabbat-aharei-mot-kedoshim-5778/) - In the midst of the Holiness Code, the section of the Torah that we read this Shabbat with our double portion of Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim, we find an agricultural law that seems contrary to a farmer's instincts. "When you enter the land and plant any tree for food, you shall regard its fruit as forbidden. Three years it - [Shabbat Shemini 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/04/shabbat-shemini-5778/) - We are in the midst of what Rabbi Donniel Hartman calls "the High Holy Days of the State of Israel." This is the Shabbat that conencts Yom HaShoah veHagevurah, which we just finished observing, to Yom HaZikaron and Yom Ha-atzmaut, which are observed and celebrated next week. It's an emotional rollercoaster for Israelis in particular, and for many Jews - [Passing of Doris Krinitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/04/passing-of-doris-krinitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Doris Krinitz, mother of Judy Krinitz. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Sunday, April 8 at 9 AM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Judy Krinitz and Rabbi Wise, 219-58 - [Yom Hashoah Community Commemoration at HHBJC - A Rare Interview with Sam Solasz](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/04/yom-hashoah-community-commemoration-at-hhbjc-a-rare-interview-with-sam-solasz/) - Firstly, I must share with you my reflections on what a beautiful evening we just experienced together as we honored our beloved Rabbi David Wise. The night was filled with love, appreciation, honor and respect. There was so much ruach (spirit) and happiness that surrounded us as we celebrated our Rabbi’s 13th year as our - [Passing of Isaac Bodner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/passing-of-isaac-bodner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Isaac Bodner, father of our congregant Steve Bodner. The funeral was held, Friday, March 16th at 10 AM at Schwartz Brothers on Queens Boulevard in Forest Hills. Burial was at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Steve will be sitting shiva at his father's home, 112-27 68th Road - [Passing of Bernardo Goldowski z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/passing-of-bernardo-goldowski-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Bernardo Goldowski, husband of Dolores Goldowski. The funeral will be held Thursday, March 15th at 9:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the Goldowski home, 209-03 - [Passing of Julian Hornstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/passing-of-julian-hornstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Julian Hornstein, our longtime Bayside Congregant. The funeral was held Wednesday, March 14th at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial was at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at Julian's home, 33-36 208th Street in Bayside, today from 3-7 PM, Friday 3-5 - [Shabbat Vayikra/HaHodesh 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/shabbat-vayikra-hahodesh-5778/) - From the moment I began collecting multi-volume Torah commentaries in my JTS days, I noticed a fascinating trend. In almost every set that contained five volumes, one for each of the books of the humash (an abbreviation for Hamishah Humshei Torah, the Five Books of the Torah), the thickest volume of all was Vayikra, Leviticus. Considering that the - [Shabbat Vayakhel-Pekudei/Parah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/shabbat-vayakhel-pekudei-parah-5778/) - Of the many things I had a chance to learn about and discuss during my five days in Washington with AIPAC this week, none seems so timely as the topic of my Shabbat dinner session: "Zionism in Tension with Other Values." The presenter, Yehuda Kurtzer, is well-known to our Engaging Israel students in his leadership - [Happenings at HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/03/happenings-at-hhbjc/) - Firstly, I would like to begin by asking everyone to join me in saying a prayer for the victims, their families, their friends, and all the students and faculty at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida. The tragic mass shooting has caused so much loss and pain so let us pray that all - [Passing of Mildred Drasner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/passing-of-mildred-drasner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Mildred Drasner, mother of our congregant Marcia Tal. The funeral will be held Wednesday, February 28th at 9:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Tal home, 218-70 Hartland Avenue. The - [Shabbat Tetzveh/Zakhor 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/shabbat-tetzveh-zakhor-5778/) - On this Shabbat before Purim, as we have for the last few years, we take time for a close reading of a different chapter of Megillat Esther. This year, we'll pay particular attention to chapter 3. It would be reasonable to say that the first two chapters of the Megillah are rather frivolous. We learn of the - [Passing of Charlotte Bernstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/passing-of-charlotte-bernstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Charlotte Bernstein, mother of our congregant Deborah Abramowitz. The funeral will be held on Sunday, February 18th at 11 AM at Adath Jeshurun Synagogue, 7763 Old York Road, Elkins, PA. Deborah will return home for Shiva Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. Minyan information will follow. The address at the - [Passing of Cecile Tiger z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/passing-of-cecile-tiger-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Cecile Tiger, wife of Jerry, and our longtime Bayside Congregant. The funeral will be held Wednesday, February 21st at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth El Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva on Wednesday will be observed at the home - [Shabbat Terumah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/shabbat-terumah-5778/) - This week's Torah portion, Terumah, begins a stretch of parshiyot whose primary concern is the Mishkan, the portable sanctuary that God instructs Moshe to build for the wilderness phase of Israel's experience. But it's not the first time we get details on sacred worship. In fact, right after the report on revelation that we call The Ten Commandments, we - [Passing of Ruth Heymann z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/passing-of-ruth-heymann-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ruth Heymann, mother of our congregant George Heymann. The funeral will be held Friday, February 9th at 11:00 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Union Field Cemetery, 82-11 Cypress Avenue in Ridgewood. Shiva will be observed at George's home, 80-67 223rd - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/shabbat-mishpatimshekalim-2/) - It is in this week's Torah portion, Mishpatim, that we first encounter one of the core concepts of our tradition: radical empathy. It is expressed in the phrase, "You shall not oppress a stranger, for you know the feelings of the stranger, having yourselves been strangers in the land of Egpyt (Exodus 23:9). Perhaps because - [We Honor & Celebrate Our Beloved Rabbi David Wise on his Bar Mitzvah Year with our Congregation](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/we-honor-celebrate-our-beloved-rabbi-david-wise-on-his-bar-mitzvah-year-with-our-congregation/) - Our beloved Rabbi David Wise is a very special and unique Rabbi and Individual. He is not only my Co-Clergy Partner but he is also my friend. He is a man of fine character who treats others with respect and kindness. I feel true comradery with Rabbi Wise and I am honored to share the - [Shabbat Yitro 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/02/shabbat-yitro-5778/) - What do you think of when you hear or read the name Abraham Joshua Heschel? I'm guessing that you know him best for his social activism, particularly in support of civil rights and the anti-war protests of the late 1960s. If you look up his page on myjewishlearning.com, two large photos of Dr. Heschel with Martin - [Shabbat Beshalah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/shabbat-beshalah-5778/) - The Israelites stood on the shore of the Sea of Reeds, having crossed over miraculously in safety on dry land, with the pursuing enemy vanquished by the water. In this moment of extreme emotion, they were driven by the impulse to sing. Shirat Hayam--the Song of the Sea--is the product of this creative impulse. That's what - [Passing of Natalie Glass z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/passing-of-natalie-glass-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant Natalie Glass, wife of Jerry. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, January 16, graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont, NY, at 2 pm. Shiva will be observed at the Glass home, 82-14 215th Street in Hollis Hills. Maariv services will be held on - [Passing of Ann Alperin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/passing-of-ann-alperin/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ann Alperin, mother of our congregant Marcia Levitt. The funeral will be held Friday, January 12th at 9:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Levitt home, 85-07 214th Street - [Shabbat Vaera 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/shabbat-vaera-5778/) - Now that God has arrived on the scene, the Israelites should be fully confident that their burdens will be removed. When Moshe and Aharon communicated God's intentions through symbolic acts and words in last week's Torah reading, the people believed. But when their leaders' first foray into Pharaoh's palace fails, they fall even deeper into - [Passing of Shirley Rosenthal z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/passing-of-shirley-rosenthal-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant Shirley Rosenthal. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, January 10th at 10 am at Schwartz Brothers on Queens Boulevard in Forest Hills. Burial will follow at Union Field Cemetery, 82-11 Cyprus Avenue, Ridgewood. The family will sit Shiva at Shirley's home 79-28 209th - [Shabbat Shemot 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2018/01/shabbat-shemot-5778/) - We encounter a phrase we've seen many times before but have yet to see in the Torah reading cycle before this week as we begin reading the Book of Exodus with Parshat Shemot. As Moshe approaches the curious site of a bush that burns but is not consumed, the voice of God calls out to him - [Shabbat Vayehi 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/12/shabbat-vayehi-5778/) - When Yosef presents his two sons, Menashe and Ephraim, to their grandfather to receive a blessing, Ya'akov does something that disturbs the apparent natural order of things: "But Israel stretched out his right hand and laid it on Ephraim's head, though he was the younger, and his left hand on Menashe's--thus crossing his hands--although Menashe - [HHBJC Celebrates Community & Chanukah - The Survival Story of One of Our Members](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/12/hhbjc-celebrates-community-chanukah-the-survival-story-of-one-of-our-members/) - Wow…our HHBJC ANNUAL FAMILY/ COMMUNITY DINNER, which did actually fall on Chanukah this year, was fantabulous! Thank you to our very special MARIS BLECHNER and her fantastic ENGAGEMENT TEAM for putting together such a fun filled, delicious and festive celebration. THE LANDAU FAMILY BAND (Arnie and his two sons Jeremy and David) amaze me every - [Passing of Alvin Deutch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/12/passing-of-alvin-deutch-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant Alvin Deutch, husband of Susan Deutch. The funeral will be held on Sunday, December 31 at 12 Noon at Gutterman's, 8000 Jericho Turnpike in Woodbury. Shiva will be at the home of Elizabeth Leider, 18 Wendy Road in Syosset. Details will follow. HaMakom - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/12/shabbat-miketzhanukkah-5778/) - One of the most popular stories of Hanukkah is that of Hannah and her Seven Sons, which is told in the Second Book of Maccabees. As we know, the Jews of the second century B.C.E. were forbidden to observe core commandments, and were expected to make public displays of idol-worship. Hannah, the pious single mother - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5778/) - The family dynamic in the Book of Genesis just keeps getting crazier with every parashah. This week, in Vayeshev, the enmity between Yosef and his brothers boils over and it almost leads to homicide. Instead, the brothers throw Yosef in a pit, sell him into slavery, and events cascade from there. Parshat Vayeshev begins with the description of - [Wonderful Things Are Happening at HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/11/wonderful-things-are-happening-at-hhbjc/) - It’s Thanksgiving time! You know me; I don’t take anything for granted. I ponder, I reflect, I reminisce and I look ahead…Thanksgiving is a day I truly think about what I am grateful for. I am grateful to my family, for their unconditional love & support and I think about my beloved congregation (my HHBJC - [Passing of Tammy Bieber z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/11/passing-of-tammy-bieber-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Tammy Bieber, daughter of longtime Bayside congregants, Betty & Don Bieber. The funeral will be held Wednesday, November 22nd at 12:15 PM at Riverside Memorial Chapel in New York City. Burial will be at Mt. Hebron Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be observed at Tammy's home, 500 East - [Shabbat Toldot 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/11/shabbat-toldot-5778/) - The rivalry between Esav and Ya'akov begins in utero, and it never really ends. The dynamic between the two is the focus of almost all of this week's Torah reading, Toldot. From the struggles in their mother's womb, to the race to emerge first from the birth canal, to the negotiations over the birthright, to - [Passing of Hyman Cohen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/11/passing-of-hyman-cohen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Hyman Cohen, brother of our longtime congregant Rose Solasz. The funeral will be held on Monday, November 6, at 2 pm at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Rose will be observing shiva at her home in Hollis Hills on Tuesday, November 7, before returning to Florida for - [Shabbat Vayera 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/11/shabbat-vayera-5778/) - Have you ever tried to look at the story of the destruction of Sodom from the perspective of the residents of that doomed city? Granted, it's hard to do so because there were no survivors, other than Lot and his two unmarried daughters. So no one left any historical record of expressions of righteous indignation - [Praying for the People of Puerto Rico](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/10/praying-for-the-people-of-puerto-rico/) - As I listen to the news about Puerto Rico and hear what they are going through due to Hurricane Maria, I find myself thinking about my mother’s family (the BOTT’s). All of her sisters and brothers left Poland in the late 1920’s. Most settled in Nassau, Bahamas. I always found it fascinating how they managed - [Shabbat Noah/Rosh Hodesh 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/10/shabbat-noahrosh-hodesh-5778/) - The new residents of the land of Shinar have grand architectural plans. They want to build a tower "with its top to the sky." But it's not just about the ediface itself; it's a pursuit of accomplishment and acclaim. "Vena'aseh lanu shem--so that we make a name for ourselves, " they said (Genesis 11:4). Of - [Shabbat Bereshit 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/10/shabbat-bereshit-5778/) - When our children were little, one of the most fascinating stories we would read together was Why the Snake Crawls on its Belly by Eric Kimmel. It tells of a ladder that extended from earth all the way up to heaven, which Adam and Eve used at their leisure. Angels would serenade them as they climbed, and - [Shabbat Hol Hamoed Sukkot 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5778/) - I confess that I felt a bit like the author of Kohelet earlier this week. This Sukkot, as we cycle back to the first chapter of the biblical scroll, we are struck by the futility of life. "One generation goes and another generation comes. But the earth always remains the same" (1:4). Or "Everything is exhausting. You - [The Jewish Community Comes Together From Coast to Coast](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/the-jewish-community-comes-together-from-coast-to-coast/) - I have been watching the news, like so many, and seeing all the images of how hurricanes Harvey and Irma have caused so much destruction & damage to the residents of Texas and Florida and how so many people are suffering terribly. What I have also been seeing is how so many have come together - [Passing of Steven Drasner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/passing-of-steven-drasner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Steven Drasner, brother of our congregant Marcia Tal. The funeral will be held tomorrow Tuesday, September 19 at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Wellwood Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Tal home, 218-70 Hartland Avenue - [Shabbat Ha-azinu/Shabbat Shuvah 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/shabbat-ha-azinushabbat-shuvah-5778/) - Every worthwhile discipline has a program with steps. Stephen Covey had his Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross wrote of the five stages of coming to terms with loss. Alchoholics Anonymous has a magnficent 12-step program for recovery. And then there's a somewhat-less-sucessful nine-step plan that you can watch here: Since teshuvah, repentance, is a most worthwhile - [Shabbat Nitzavim-Vayelekh 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/shabbat-nitzavim-vayelekh-5777/) - Every year, immediately before Rosh Hashanah, the weekly Torah readings fit the occasion so appropriately. On this final Shabbat of 5777, we read at the beginning of our two parshiyot, Nitzavim-Vayelekh: "You are all standing this day before the LORD your God: the heads of your tribes, your elders, and your officers, every man of - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/shabbat-ki-tavo/) - As I enter my 13th year as the rabbi of this wonderful community, I often recall my first Yom Kippur here. We were clobbered all day leading up to Kol Nidre with relentless rain, and by the end of services that evening, we discovered that the shul building was taking on water. There was a flood in - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5777/) - We have been overwhelmed by the images from Houston and other Gulf communities in the wake of Hurricane Harvey. So much has been lost, including lives, in the flooding. There is so much that cannot be replaced, but we've also been inspired by the sights of volunteers all across the country packing trucks with supplies - [Thank You All! Looking Ahead to 5778](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/09/thank-you-all-looking-ahead-to-5778/) - As I remember my brother Milton, I am also filled with sincere gratitude and love for all of you, my HHBJC family (and I mean “family”). You truly rallied around me with your presence, support, compassion, friendship, love & generosity, as I was mourning the loss of my oldest brother Milton. I want to thank - [Shabbat Shoftim](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/08/shabbat-shoftim/) - Several weeks ago, when we learned about 'arei miklat, the cities of refuge, we underscored how important it was to the theology of Biblical Israel to avenge all spilled blood. That makes the final topic covered in this week's Torah portion, Shoftim, truly fascinating. It's the ritual of the 'eglah 'arufah, which is a response to finding a - [Shabbat Reeh 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/08/shabbat-reeh-5777/) - For the second time already in his farewell discourse, Moshe instructs the people what to do when they inevitably encounter idolatrous shrines upon conquering the Promised Land. On the heels of 7:5, we learn this week in Parshat Reeh: "You must destroy all the sites at which the nations you are to dispossess worshiped their gods...Tear - [Passing of Bernice Schmais z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/08/passing-of-bernice-schmais-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Bernice Schmais, mother of our congregant Naomi Horowitz. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Sunday, August 13, at 1:30 pm, graveside, at New Montefiore Cemetery in West Babylon. Shiva will be observed at the Horowitz home, 221-23 Hartland Ave, Hollis Hills, Sunday after the funeral through Thursday. - [Passing of Milton Zimelman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/08/passing-of-milton-zimelman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Milton Zimelman, eldest brother of our Cantor, Sol Zim. The Zim and Zimelman family will be holding a graveside funeral service on Monday, August 7th at 11 AM at the New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Our Cantor will be sitting Shiva with his entire family at his - [Shabbat Devarim 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/07/shabbat-devarim-5777/) - In just a few days, we will commemorate Tish'ah B'Av, a day of mourning for cumulative national trauma. Most notably, we remember the destruction of both Temples in Jerusalem. The hurban represents not only the demolition of a building, but of the sovereign society at whose epicenter the Temple stood. But we are here to commemorate it, which means - [Shabbat Mattot-Mas'ei 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/07/shabbat-mattot-masei-5777/) - In the ancient world, the spilling of blood was cause for spilling more blood. That's why murderers were killed, either executed by the courts in capital punishment, or if they fled, by a relative of the initial victim in an act of blood vengeance. The institution of cities of refuge, 'arei miklat, is mentioned in a - [Shabbat Balak 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/07/shabbat-balak-5777/) - One of the Torah's most entertaining scenes is the confrontation between the prophet Bil'am and his talking ass. Bil'am, a prophet considered to be the gentile prophetic equal to Moshe, Balak, king of Moav, to curse the otherwise unstoppable Israelites. As he rides his long-serving animal up the hill to get a better view of - [Passing of Betty Brodsky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/07/passing-of-betty-brodsky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Betty Brodsky, mother of our congregant Martin Brodsky. The funeral will held be today, July 7th at Temple Chai in Scottsdale, Arizona. Shiva will be observed through Sunday in Arizona. Marty will return home to continue Shiva in New York. Information for Shiva in New York - [Shabbat Hukkat 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/shabbat-hukkat-5777/) - To his credit, right after getting a pink slip from God, Moshe continues to lead the Israelites. If he can't get into the Promised Land, he can at least bring them closer. His first action after being told his fate is to send messengers to the King of Edom. After reminding him of what Israel - [Looking Back and Planning Ahead](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/looking-back-and-planning-ahead/) - I am still on a high from our beautiful Simcha 2017 Dinner Dance. It was truly a night to remember, filled with warmth, love, community, delicious food, great music & togetherness! The union of HHJC and BJC will always be etched in my heart as “bashert”. This unification has beautifully expanded our congregational family. HHBJC - [Passing of Sheldon Glaser z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/passing-of-sheldon-glaser-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sheldon Glaser, husband of Rita and our longtime Bayside congregant. The funeral will be held on Thursday, June 29th at 10:30 AM graveside at Mount Ararat Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Rita Glaser, 26-11 Clearview Expressway in Bayside. The phone - [Shabbat Korah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/shabbat-korah-5777/) - When Moshe first hears the accusations of Korah, he has an extreme physical reaction: "He fell on his face" (Numbers 16:4). As the complaints mount up against him and Aharon, God has had enough, and warns the two leaders, "Stand back from this community that I may annihilate them in an instant" (16:21). What is - [Shabbat Shelakh-Lekha 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/shabbat-shelakh-lekha-5777/) - The shootings in Washington this week introduced me to a phrase from American literature that I had never heard before. Bret Stephens quoted it in his New York Times column: it comes from Philip Roth, the great Jewish-American novelist. Roth, in referring to American violence in its many forms, called this phenomenon "the indigenous American - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5777/) - After the idyllic, orderly details that dominate the opening chapters of Sefer Bemidbar, the Book of Numbers, all heck suddenly breaks loose in chapter 11. The Israelites begin to complain about the wilderness menu, and they are stricken by a plague. There's a leadership crisis, and Moshe expresses abject despair in his ability to continue - [Cantor's Assembly Convention 2017](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/cantors-assembly-convention-2017/) - This past week I was part of the Cantors Assembly’s (CA) 2017 Convention. This year the CA celebrates its 70th anniversary and its members are steadfastly committed to keeping the Art of the Cantorate alive and even stronger than ever. We had hundreds of Cantors in attendance. I was so pleased to see so many - [Shabbat Naso 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/06/shabbat-naso-5777/) - Have you ever felt that living a religious life was a heavy burden on your shoulders? If so, you're not alone. We all feel that way sometimes. Consider this nearly-concluded week: Tuesday felt like both a Monday (coming out of a weekend) and a Friday (it was erev Yom Tov). Friday feels like a Monday - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5777/) - Having spent years in slavery, the Israelites know what it's like to be a number and not a name. The dehumanization of chattel is crucial to the conscience of the slaveholder, but it may be the greatest source of pain for the slave, even beyond the physical suffering he or she endures. So why, just - [Shabbat Behar/Behukotai 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/shabbat-beharbehukotai-5777/) - In Jewish law, how does one assert ownership? The Talmudic term is "Hamotzi mehavero--alav hare-ayah--the burden of proof is on the one who wants to remove the object from his fellow." Or, as we say in English, "possession is 9/10 of the law." This legal principle applies to those objects that can in fact be - [Shabbat Emor 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/shabbat-emor-5777/) - As is the case every year at this time, I was asked this week, "Rabbi, why do we count the 'Omer?" In classic rabbinic form, I answered, "Because the Torah tells us to." I know that's not a particularly helpful answer, and while I always enjoy connecting the counting period between Pesah and Shavuot to - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/shabbat-aharei-motkedoshim-5777/) - The debate over health care in the US reached another peak/valley this week (depending on your perspective on the vote). Since our Torah reading this week includes some of the most critical moral teachings our tradition has to offer, I thought it would be worthwhile for us to explore our sources to answer a few - [Passing of Helen Benson z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/passing-of-helen-benson-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Helen Benson, sister of our long time congregant Charlotte Karsch. The funeral will be held Sunday, May 7th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the Karsch home, 85-48 214th - [HHBJC-We are a Unique Congregation](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/hhbjc-we-are-a-unique-congregation/) - Our Congregation has grown in so many ways and I would like to share with you why we are very unique and special! There is a very famous & special saying: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself”. Yes…we here at HHBJC believe in taking care and helping our fellow congregants, neighbors and friends! Our - [Shabbat Tazria'-Metzora' 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/05/shabbat-tazria-metzora-5777/) - On Sunday evening this coming week, Israelis at home and abroad will commemorate Yom HaZikaron, a day of remembering all those who fell in Israel's armed forces, in the security branches, and as victims of terror. Unlike the contemporary Memorial Day observances in the United States, there will be no department store sales, trips to - [Shabbat Shemini 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/04/shabbat-shemini-5777/) - We know where the Torah begins and where it ends. But what is its midpoint? It depends on what tool we use for measurement. The Talmud (Bavli Kiddushin 30a) tells us: "The 'first ones' were called sofrim (scribes or counters) because they counted all the letters in the Torah. They said: the vav in the - [Passing of Charles Ernest Johnston z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/04/passing-of-charles-ernest-johnston-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Charles Ernest Johnston, father of our long time congregant Dana Johnston. The funeral is being held in Maryland. Shiva will be observed at the Johnston home 221-35 Hartland Avenue in Hollis Hills Sunday through Thursday from 1:30-5 PM and 7-9:30 PM. The phone number is 718-740-5330. Minyan will - [Passing of Sally Goldstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/04/passing-of-sally-goldstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Sally Goldstein, wife of Harvey Goldstein. The funeral will be held Thursday, April 6th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Goldstein home, 80-45 - [Passing of Sharon Goldstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/04/passing-of-sharon-goldstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime congregant Sharon Goldstein, wife of Marty. The funeral will be at 2 pm at Gutterman's Inc., 8000 Jericho Turnpike in Woodbury. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the home of Beth and Cary Levy, 21 Pond Path in - [Passing of Max Feinstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/04/passing-of-max-feinstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Max Feinstein, husband of Marilyn and our longtime Bayside congregant. The funeral will be on Sunday, April 2 graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the home of Marilyn Feinstein, 209-52 27th Avenue in Bayside. The phone number is (718) 224-0135. Please visit - [Shabbat Vayikra 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/shabbat-vayikra-5777/) - Now that we've entered the month of Nisan, it's time to begin delving into the Haggadah as we prepare for Passover. Since I'll be away for Pesah, I'll be teaching about the holiday this Shabbat and next. My own preparation for this year has been with the help of the haggadah commentary of the Vilna - [Honoring Our Very Own!](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/honoring-our-very-own/) - Recently, I had the great pleasure of attending the New York Metro Region Federation of Jewish Men’s Club 34th Annual Chaverim Kol Yisrael Awards Dinner, honoring individuals from various synagogues across our region, including FOUR of our very own special individuals from Hollis Hills Bayside Jewish Center… Man of the Year - JAN KATZ Youths - [Shabbat Ki Tissa/Parah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/shabbat-ki-tissaparah-5777/) - When I teach at Camp Ramah in the Berkshires in the summer, one of our most popular activities is the Biblical Victims Unit. We look at classic stories from the Torah and set up courtrooms to put various characters on trial, such as Ya'akov for stealing his brother's blessing, or Moshe for killing the Egyptian - [Passing of Esther Landau z"l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/passing-of-esther-landau-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Esther Landau, mother of our long-time congregant Arnie Landau. The funeral will be on Sunday, March 12 at 11:30 am, at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Arnie and Diane's home, 218-20 85th - [Shabbat Tetzaveh/Zakhor 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/shabbat-tetzavehzakhor-5777/) - On this Shabbat Zakhor, the Shabbat before Purim, we will take a deep dive into chapter 2 of Megillat Esther at our pre-Purim lunch and learn. Vashti has been deposed, and the vacancy is going to be filled. The king's advisors hatch a plan for an empire-wide search for a replacement. In this chapter, we - [Passing of Irving Miles z"l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/passing-of-irving-miles-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our longtime Bayside congregant, Irving Miles, husband of Hadassah. The funeral will be held Monday, March 6 at 11:30 AM at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Memorial Chapel on Queens Blvd. Burial will be at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Hadassah's home, 1 Bay Club, - [Passing of Lorraine Silverblatt z"l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/passing-of-lorraine-silverblatt-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Lorraine Silverblatt, a longtime Bayside congregant. The funeral will be on Monday, March 6 at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway at 10 am. Lorraine's children, Joan and Seth Bykofsky, will observe shiva at Lorraine's home, 28-65 Corporal Kennedy Street in Bayside. Hours for visiting are as follows: - [Passing of Annette Morse z"l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/passing-of-annette-morse-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Annette Morse, mother of Arnold and mother-in-law of our office administrator, Nancy Morse. The funeral will be on Wednesday, March 8 at 10:30 am, graveside at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Arnold and Nancy's home, 209-15 18th Ave, apt. 2C, in Bayside. - [Shabbat Terumah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/03/shabbat-terumah-5777/) - How big, according to Jewish tradition, is God? I imagine your inclination would be to spread your arms as wide as you are able and say something like, "so much bigger than this." We express the idea of God's enormity every time we say the kedushah: "M'lo khol ha-aretz k'vodo--God's glory fills the entire land." - [Great Happenings at HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/great-happenings-at-hhbjc/) - What a fun and fabulous February we all shared at HHBJC. True, we had a mini snow storm on February 2nd but we pushed away the snow and enjoyed a spectacular weekend filled with much community fun, delicious food, tradition, customs & football. The weekend started out with a beautiful Shabbat morning, all sharing our - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/shabbat-mishpatimshekalim-5777/) - What actually happened when God revealed the Torah? Well, it depends which Biblical passage you ask! This Shabbat, in Parshat Mishpatim, we will read a somewhat different narrative than the one we saw last week. As JTS bible professor Dr. Benjamin Sommer wrote in his book Revelation and Authority, "Commentators have long debated whether Exodus - [Passing of Edith Seiden z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/passing-of-edith-seiden-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of, Edith Seiden, mother of our former religious school principal, Ellen Gastwirth. The funeral will be held Friday, February 24th at 11:00 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Shiva will be observed through Thursday morning. Saturday night and Sunday from 10 AM-9 PM 186-16 Aberdeen Road, - [Passing of Helene Zaro z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/passing-of-helene-zaro-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Helene Zaro, mother of our congregant, the Hon. Stephanie Zaro. The funeral will be held Friday, February 24th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Sharon Gardens Cemetery in Valhalla, NY. Shiva wll be observed at Stephanie's home, 209-33 26th Ave. - [Shabbat Yitro 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/shabbat-yitro-5777/) - What a grand reunion does our Torah portion, Yitro, describe. After a year away from his family while busy at work, Moshe finally gets to see his family again--his wife Tzipporah, his sons Gershom and Eliezer, and his revered father-in-law, Yitro. In fact, most of the excitement, and all of the conversation, centers on the - [Passing of Manuel Herman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/02/passing-of-manuel-herman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Manuel Herman, husband of Ruth Herman. The funeral will be held Wednesday, February 15th at 1:00 PM at Parkside Memorial Chapel in Rego Park. Burial will be at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Ruth's home 80-35 Springfield Boulevard, - [Celebrating and Singing Shlomo Carlebach's Best](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/01/celebrating-and-singing-shlomo-carlebachs-best/) - I would love to share with you some highlights of the beautiful concert I just performed on January 15th in Beverly Hills, California, at the Wilshire Ebell Theatre. It was a concert in honor of Shlomo Carlebach (of blessed memory), who was not only one of my mentors but was a friend and one of - [Shabbat Vaera/Rosh Hodesh Shevat 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/01/shabbat-vaerarosh-hodesh-shevat-5777/) - On multiple occasions in his dealings with Pharaoh, Moshe is instructed to confront the authoritarian leader at a particular time, with a specific message, and in a distinct posture. For example: "The LORD said to Moses, 'Early in the morning present yourself to Pharaoh and say to him...'" (Exodus 9:13). In this case, Moshe is - [Shabbat Shemot 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/01/shabbat-shemot-5777/) - Every Shabbat, as part of our Torah service, we have a series of public service announcements. One of them is a prayer for our country, which includes wishes for the success and well-being of the government in its various forms. On this inauguration weekend when the occupant of the White House changes, much has been - [Shabbat Vayehi](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/01/shabbat-vayehi/) - Several weeks ago, when his mother encouraged him to dress up as his twin brother and make off with his father's blessing, Ya'akov was hesitant and anxious. The chances of getting busted were high, and the consequences severe: "If my father touches me, I shall appear to him as a trickster and bring upon myself - [Shabbat Vayigash 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2017/01/shabbat-vayigash-5777/) - When Ya'akov receives the news that Yosef is indeed alive, and in fact in a position of authority in Egypt, his reaction is one of incredulity. "His heart went numb, for he did not believe them" (Genesis 45:26). It's understandable that he might have felt shock, but is his disbelief a function of his inability - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/shabbat-miketzhanukkah-5777/) - For a week that's supposed to be about light, there's been far too much darkness. While the inclination to address matters of the United Nations or the State Department is tempting, we need light this Shabbat Hanukkah. If you want my thoughts on current events, I'm happy to speak at kiddush; but for the sake - [Warm Reflections for the Winter](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/warm-reflections-for-the-winter/) - I was thrilled you were all able to experience and hear the many talents of my AJR Cantorial & Rabbinical students at our Gala Celebration Concert. They all have their own individual styles & sounds that enrapture us. Whether it is Chazzanut, Yiddish (fiddler style), Ladino, Opera or Pop…they are all gifted and love expressing - [Passing of Max Hersch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/passing-of-max-hersch-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Max Hersch, father of our long time congregant Vicky Wolkofsky. The funeral will be held Tuesday, December 27th at 12:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Vicky - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5777/) - After Yosef's brothers threw him into a pit, it was all downhill from there. In fact, the Torah uses the language of descent as it tells both the continuation of that story (39:1--"When Joseph was taken down to Egypt") and the narrative aside that interrupts his story (38:1--"Judah left his brothers," or in Hebrew Vayered - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/shabbat-vayishlah-5777/) - What makes you feel outrage? How much does it take? How closely touched must you be by the events before your emotional reaction rises to the level of outrage? When Ya'akov's daughter Dinah is the victim of sexual assault, dad remains quiet, but the news can't be kept from her brothers for long. "Meanwhile, Jacob's - [Shabbat Vayetzei 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/shabbat-vayetzei-5777/) - For the 25+ years that I have been reading Torah weekly, I have put myself on autopilot when I read the story of Ya'akov's creative manipulation of sheep so he can get the best of Uncle Lavan. In truth, I've never really understood how he pulled it off. But after seeing this extraordinary story this week, it's - [Passing of Irving Schnitzer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/passing-of-irving-schnitzer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Irving Schnitzer. The funeral will be held Tuesday, December 6th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Queens. Shiva information will follow. HaMakom Yanahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Toldot 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/shabbat-toldot-5777/) - It's a famous scene: One twin brother, Esav, has just come back from the hunt, and finds his former womb-mate, Ya'akov, cooking a pot of lentil stew. What happens next is going to cause reverberations between their descendants for years to come. Esav paints himself into a corner of deep vulnerability: "Give me some - [Yiddish is Alive and Kicking at HHBJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/12/yiddish-is-alive-and-kicking-at-hhbjc/) - The Yiddish language is going through a kind of “rebirth”, it’s making a “comeback”. Many universities across the country are offering Yiddish classes, like; Berkeley, Binghamton, Columbia, Gratz, NYU & Rutgers, just to name a few. In fact, some of the programs offer various levels of their Yiddish classes (elementary, intermediate & advanced). The idiomatic - [Shabbat Hayyei-Sarah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/11/shabbat-hayyei-sarah/) - As he nears the end of his life, Avraham begins to tie up loose ends. As the late Bible scholar Nahum Sarna wrote: "For all intents and purposes, his biography is complete. But two important issues remain: the concern with mortality and the preoccupation with posterity" (JPS Bible Commentary, Genesis, p. 156). From the events - [Shabbat Vayera 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/11/shabbat-vayera-5777/) - Every time we read the story of the Akedah, the binding of Yitzhak, more questions emerge. Two questions are of particular interest to me this year. The first concerns Avraham. When God informs him of the plan to destroy Sodom, Avraham challenges God: "Shall not the Judge of all the earth act justly?" (Genesis 18:25) - [Passing of Gerda Schoen z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/11/passing-of-gerda-schoen-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Gerda Schoen, wife of Emil Schoen. The funeral will be held Thursday, November 17th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus. Shiva will be observed at Emil's home, 85-32 213 St, Hollis - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/11/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5777/) - Last week, after Noah emerged from the ark, God made a brit, a covenant, with him and all humanity. God's promise, in the form of a rainbow, was to never again flood the earth so thoroughly. What was our end of the bargain? We were now permitted to consume the flesh of animals, perhaps as - [Shabbat Noah 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/11/shabbat-noah-5777/) - When game seven of the World Series was delayed by rain on Wednesday evening, didn't you begin to wonder if the rain might last 40 days and nights? It was almost like the umpires went searching for two of every animal in anticipation of a serious deluge. Actually, that's based on the part of the - [Passing of Imar Krell z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/passing-of-imar-krell-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant, Imar Krell, husband of Ronnie Krell. The funeral will be held Thursday, October 27th at 11 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery in Farmingdale. Shiva will be observed at the home of Elissa & - [Gala Celebration Concert](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/gala-celebration-concert/) - I was so happy to see all of you in shul on the High Holidays and Festivals. The warmth & love that permeated our sanctuary truly embodies what our Congregation is all about…Community, Family, Spirituality, Harmony, Togetherness and Love. As we begin the New Year, let us celebrate together in SONG & LAUGHTER. Our GALA - [Shabbat Bereshit 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/shabbat-bereshit-5777/) - It's one of the most challenging passages theologically in all of Torah, and it comes in the very first chapter. God has been extraordinarily productive for five-plus days, creating this and that and the next. Then, God has an idea. Instead of saying "Let there be...," God says "Let's." The plan is to make a - [Shabbat Hol Hamoed Sukkot 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5777/) - We're rolling through Sukkot, known as zeman simhateinu, the time of our rejoicing, when we suddenly get hit with this splash of cold water in our festive faces. There's no more moody Biblical text than Kohelet, or Ecclesiastes. In both the opening and closing chapters, the author asserts: "Havel havalim...hakol havel--Utter futility...all is futile!" As we prepare - [Passing of Allen Gottlieb z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/passing-of-allen-gottlieb-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Allen Gottlieb. The funeral will be held on Thursday, October 20 at 11 am, graveside at Mount Ararat Cemetery on Long Island. Please make every effort to help us make a minyan at the cemetery as the family is very small. HaMakom Yenahem--may God - [Shabbat Haazinu 5777](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/10/shabbat-haazinu-5777/) - Two passages in this week's poetic Torah reading, Haazinu, jumped out at me when I learned of the 24 member states in UNESCO who voted for a resolution denying the historical ties of Judaism (and Christianity, for that matter) to Jerusalem. The first verse that comes to mind is the very first one of the - [Our Journey For the New Year](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/our-journey-for-the-new-year-2/) - I am now sitting at my desk in my home putting together some of my thoughts as we approach the New Year. In the background, I can hear the tumult downstairs…June is starting to prepare for the holidays and as she finalizes the menu, she is taking stock of what she already has and putting - [Shabbat Ki Tavo 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5776/) - Is jealousy ever a good thing? After all, the Torah is pretty harsh about the sin of covetousness, even mentioning it on some Top Ten commandment lists. The rabbis spin stories to emphasize humility. The moon complained that the sun was getting too much credit, so God made its light weaker than that of her - [Shabbat Ki Teitzei](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/shabbat-ki-teitzei/) - Early this week, Israel's Ministry of Foreign Affairs shared a video profile of Talleen Abu Hama, who will be representing Israel in the Miss Trans International pageant this week. It's a fascinating story about a Nazareth-born man who found that the Jewish State was the safest place for him to embrace his true gender and - [Shabbat Shoftim 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/shabbat-shoftim-5776/) - Is there such thing as unfair competition in Jewish thought? I remember a dispute when a new kosher pizza place opened on the Upper West Side of Manhattan in my student days,, much to the aggravation of the owner of an existing pizza place a few blocks away. I think the local rabbinic authorities, the - [Passing of Ken Wallace z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/passing-of-ken-wallace-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ken Wallace, father of our congregant Michele Miller. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, September 6 at 10:15 am at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Shiva will be observed at the home of Michele and Brian Miller, 49-24 217th St. in Bayside. The family asks that - [Shabbat Reeh/Rosh Hodesh Elul](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/shabbat-reehrosh-hodesh-elul/) - As we observe Rosh Hodesh Elul on Shabbat and Sunday, we'll notice a change in our ritual behavior. With the arrival of the final month of 5776, we will sound the shofar each day leading up to the eve of Rosh Hashanah. The reason for this tradition is found in the midrash: "On Rosh - [Our Journey for the New Year](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/09/our-journey-for-the-new-year/) - I know this summer was very hot but it was a nice one. We will fondly remember the sizzling days of this past summer when we start to see the temperatures dip below 32 and see the snow falling. The most important thing is that we are healthy and together as a family. I would - [Passing of Leonard Sunshine z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/passing-of-leonard-sunshine-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our congregant Leonard Sunshine, husband of Sara. The funeral will be held Sunday, August 28th at 11:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at Sara's home, 75-26 Bell Blvd, apt. 2H. The - [Shabbat Ekev 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/shabbat-ekev-5776/) - This is the time of year when parents move their children out of the house and into a dorm room. By and large, it's an American rite of passage. While parents remain responsible for their children in many ways (tuition especially!), what we do when we pack them up and take them to campus is - [Passing of Elsie Shappe z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/passing-of-elsie-shappe-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Elsie Shappe, sister of our congregant Harvey Goldstein. The funeral will be held Wednesday, August 24th at 1:00 PM graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed through Monday at the Goldstein home, 80-45 214th Street in Hollis Hills. Ma’ariv minyan Wednesday, Thursday, Sunday and - [Shabbat Vaethanan 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/shabbat-vaethanan-5776/) - What is Torah? This Shabbat, when we read Parshat Vaethanan, we are reminded of Sinai. In the first of his long farewell discourses, Moshe recounts the revelation at Sinai, and we get another version of the Decalogue (formerly known as the Ten Commandments). In thinking about getting "the Torah," Jews confront an important question - [Shabbat Devarim 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/shabbat-devarim-5776/) - In the days leading up to the observance of Tish'ah B'Av, which begins with the conclusion of Shabbat, the online conversation about its relevance in our times got heated. Some Jews wrote why they aren't fasting this year; others defended the continued mourning rituals of the day. Some Jews expressed a desire for a restored - [Shabbat Mattot-Mas'ei 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/shabbat-mattot-masei-5776/) - Several weeks ago, we learned that as a result of Het Hameraglim, the sin of the scouts, the generation that left Egypt would not live to enter the Promised Land. It would be easy to get the impression that they were doomed to wander in circles and expire, not only in the present but for - [Passing of Charles Krinitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/08/passing-of-charles-krinitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Charles Krinitz, father of Judy Krinitz. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, July 26th at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Wellwood Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed on Tuesday and Wednesday at the home of Judy - [Our Precious & Courageous HHJC Family](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/07/our-precious-courageous-hhjc-family/) - On the 1st day of Shavuot those of us who were in shul had the opportunity to witness our precious nursery school children on our Bima. Under the very talented direction of Robyn Rosenberg and some of her very capable teachers…Morah Irene, Morah Jaye, Morah Pazit & Morah Fiona…the children, ages 1½ to about 4 - [Passing of Shirley Sandell z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/06/passing-of-shirley-sandell-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Shirley Sandell, mother of our congregant Jerry Sandell. The funeral will be held on Monday, June 27 at 12:30 pm at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Shiva will be observed at Jerry's home, 73-39 195th St. in Fresh - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/06/shabbat-behaalotekha/) - This Shabbat, in the midst of reading the fourth book of the Torah, we will interrupt the flow briefly by reading the sixth book of the Torah. Say what? There's a rabbinic tradition that two verses in our parashah (Numbers 10:35-36) constitute sefer bifnei atzmo--a book unto itself, giving the Torah six books - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/06/shabbat-bemidbar-5776/) - Have you ever felt that you were being treated as a number and not as a person? We Jews have a variety of responses to this potential problem. When you come to minyan, we won't count you to see if we have the required 10 Jewish adults. Instead, we'll use a Biblcal verse that has - [Shabbat Behukotai 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/06/shabbat-behukotai-5776/) - Forty-nine years ago next week, a 2,000-year-long dream came true. "Har Habayit beyadenu--the Temple Mount is in our hands," came the simple but emotional declaration by Motta Gur, commanding officer of the Jerusalem Brigade of the IDF. The return of Jewish sovereignty to Jerusalem is one of the greatest moments in our history. We celebrate - [Shabbat Behar 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/shabbat-behar-5776/) - "The future is already here. It's just not evenly distributed" (Robert Gibson, science fiction author). This week, we read Parshat Behar, which begins "Dateline: Sinai." We are then given a series of commandments that we didn't read about back in Yitro and Mishaptim, when we last saw Israel standing at Sinai. In fact, the entire - [HHJC - Our Own Special People...Being Honored](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/hhjc-our-own-special-people-being-honored/) - What a special time of the year at HHJC! Organizations are recognizing and paying tribute to those who passionately help! Our SIMCHA 2016 was a beautiful evening filled with tremendous love & togetherness. What ruach (spirit)! This year our honorees were…MARIS & STEWART BLECHNER, our “Couple of The Year”. They are an unbelievable team! No - [Passing of Sue Appelstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/passing-of-sue-appelstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sue Appelstein, mother of our congregant Dorothy Perl. The funeral will be held on Sunday, May 22 at 11:00 am at Boulevard-Riverside Funeral Chapel, 1450 Broadway, in Hewlett. Burial will follow at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus, NJ. Dorothy will be observing shiva throughout the week until Shabbat at - [Shabbat Emor 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/shabbat-emor-5776/) - Did you remember to prepare for the two major Jewish holidays we'll observe next week? I bet you didn't. That's because in the scope of things, Pesah Sheini, which is on Sunday, and Lag B'Omer, which begins Wednesday night into Thursday, are by no means major holidays. But they are marked on any Jewish calendar - [Congregational Nurse Program Profiled In Jewish Week](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/02/congregational-nurse-program-profiled-in-jewish-week/) - Our program has been profiled in Jewish Week. Click to go to article Or download with this link: Jewish Week Focus on HHJC - [Shabbat Kedoshim 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/shabbat-kedoshim-5776/) - This Shabbat, we'll get a handful of Torah. On Lay-led Shabbat, we're having a lunch and learn with five different teachers about Parshat Kedoshim, which is about as rich a weekly portion as one can find. Leviticus 19 is called the essence of the Torah, or the Torah in miniature. On Shabbat morning after services, you'll - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/05/shabbat-aharei-mot-5776/) - This Shabbat is what I always think of as the Bridge Shabbat. It's the Shabbat that falls between two recent additions to the rhythm of the Jewish calendar: Yom HaShoah, our annual commemoration of the Holocaust, has just ended; Yom Ha'atzmaut, Israel's day of independence, is next week, beginning Wednesday night. There's one more - [The Greater NY Jewish Community Supports Queens College Hillel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/04/the-greater-ny-jewish-community-supports-queens-college-hillel/) - I want to share with all of you a very special event I recently took part in that I know you will appreciate. I had received a call from Uri Cohen, the Executive Director of Queens College Hillel, asking me if I would be part of a celebratory/fundraising event that they would be holding in - [Shabbat Pesah VIII 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/04/shabbat-pesah-viii-5776/) - When Pesah begins on Shabbat, we in the Diaspora experience a unique confluence of observances on the final day of the holiday, which is also Shabbat. On the one hand, as is always the case on the last day of Pesah, we recite Yizkor. But on the very same day, since there's no Shabbat Hol - [Passing of David Schwartz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/04/passing-of-david-schwartz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time congregant David Schwartz, husband of Arlene. The funeral will be held on Monday, April 25 at 11:30 am at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Mount Lebanon Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will begin after the end of Pesah. Shiva will be observed at - [Shabbat Tazria'/Rosh Hodesh/Hahodesh 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/04/shabbat-tazriarosh-hodeshhahodesh-5776/) - This week's Torah reading can bring great pain to some of its readers. Parshat Tazria begins with the subject of ritual impurity as a result of childbirth: "When a woman at childbirth bears a male, she shall be impure seven days..." What in this passage has the potential to cause readers pain? If you said - [Special Shabbat at HHJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/03/special-shabbat-at-hhjc/) - Recently we experienced a very special weekend at HHJC. We shared a beautiful FRIDAY NIGHT SHABBAT ACROSS AMERICA. It was truly a unique happening filled with family, tradition, friendship & unity. There was such warmth radiating throughout our entire synagogue. Our Kabbalat Shabbat service was filled with prayer, spirituality & song. It was standing room - [Passing of George Axelrad z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/03/passing-of-george-axelrad-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member, Dr. George Axelrad, husband of Beate. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, March 15 at 2:00 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the Axelrad residence, 79-38 Bell - [Shabbat Pekudei 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/03/shabbat-pekudei-5776/) - Every year on Purim, we have a return encounter with Megillat Esther. My instincts lead me to conclude that we do one of two things during the megillah reading. We either follow along to remind ourselves of the story we've long known, or we peruse the Hebrew looking for Haman's name so we can make - [Shabbat Vayakhel/Shekalim 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/03/shabbat-vayakhelshekalim-5776/) - This is an exciting Shabbat at HHJC, with Shabbat Across America tonight and Sisterhood Shabbat tomorrow morning. I don't want to steal the thunder of the sisterhood women teaching Torah, so in this column, I'll share something I wrote for the Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs, who send out a weekly email teaching piece on - [Shabbat Ki Tissa 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/02/shabbat-ki-tissa-5776/) - You've been given your toughest assignment yet as a defense attorney. You have to get Aharon off the hook for a heinous crime against God: aiding and abetting idolatry, building the Golden Calf. As members of the legal team, you of course need more information. But you need to do some independent research. You - [Passing of Carole Storch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/02/passing-of-carole-storch-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member and past sisterhood president, Carole Storch, wife of our past president Herb Storch. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Monday, February 22nd at 12:30 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Old Montefiore Cemetery. Shiva will be observed - [Shabbat Terumah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/02/shabbat-terumah-5776/) - When you think of cherubs, what comes to mind? I'd imagine that adorable faces with rosy cheeks and chubby thighs are part of your mental picture, with some wings thrown in for good measure. That's the image we've adopted and that dominates the Valentine's Day commercial cachet. But in Jewish tradition, keruvim, cherubim, are far more - [Shabbat Mishpatim 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/02/shabbat-mishpatim-5776/) - A few years ago, in our Law, Order, and Torah class, we addressed the issue of self-defense in Jewish law. Our core text appears in this week's Torah reading, Parshat Mishpatim. Its rabbinic code name is haba bamahteret: "If [a] thief is seized while tunneling (bamahteret), and he is beaten to death, there is no - [Shabbat Yitro 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/01/shabbat-yitro-5776/) - We're excited to welcome Sababa USY to our shul this Shabbat, and they'll do the teaching as well as the davening at Shabbat morning services. I'm sure that the sight of talented teens leading and participating so actively will be music to my ears. Yes, the mixed sensory metaphor ("sight...music") was intentional. It's reflective - [Passing of Raymond Hutt z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/01/passing-of-raymond-hutt-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Raymond Hutt, grandfather of our member Alexis Ludwig. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Thursday, January 28th at 11:00 AM graveside at Mount Ararat in Lindenhurst. Shiva will be observed at the Ludwig home, 209-07 85th Avenue in Hollis HIlls on Thursday after the funeral and on - [Shabbat Bo 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/01/shabbat-bo-5776/) - The narrative of the makkot, the ten plagues, is not just a story of God versus Pharaoh and the Egyptians. The Egyptian environment--all living things, including animals--felt the repercussions of Pharaoh's obstinacy and refusal to let Israel go free. The plague of dever, cattle pestilence, in particular targeted creatures other than humans, but it's clear - [Shabbat Vaera 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2016/01/shabbat-vaera-5776/) - As we begin the narrative of the plagues in this week's Torah reading, Parshat Vaera, we are amazing by the miraculous happenings in Egypt. While scholars and even filmmakers (such as Ridley Scott in last year's abysmal Gods and Kings) suggest nature-based explanations for each plague, that's not the Torah's point. These are presented as - [Mendelson Hits a Home Run at The Hollis Hills Jewish Center](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/12/mendelson-hits-a-home-run-at-the-hollis-hills-jewish-center/) - “The Cantors Couch” IS A HIT! Jack is a warm & gracious performer. His emotions were felt by all as he spoke and sang about his life. Watching the show and hearing the audience’s reaction, I could feel every eye was on ‘Jackie’ eagerly waiting to see what would come next! This show is unique! - [Shabbat Vayehi 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/12/shabbat-vayehi-5776/) - "Come, all ye faithful"--at this time in our secular calendar, we're likely to hear this song on the radio, whether we like it or not. It reminds us of the prominent place of faith in Christianity. In contrast, we think with no little relief, Judaism is a tradition focused more on action than on faith. - [Shabbat Vayigash 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/12/shabbat-vayigash-5776/) - This week, we'll try another edition of Breakout Shabbat--for those who want to use the Torah service to discuss the weekly portion, Vayigash, you'll have a chance to do so in the White Chapel, with Ben Solomowitz as the facilitator. As always, it is best to read the parshah in advance. Click this link to find the - [Shabbat Miketz/Rosh Hodesh/Hanukkah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/12/shabbat-miketzrosh-hodeshhanukkah-5776/) - The stories we tell about ourselves are in a constant state of evolution. At times, we add color and detail to enhance the narrative. Other times, we leave out certain elements when they no longer serve the larger purpose of the story. The story of Hanukkah is just like any other--subject to embellishment at - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5776/) - Yosef's brothers strip him of his fancy coat, and to cover their tracks after selling him into slavery, they slaughter a goat and cover the coat with its blood. They come and ask their father, Ya'akov, if he recognizes the coat. "My son's tunic! A savage beast devoured him! Joseph was torn by a beast!" - [NES GADOL HAYA SHAM (A Great Miracle Happened There)](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/nes-gadol-haya-sham-a-great-miracle-happened-there/) - Chanukah remembers the revolt and victory of the small army of Jews (the “Maccabees”), over the mighty reign of Antiochus, who occupied the Holy Land and seized the Temple. With the victory of our regaining control of the Temple, the rededication of the Temple took place. This itself was a miracle. But Chanukah is known - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5776/) - One of the most troubling narratives in the entire Bible is the story of the rape of Dinah, which appears in this week's portion,Vayishlah. Yes, I'm aware of the school of interpretation that Dinah did indeed consent to relations with Shechem. For more on this line of interpretation, you can read this entry from the Jewish - [In memory of Charlotte Borko z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/in-memory-of-charlotte-borko-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Charlotte Borko, mother of our member Nancy Borko. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, November 24th at 1:00 PM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the Borko/Fusfeld home, 212-09 64th Avenue in Oakland Gardens through Monday morning, November 30th, the following - [Shabbat Vayetzei 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/shabbat-vayetzei-5776/) - At the end of last week's portion, Toldot, Ya'akov has no choice but to leave home. It's not safe; Esav has threatened to kill him once dad is gone. Both Rivkah and Yitzhak, in separate conversations, advise him to head east, to his uncle Lavan's homestead. Put simply, this week in Parshat Vayetzei, Ya'akov is - [Shabbat Toldot 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/shabbat-toldot-5776/) - What's the relationship between truth and lies? Are they polar opposites, or are they more closely comparable? There's a fascinating explanation for a subtle nuance in the story of the births of Esav and Ya'akov, those ever-struggling twins. The Torah records their birth and immediate naming as follows: "The first one emerged red, like - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5776/) - As our congregation prepares to celebrate with our veterans this Shabbat, I'd like to draw attention to the very first Jewish war veteran, Avraham Avinu. We don't usually think of our founding patriarch as a war hero, but indeed he was. Two weeks ago, we read in Parshat Lekh-Lekha about his military rescue mission when - [Shabbat Vayera 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/shabbat-vayera-5776/) - Avraham and Sarah are desperate to have a child. Last week, extreme measures were taken when Hagar was used as a surrogate. This week, Divine messengers bring the news that Sarah herself will become pregnant. Yitzhak is born, but by the end of Parshat Vayera this week, Avraham may well have lost both of his - [Passing of Alfred Jacob Fait z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-alfred-jacob-fait-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Alfred Jacob Fait, father of our congregant Susan Meyers. The funeral will be on Wednesday, October 28, at 9:30 am at Schwartz Brothers-Jeffer Funeral Home on Queens Blvd. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Susan - [Passing of Ilene Kersh z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-ilene-kersh-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ilene Kersh, sister of our congregant Joel Lieber. The funeral will be on Sunday, October 25, at Jackson Dubow Funeral Home, 150 West Veteran's Highway, in Jackson, NJ, at 1:30 pm. Shiva will first be observed at the home of Norman Kersh, 40 Baltusrol Road in Jackson, - [Passing of Harold Feinberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-harold-feinberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time congregant Harold Feinberg, father of our congregant Sherry Gabay. The funeral will be held tomorrow Friday, October 23rd at 11 AM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed through Thursday morning at the Feinberg home, 56-20 220th Street in Oakland Gardens. - [Let Us Pray for Our Beloved State of Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/let-us-pray-for-our-beloved-state-of-israel/) - Like so many, I feel deep distress for what is going on in Israel. I have many friends and family living in Israel and they are all afraid to go on to the streets. They go to work, shop for food, go to shul on Shabbat and do what they have to do…BUT beyond that, - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5776/) - It doesn't take long for the father of our People, Avram, to learn that in the future his children would be victimized. God tells him, "Know that your offspring shall be strangers in a land not theirs, and they shall be enslaved and oppressed four hundred years" (Genesis 15:13). Rabbi Shimshon Raphael Hirscsh, known as - [Passing of Jakob Bimblich z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-jakob-bimblich-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Jakob Bimblich, brother of our long time congregant Dolores Goldowksi. The funeral was held yesterday in Florida. Shiva will be observed at the Goldowski home, 209-03 Richland Avenue, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday from 11 AM - 2 PM. Please restrict visiting hours to 11 AM - 2 PM. - [Shabbat Noah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/shabbat-noah-5776/) - The results of the sixth day of Creation were not just good, but tov meod, very good. Presumably, that's because we--humanity--were created on that day. But it doesn't take God long to lament having created human beings. This week's portion, Parshat Noah, describes God's attempt to start over in light of that miscalculation. After enabling Noah - [Shabbat Bereshit 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/shabbat-bereshit-5776/) - If you read the beginning chapters of the Torah to try to figure out how we got here, you'll probably wind up with a headache. Parshat Bereshit, and the beginning of Genesis, opens with not one but two creation stories. Neither of these jives particularly well with evolutionary science. We can read many books about the interplay - [Shabbat Hol Hamoed Sukkot 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5776/) - There's much wisdom to be found in wisdom literature (thank you, Rabbi Obvious!). On Sukkot, our source of wisdom is the biblical book Kohelet, Ecclesiastes. We'll read a chapter of it at services Shabbat morning, as we do every Sukkot; this year, we're up to Chapter 11. Before you join me in making bankruptcy jokes, - [Exciting One-Man-Show Coming to HHJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/exciting-one-man-show-coming-to-hhjc/) - Our High Holidays were so beautiful. HHJC is a true family. We pray together, chant together, laugh together and even cry together. We are truly here for each other and for our community. We are a true example of what Yiddishkeit is about and we are a role model for the Jewish community. I wish - [Passing of Frederick Hersh z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-frederick-hersh-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Frederick Hersh, father of our congregant Audrey Shepard. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, September 30, at 12:45 pm at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva does not officially begin until after the conclusion of Sukkot, - [Passing of Priscilla Domroe z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-priscilla-domroe-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Priscilla Domroe, mother of Adrienne Glaubiger. The funeral will be held on Thursday, September 24, graveside at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island, at 1 pm. Adrienne will be observing shiva at her home, 58-29 260th Street in Little Neck today from 1-4 and Sunday from 1-4. The - [Passing of Beatrice Teleky z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-beatrice-teleky-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Beatrice Teleky, mother of our member Steve Teleky. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, September 22, graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont, at 1 pm. As the funeral is taking place just hours before the arrival of Yom Kippur, there will be no formal hours for - [Passing of Lois Horowitz z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/10/passing-of-lois-horowitz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time member, Lois Horowitz, in Florida. The funeral will be on Monday, September 21, at Parkside Memorial Chapels, 98-60 Queens Blvd., in Rego Park, at 1 pm. Burial will follow at Mount Hebron Cemetery in Flushing. HaMakom Yenahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Shabbat Haazinu 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/09/shabbat-haazinu-5776-2/) - As we build a bridge between the seriousness of Yom Kippur and the unbridled joy of Sukkot, the Torah portion that serves as the link this year is Haazinu. It's Moshe's farewell to the People in poetic form coming at the end of several chapters of his signing off in prose. But there's a common - [Shabbat Haazinu 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/09/shabbat-haazinu-5776/) - As we build a bridge between the seriousness of Yom Kippur and the unbridled joy of Sukkot, the Torah portion that serves as the link this year is Haazinu. It's Moshe's farewell to the People in poetic form coming at the end of several chapters of his signing off in prose. But there's a common - [Shabbat Vayelekh/Teshuvah 5776](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/09/shabbat-vayelekhteshuvah-5776/) - Every Shabbat afternoon, when we sit down to a delicious seudah shlishit (third meal) in the waning minutes of Shabbat, we study a small piece of the wisdom of the Rambam, the great 12th-century master, Maimonides. In recent weeks, we've been focused on hilkhot teshuvah, the laws of repentance. So it's fitting for us, on this Shabbat - [Shabbat Nitzavim 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/09/shabbat-nitzavim-5775/) - Having been given the options--blessing or curse--in last week'sparshah, this week in Parshat Nitzavim, Israel is told that they really don't have a choice. Yes, we have free will, but any rational person capable of exercising free choice will choose blessing. And so the Torah says "Uvakharta bahayyim"--choose life, so that you and your offspring - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5775/) - What a dramatic scene it must have been. Half of the tribes were assembled on Mount Gerizim; the other half on Mount Eival. Half were to echo words of blessing; the others, words of curse. And for the latter, after the Levites prompted them with the words of the curses, the entire people was to - [Shabbat Ki-Teitzei 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/08/shabbat-ki-teitzei-5775/) - We were greeted this morning by the shocking news of the discovery of the decomposing bodies of dozens of people in an abandoned truck on the side of an Austrian highway. The bodies are assumed to be those of migrant workers, who were being transported from the Balkans to wealthier parts of Europe. As refugees - [A New Year Ahead](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/08/a-new-year-ahead/) - I hope everyone had a nice summer. On the very hot days, I must admit that I did indulge in a bit of Rocky Road ice cream…low fat of course. I also spent many hours sitting at the piano composing a lot of new music for my 18th book of Jewish/Synagogue Music. I hope you - [Passing of Richard Bodner z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/08/passing-of-richard-bodner-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Richard Bodner, brother of our member Steve Bodner. The funeral will be held on Monday, August 24th at 11:30 AM at Bernheim Apter Kreitzman Suburban Funeral Chapel, 68 Old Short Hills Road, in Livingston, NJ. Shiva will be observed at 12 Beech Road in West Orange, NJ. More - [Shabbat Shoftim 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/08/shabbat-shoftim-5775/) - As we journey through the month of Elul, moving our way to another New Year, it's time to take stock of our behavior. Knowing that we are submitting ourselves to judgment before God on Rosh Hashanah, we begin to take seriously the way we judge ourselves. This week's Torah reading, Shoftim, begins with the command - [Passing of Rose Chazan z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/passing-of-rose-chazan-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Rose Chazan, mother of our member Ira Chazan. The funeral will be held Thursday, July 30th at 9:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the Chazan home, 86-15 214th Street in - [Passing of Amir Yerushalmi z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/passing-of-amir-yerushalmi-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member Amir Yerushalmi, husband of our member Sorour Yerushalmi. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, July 21st at 1:00 PM at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapels on Queens Blvd in Forest Hills. Burial will be at Mt. Lebanon Cemetery in Glendale, Queens. Shiva will be - [Shabbat Mattot/Masei 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/shabbat-mattotmasei-5775/) - Since we're embarking on the longest Torah reading of the year, this is a good week to have another installment of "Breakout Shabbat." We'll give you the option to participate in the traditional Torah service in Menchel Hall; or, you can join Ben Solomowitz in the White Chapel to discuss the Torah portions Mattot and - [Shabbat Pinhas 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/shabbat-pinhas-5775/) - After acting with certainty and resolve in the face of evil at the end of last week's portion, Pinhas is rewarded with an eternal covenant of peace (and this week's Torah portion is named for him!). But when it comes time for Moshe to ask God to designate a successor, Pinhas isn't selected. Instead, God - [Passing of Morty Pearlman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/passing-of-morty-pearlman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member and past president Morty Pearlman. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Friday, July 10th at 1:00 PM graveside at Old Montefiore Cemetery in St. Albans. HaMakom Yenahem - may God comfort the mourners. - [Passing of Benjamin Schimer z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/passing-of-benjamin-schimer-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our Queens Village Jewish Center member, Ben Schimer. The funeral will be on Monday, July 6, at 1:30 pm at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will follow at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at Ben's home, 225-30 88th Ave. in Queens - [Israel-Our Triumphant Homeland](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/07/israel-our-triumphant-homeland/) - Just want to share with you some Zim comings and goings this summer…Three of my grandsons (Jonathan, Jordan & Jared – Craig’s kids) just returned from a back-packing trip to Europe. They enjoyed visiting several countries but their main focus was to step foot on the grounds of Auschwitz-Birkenau, where so many Jews were murdered - [Shabbat Hukkat 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/shabbat-hukkat-5775/) - Serpents are fascinating supporting actors in the Bible. A talking snake corrupts Eve and Adam. Moses has a walking staff that can morph into a slithering creature. And in the wilderness phase of Israelite history, widespread complaints about God and Moses cause an infuriated God to punish the people with a plague of seraph snakes. - [More on Korah and Dominicans of Haitian Descent](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/more-on-korah-and-dominicans-of-haitian-descent/) - On Shabbat, we compared the social protest of Korah--which was all about personal privilege--to that of my AJWS global justice fellowship in the Dominican Republic in our recent trip. I will be speaking more extensively about my experiences in the global justice fellowship in the weeks and months to come, and will also share my - [Shabbat Korah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/shabbat-korah-5775/) - At first glance, Korah and his band seemed to be at the forefront of a legitimate social justice movement. They are prepared to "fight the power," as they say to Moshe and Aharon: "You have gone too far! For all the community are holy, all of them, and the LORD is in their midst. Why - [Passing of Sylvia Kosokoff z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/passing-of-sylvia-kosokoff-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sylvia Kosokoff, sister of our member Lillian Garbowitz. The funeral will be held on Thursday, June 18 at 11:00 am, graveside at Beth Moses cemetery. Shiva will be observed at the home of Lillian and Murray Garbowitz, 75-34 Bell Blvd (Windsor Park), apartment 3F. Shiva minyanim will be - [Passing of Moshe Lesnik z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/passing-of-moshe-lesnik-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time member Moshe Lesnik. The chapel service will be held on Thursday, June 4 at 1:00 pm at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will take place in Israel on Sunday. Shiva will be observed at first in Israel. The family will return to the - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5775/) - For the first time since last summer, I received two tzeva adommessages on my phone this week. Those are the red alerts that I wanted to get in solidarity with our brothers and sisters in Israel during the Gaza War. The message indicated a "state-wide" alarm, but I didn't hear of any attacks, so maybe - [Thank You](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/06/thank-you/) - TODAH RABAH, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! I cannot adequately express how much I appreciate and cherish your support, friendship & love. HHJC is truly our family and each and every one of you is near and dear to June and I. Where do I begin…From the moment I arrived to the shul for - [Shabbat Naso 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/shabbat-naso-5775/) - I'm not a kohen, nor were my father and grandfather. But that never stopped me from loving birkat kohanim, the priestly blessing. I've never used it liberally--you may notice that I don't bestow it on Bnai-Mitzvah children--but I loved receiving it from my parents and so I love using it to bless my own kids at - [Passing of Blanche Baker z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/passing-of-blanche-baker-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time member Blanche Baker. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, May 26 at 2:30 pm graveside at Beth Moses Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at Blanche's home, 80-29 214th St. in Hollis Hills, on Tuesday, May 26 and Wednesday, May 27. Minyan - [Passing of Trudy Shepard z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/passing-of-trudy-shepard-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Trudy Shepard, mother of our member Danny Shepard. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, May 26 at 10:15 AM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed at the home of Danny and Audrey - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5775/) - What does the word wilderness mean to you? As we begin reading the fourth book of the Torah, Sefer Bemidbar, we note that while its common English name isNumbers, the Hebrew term describes more than just the census in the first section of the book. Bemidbar is about the Israelite journey to the Promised Land. - [Shabbat Behar/Behukotai 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/shabbat-beharbehukotai-5775/) - If you read the Torah, it's all so simple. On one hand, "Im behukotai teleikhu--If you follow My laws and faithfully observe My commandments, I will grant your rains in their season..." (Leviticus 26:3-4). And on the other hand, "Ve-im lo tishme'u li--But if you do not obey Me...I in turn will do this to - [Passing of Sylvia Kleiman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/passing-of-sylvia-kleiman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Sylvia Kleiman, mother of our member Laura Brodsky. The funeral will be held tomorrow Friday, May 15th at 2 PM graveside at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be observed through Thursday morning at the Brodsky home, 219-05 82nd Avenue in Hollis Hills. Ma’ariv services at 7:55 - [AJWS Global Justice Fellowship](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/ajws-global-justice-fellowship/) - As I mentioned in my May Dateline article, I'm fortunate to have been invited to participate in the American Jewish World Service's NY-area global justice fellowship. We've been learning about and organizing around a very powerful advocacy campaign called We Believe. In the most basic terms, We Believe affirms three things: that no one should ever be a victim of - [Shabbat Emor](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/shabbat-emor/) - One of my favorite descriptions of Jewish living is that we are not supposed to live according to what the Torah says; rather, we are to behave according to what the Rabbis say the Torah says. The difference is at times rather significant, to say the least. In this week's portion, we have a classic - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/05/shabbat-aharei-motkedoshim-5775/) - The second of this week's two Torah portions, Kedoshim, demands of us that we live a life of holiness, in relation to God and to each other. Its central verse, "ve-ahavta lerei'akha kamokha--love your fellow as yourself"--is considered to be the most crucial of all passages in the Torah. For that reason, we chose to - [Rabbi Wise's Study Corner: Remembering Rav Aharon Lichtenstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/rabbi-wises-study-corner-remembering-rav-aharon-lichtenstein-zl/) - Last Shabbat, I spoke about tzara'at habayit, the version of ritual impurity that attacks not the body or clothing, but the home. We studied the commentary of the Kli Yakar, Rabbi Shlomo Ephraim Luntschitz, noting that this is the only affliction that is linked to the Israelites' possessing the land. As we learned, his message is that - [Our Happenings & Simchas](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/our-happenings-simchas/) - Spring is now here and HHJC has its’ calendar filled with something for everyone…Yoga, Adult Education lectures, Simcha Shabbatot, Lunch & Learn Shabbatot, Sisterhood events, Men’s Club events, Museum trip, Book Club, etc., etc. Of course, we also have our SIMCHA 2015 DINNER DANCE around the corner, to take place on SUNDAY, MAY 17th at - [Shabbat Tazria-Metzora 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/shabbat-tazria-metzora-5775/) - "A plague on your house" may be a great curse, especially in Yiddish, but not if you're on the receiving end of it. The two Torah portions we read this week, Tazria and Metzora, deal with various forms of tzara'at, including tzara'at habayit, some kind of eruption in the walls of the house. In our - [Shabbat Shemini 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/shabbat-shemini-5775/) - Last Shabbat, on the last day of Pesah, we spoke about our people's history of persecution, as expressed in the seder toastV'hee She'amdah. Today, as I write this message, we are observing Yom HaShoah veHaGevurah, the day we commemorate the victims of the Holocaust and those who resisted. And we know that the world has - [Shabbat/8th Day of Pesah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/shabbat8th-day-of-pesah-5775/) - Something peculiar happens during the seder (many peculiar things happen, of course, which is why we ask questions) that requires special attention. As we tell the story of our rescue, we learn that our time in Egypt was predestined. After all, God told Avram (Genesis 15:13-14) that his descendants would be enslaved in a foreign land, but - [Pesah 5775--From the Shelf of Haggadot](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/04/pesah-5775-from-the-shelf-of-haggadot/) - I hope that you are having a festive Pesah and that your seders, either at home or on the road, were meaningful. Every year, as I lead the seder, I strive for the right combination of ingredients: some chanting of the traditional text, lots of singing, and plenty of good conversation about the Exodus and - [Passing of Ada Goldstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/passing-of-ada-goldstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ada Goldstein, sister of our member Jack Tanzman and aunt of our officer, Melanie Katz. The funeral will be held on Sunday afternoon, March 29, in Florida. Jack will observe shiva at his residence, Castle Senior Quarters, 108-25 Horace Harding Expressway in Corona. Jack is in room 153. - [Shabbat Tzav/Hagadol](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/shabbat-tzavhagadol-2/) - How do we celebrate our independence as Americans? Well, on July 4, we get the day off from work, we often get together for a barbeque, share an adult beverage, maybe even participate in a Fourth of July parade, and finish our day with Fireworks by Grucci. We wear our American flag t-shirts from Old - [Shabbat Tzav/Hagadol](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/shabbat-tzavhagadol/) - How do we celebrate our independence as Americans? Well, on July 4, we get the day off from work, we often get together for a barbeque, share an adult beverage, maybe even participate in a Fourth of July parade, and finish our day with Fireworks by Grucci. We wear our American flag t-shirts from Old - [Sharing Special Moments Together](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/sharing-special-moments-together/) - What can I say? It is rare that I am speechless but quite frankly, I am trying to find the right words to express how thrilled I am to have been able to bring so many of my incredibly talented & clever colleagues and friends together, to our Synagogue, to sweep us off our feet. - [Passing of Selma Cowit z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/passing-of-selma-cowit-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member Selma Cowit. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, March 25th at 11:30 AM at Riverside Chapels, 180 W. 76th Street in New York City. Burial will be at Riverside Cemetery in Saddlebrook, NJ. Shiva will be observed Wednesday beginning at 4 PM at - [Six Gifts for Pesah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/six-gifts-for-pesah/) - I must begin with a confession: Pesah is my favorite holiday. I know this won't sit well with some Jews, for whom slave labor is associated with the present and not the past. But the Haggadah is my favorite book, and if treated in accordance with the intent of the tradition, Pesah can indeed be - [Shabbat Vayikra/HaHodesh](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/shabbat-vayikrahahodesh/) - This Shabbat, we have a guest giving the dvar Torah. I think you'll be proud to hear her! In this space, instead of focusing on the content of the weekly Torah reading, I'll focus on the form of what is a rather complex Torah service. This, my friends, is one of those rare Shabbatot when - [Passing of Charles Feilhardt z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/passing-of-charles-feilhardt-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Charles Feilhardt, brother of our member, Marvin Feilhardt. The funeral services will be held today, March 17th at 11 AM in Toledo, Ohio. The family will observe shiva following the service at 2457 Cheltenham Road, Toledo, Ohio. Any donations in memory of Charles Feilhardt can be made to - [Shabbat Vayakhel-Pekudei/Parah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/shabbat-vayakhel-pekudeiparah/) - Purim has passed, and we've had the wine-tasting event. That must mean that Pesah is around the corner. So how are your preparations coming along? Imagine if you had to make the following part of your Pesah prep: you've been to a cemetery recently, and you want to be sure that you're entering the festival - [Passing of Herb Plush z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/passing-of-herb-plush-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member Herb Plush, husband of our member Rita Plush. The funeral will be held Friday, March 6th at 2 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Mt. Hebron Cemetery in Queens. Shiva will be observed at the Plush home, - [Passing of Morty Brooks z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/passing-of-morty-brooks-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member Morty Brooks, husband of our member Norma Brooks and father of our member Diane Landau. The funeral will be held Friday, March 6th at 9:30 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge, NJ. - [Shabbat Ki Tissa 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/shabbat-ki-tissa-5775/) - How did Moshe and Aharon get along as brothers? They clearly do a good deal of work together, though they occupy different realms. But if there was any event in the Torah that would have put a strain on their relationship, it would have to have to been ma'aseh ha'egel, the Golden Calf episode, of which - [RDW Goes to Washington--AIPAC Day 2](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/rdw-goes-to-washington-aipac-day-2/) - It was just your average 15-hour day in Washington. Not all of those 15 hours were spent on the security line just to enter the Washington Convention Center, though it seemed it might take that long as we gathered at 6:45 am to make our way to breakfast for rabbis with Rabbi Dr. Donniel Hartman, - [RDW Goes to Washington--AIPAC 2015 Day 1 blog](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/03/rdw-goes-to-washington-aipac-2015-day-1-blog/) - To borrow a line from a colleague: it's USY International Convention on steroids. I am thrilled to participate along with 16,000 others at this the largest AIPAC Policy Conference ever. There are more than 500 rabbis and religious leaders here. There are more than 3,000 high school and college students! There are plenty of people - [Never Again](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/never-again/) - January 2015 marked the 70th Anniversary of the Liberation of Auschwitz/Birkenau. It seems so far back, yet, in reality it is very recent. Around 300 survivors of the Nazi concentration/death camp returned to the horrific site in Poland to mark this special anniversary of their liberation. Many of them came wearing some form of the - [Shabbat Tetzaveh/Zakhor 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/shabbat-tetzavehzakhor-5775/) - Let's look at the Purim story, as told in Megillat Esther, as a tale of two women. Though the king no doubt has many women in his harem, two queens are singled out by name: Vashti and Esther. The downfall of one paves the way for the ascent of the other. Let's briefly review the - [Vote MERCAZ: Today's Poll Tax](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/vote-mercaz-todays-poll-tax/) - On Shabbat morning, we talked about the evolving definition of Judaism as crafted by the World Zionist Organization. We saw that in 1897, at the first Zionist Congress in Basle, the aim of political Zionism was to garner support--among world Jewry and world leaders--for the idea of a Jewish homeland. Come 1951, with that mission - [Shabbat Terumah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/shabbat-terumah-5775/) - It's great when the Torah reading cycle gives us subliminal messages. Here's what I mean: last week, when we read a special maftir in anticipation of Purim, we learned about the standard mandatory contribution for the upkeep of the sanctuary--the half-shekel. "The rich shall pay no more and the poor shall pay no less than - [Relational Judaism - Videos of Dr. Ron Wolfson](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/relational-judaism-videos-of-dr-ron-wolfson/) - Presentation to Federation of Men's Clubs on Relational Judaism http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-9Qd1bGkWs The Importance of Greeting http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWOO9cBSM5E Building Good Tents - Presentation United Jewish Federation Tidewater Va. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uo3dX3f7czs - [Passing of Harvey Rubin z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/passing-of-harvey-rubin-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Harvey Rubin, brother of our member George Rubin. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, February 11 at 10:00 AM at Shure Funeral Home in New Haven, CT. Burial will be at Beth David in Elmont at 1 pm. Shiva will be observed at the home of George - [Shabbat Yitro 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/02/shabbat-yitro-5775/) - Earlier this week, as we studied The Torah:A Women's Commentary at evening minyan as we've done throughout the year, I mentioned the revolutionary interpretation by feminist Bible scholar Judith Plaskow about the revelation at Sinai. It's based on the following textual curiosity. In chapter 19, God emphasizes that in preparation for the moment of revelation, - [Shabbat Beshalah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/shabbat-beshalah-5775/) - The angels have great seats for the contest by the shore. They've watched with wonder as God has split the Sea of Reeds and the Israelites have hurried between the walls of water. Now the Egyptian chariots, hot in pursuit, are between the sea walls, gaining on their prey. The angels, fans of the underdog Israelites, - [Am Yisrael Chai](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/am-yisrael-chai/) - AM YISRAEL CHAI --- AM YISRAEL CHAI -- THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL LIVE This is what I want to scream out to the world, as I watch the horrific slaughtering of innocent people in Paris. To think that you can be strolling through a supermarket shopping for Shabbat and all of a sudden, you are - [Rabbi Wise's Study Corner 1/28/2015: The Observant Life](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/rabbi-wises-study-corner-1282015-the-observant-life/) - Thanks to all who braved the weather to learn together this past Shabbat morning. We looked at Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky's chapter on Interfaith Relations. At our lunch and learn, most of our attention was focused on the definition of idolatry and the status of other religions. While there isn't much debate about Islam, which is clearly - [Rabbi's Study Corner: Beginnings of Judaism #1](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/rabbis-study-corner-beginnings-of-judaism-1/) - This week, we launched The Beginnings of Judaism, a new Lifelong Learning series produced the The Teaching Company as part of its Great Lectures program. In this class on ancient Jewish history, we will explore the development of Judaism from the destruction of the First Temple in 587/86 BCE through the fall of the Second Jewish - [Shabbat Bo 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/shabbat-bo-5775/) - Some of our family's most interesting seder memories involve non-Jewish guests at our table--the local Presbyterian minister, a Catholic community organizer, a home care aid. Amazingly, I still sometimes field this question: "Are we permitted to have Gentiles at the seder table?" The roots of this question can be found in this week's Torah portion, - [Rabbi Wise's Study Corner: 1-13-15](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/rabbi-wises-study-corner-first-entry/) - Welcome to my new blog, the Study Corner. I'll be using this space to follow up on my Shabbat email, to reflect on our adult education classes, and to share new ideas. If you weren't able to be in shul for Shabbat or for classes for any reason, here's where you can come to find - [Shabbat Vaera 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/shabbat-vaera-5775/) - To the surprise of no one in our Thursday lunch and learn class, Exodus: Gods and Kings received nary an Oscar nomination. But it's worth noting that unlike other Hollywood midrashim on Sefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, such as The Ten Commandments and The Prince of Egypt, at least this film distributor understood what - [Passing of Jack Skoler z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/passing-of-jack-skoler-zl-3/) - We are saddened by the passing of Jack Skoler, husband of our member Karen Skoler. The memorial service will be held today, Monday, January 19th at 3:00 PM graveside at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Shiva will be observed at Karen's home, 75-26 Bell Blvd (Windsor Park), apartment 3G. Maariv minyan will be held - [Passing of Irene Gottlieb z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/passing-of-irene-gottlieb-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member, Irene Gottlieb, wife of our member Allen Gottlieb. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, January 14th at 10:30 AM graveside at Mount Ararat Cemetery in Lindenhurst. Please make an effort to attend the service so that there will be a minyan. HaMakom Yanahem - [Shabbat Shemot 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2015/01/shabbat-shemot-5775/) - What made Pharaoh so nervous that led him to enslave the Israelites? We can learn a great deal by reading two verses in this week's parshah, Shemot, that begins the second book of the Torah. Here's what the new king said to his people: "Look, the Israelite people--'am Bnei Yisrael--are much too numerous for us. - [Doing Mitzvot - Save the Dates](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/12/doing-mitzvot-save-the-dates/) - Perhaps some of you watched the tribute to the TOP 10 CNN HEROES as June and I did recently. There were 3 “heroes” in particular that caught my attention. Firstly, I was so proud of the 2 Jewish heroes that were honored. Rabbi Elimelech Goldberg tragically lost his 2 year old daughter to leukemia in - [Passing of David Michael Johnston z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/12/passing-of-david-michael-johnston-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of David Michael Johnston, brother of our long time member Dana Johnston. Dana will begin observing Shiva on Friday afternoon and resume after Shabbat through Tuesday at 221-35 Hartland Avenue in Hollis Hills. The phone number is 718-740-5330. Dana will be with family out of town on Wednesday. Ma'ariv - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5775/) - This Shabbat, as we read Parshat Vayeshev, we'll hear words of Torah from someone else. In the meantime, I'm happy to give you food for thought for your Shabbat dinner conversation. Yosef, whose story will dominate the remaining four portions of the book of Bereshit, is known for his God-given talents in dream interpretation. It's - [Cantor Zim's Media Posted On Website](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/12/cantor-zims-media-posted-on-website/) - See a selection of our Cantor's performances from around the world and special interviews with Cantor Zim - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/12/shabbat-vayishlah-5775/) - The Dinah episode is one of the most troubling narratives in the entire Torah. Ya'akov's daughter ends up in an intimate relationship with Shekhem, who falls in love with her and wants to marry her. Dinah's brothers convince Shekhem and his entire community of males that in order to have intimacy with the family of - [Cantor Zim - Save the Dates](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/cantor-zim-save-the-dates/) - As our TRIBUTE TO ISRAEL CONCERT kicked off my Jubilee year at HHJC, now let’s get ready to have more fun…to laugh till we cry…to enjoy a full stage of Cantors all singing together. SAVE THE DATES! MARCH 15, 2015 (Sunday) CANTOR SOL ZIM AND FRIENDS IN CONCERT Many of my friends and - [Passing of Toby Schwartz z'l ](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/passing-of-toby-schwartz-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Toby Schwartz, mother of our long-time member Marilyn Seidenfeld. The funeral will be held on Monday, November 24, at 1 pm graveside at Mount Lebanon Cemetery, 7800 Myrtle Avenue in Glendale, NY. Shiva will be observed at the home of Marilyn and Stanley Seidenfeld, 80-25 209th St. in - [Shabbat Toldot 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/shabbat-toldot-5775/) - We are the descendants of of Ya'akov, and that's not always an easy burden to bear. It's tough enough to admire our patriarch for his sneaky behavior in pilfering dad's blessing from his unwitting older twin brother Esav. We can put Ya'akov on trial and debate the appropriateness of his actions, but the episode still - [Shabbat Vayera 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/shabbat-vayera-5775/) - By the time God includes Avraham in the deliberations, the fate of Sodom has already been sealed. Or has it? God's almost certain that the people of this city are so wicked that the city deserves to be destroyed. But before pulling the trigger, as it were, God has to check things out one last - [Passing of Gerald Epstein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/passing-of-gerald-epstein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Gerald Epstein, brother of our long-time member Stanley Epstein. The funeral will be held on Friday, November 21, in Toronto. You can reach Stanley on Bonnie's cellphone at (718) 757-0900 or by email at elegant22@msn.com. Stanley will be returning home for the remainder of shiva after Shabbat. The - [Passing of Judy Hersch z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/11/passing-of-judy-hersch-zl-2/) - We are saddened by the passing of Judy Hersch, mother of our long-time member Vicky Wolkofsky. The funeral will be held on Sunday, November 16, at Sinai Chapel on Horace Harding Expressway at 12:45 p.m. Burial will be at New Montifiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Vicky and - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5775/) - A health care worker returns from treating Ebola-infected patients, develops a low-grade fever upon returning to New York, and the city goes up in arms about where he bowled and ate meatballs. Why? Two local tween-age children--brothers originally from Senegal--were beaten up by schoolmates so viciously they had to be hospitalized. This after being taunted - [A Year of Celebration Begins...](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/10/a-year-of-celebration-begins/) - As I sit at my desk writing this article, I am reflecting on the beautiful High Holidays and Yamim Tovim we just shared together at HHJC, filled with such warmth and enthusiasm. It was a very special experience for me to walk with the Torah and to see so many smiling faces as you kissed - [Shabbat Noah 5775](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/10/shabbat-noah-5775/) - On this third consecutive day of rain, and given this week's Torah portion, Noah, I'm getting a bit anxious. The weather has led me to this question: What was so bad about the human race that God was so disappointed in and enraged by it as to bring the devastating flood? The Bible says dor - [Passing of Arthur Klein z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/10/passing-of-arthur-klein-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Arthur Klein, long time member and husband of Debra Klein and father of Andra & Sherri. The funeral will be held tomorrow Thursday, October 23rd at 12:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Beth David Cemetery in Elmont. Shiva will be - [Passing of Ruth Margulis z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/10/passing-of-ruth-margulis-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ruth Margulis, mother of our long time member Ira Margulis. The funeral will be held graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island tomorrow, Wednesday, October 22nd at 2 PM. Shiva will be observed at the home of Felice & Ira Margulis, 79-42 213th Street in Hollis Hills, - [Shana Tova - Gala Concert A Special Tribute to Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/09/shana-tova-gala-concert-a-special-tribute-to-israel/) - As you may know, this year is a very special year for me. It is my 50th Anniversary at HHJC. WOW!! How time does fly! It feels like just yesterday when I first stood on the pulpit in our sanctuary and saw so many warm and loving faces with welcoming smiles. I can still feel - [Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5774/) - I write these words on the 13th commemoration of the terror attacks of September 11. We remember the many innocents who died on this date, and the many heroic first responders who charged into the heart of the flames in the hopes of saving fellow human beings. What does it mean for a person to - [Shabbat Ki-Tetzei 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/09/shabbat-ki-tetzei-5774/) - Two weeks ago, I began my dvar Torah about religious fanaticism with a question for the community: "Did anyone watch the video of the beheading?" I was gratified that no one raised a hand, for a variety of reasons. Politically, we should not validate the vile propaganda campaign of Islamic State or any group committed - [Shabbat Shoftim 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/shabbat-shoftim-5774/) - "Tzedek tzedek tirdof--justice, justice shall you pursue" (Deuteronomy 16:20). In this week's portion, Shoftim, we encounter one of the Torah's most famous ethical imperatives. But ethical imperatives are not always easy to translate into concrete actions that everyone can agree fulfill the mission statement. For example, we might be fully confident that we are beneficiaries of - [Thank You! Chai: A Salute to Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/thank-you-chai-a-salute-to-israel/) - My brother Ralph would have been elated to know how my HHJC family was truly there for me during my time of SHIVA. Your warmth, love & affection truly helped me get through this extremely difficult time. I am immensely grateful for the loving support you gave me. Thank you for the gracious and generous - [Passing of Albert Chemtob z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/passing-of-albert-chemtob-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member, Albert Chemtob, husband of our member Suzanne Chemtob. The funeral will be held Wednesday, August 27th at 10:15 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial is at New Montefiore Cemetery on Long Island. Shiva will be observed through Tuesday morning, September - [Shabbat Re-eh 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/shabbat-re-eh-5774/) - The civilized world watched in horror as the radical jihadist group IS (Islamic State) released a video appearing to show the beheading of American photojournalist James Foley. In response, President Obama said this group "speaks for no religion...no faith teaches people to massacre innocents. No just god would stand for what they did yesterday and - [Shabbat Ekev 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/shabbat-ekev-5774/) - "Comfort, oh comfort My people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem..." (Isaiah 40:1-2). That's how last week's haftarah began. "Zion says, 'The LORD has forsaken me, My Lord has forgotten me'" (Isaiah 49:14). That's the opening of this week's haftarah. As we embark on a seven-week journey of consolation, following Tisha B'Av and leading - [Passing of Ralph Zimelman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/08/passing-of-ralph-zimelman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Ralph Zimelman, brother of our long time Cantor Sol Zim. The memorial service will be held on Sunday, August 10th at 10 AM in Rochester, NY where Ralph lived at Brighton Memorial Chapel, 3325 Winton Road S, Rochester, NY. The phone number for the chapel is 585-427-8520. Burial - [Passing of Edmund Janko z'l ](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/07/passing-of-edmund-janko-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Edmund Janko, long time member and husband of our member, Ruth Janko. The funeral will be held on Sunday, July 27th at 1 PM graveside at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed Monday through Thursday in the afternoon and early evening at the home of - [Shabbat Mattot 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/07/shabbat-mattot-5774/) - With apologies to The Clash, the question on my mind and on the minds of all who love Israel in times such as these is "Should I Give or Should I Go?" As Diaspora Zionists, we struggle to find ways to express our support for our fellow Jews in Israel, millions of whom are under - [Shabbat Pinhas 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/07/shabbat-pinhas-5774/) - In light of this week's continued onslaught of missiles from Gaza into Israel, it's abundantly clear that the dream of shalom is not going materialize any time soon. But our prayers are replete with hopes for peace. Are these empty prayers, at least in the short term? Maybe we need to re-calibrate our definition of shalom in - [Passing of Stephen Kamberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/07/passing-of-stephen-kamberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Stephen Kamberg, long time member and husband of our member, Judith Kamberg The funeral will be held on Thursday, July 10th at 12 Noon at Schwartz Brothers Memorial Chapel, 114-03 Queens Boulevard. Burial will be at Cedar Park Cemetery in Paramus. Shiva will be observed at the home - [Shabbat Balak 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/07/shabbat-balak-5774/) - I can't remember being as drained emotionally as I have been this week. My mind has been a receptacle for conflicting thoughts struggling with one another like Jacob and Esau in their mother's womb. The words of Kohelet, Ecclesiastes, kept coming back to me. "A season is set for everything; a time for every experience under - [Shabbat Hukkat 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/06/shabbat-hukkat-5774/) - Fear motivates us to do extraordinary things, not all of which are good. Last week, a middle school student stabbed one of his peers to death, allegedly as a result of deep fears and anxiety in the face of being bullied. This week, 11-year-old honor student Cyon Williams of Staten Island dropped out of his - [Moments To Remember](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/06/moments-to-remember/) - Summer is now upon us and treacherous weather is now a thing of the past, at least for a few months. In my book, the change of season means no more hot chocolate….now it’s fat free/sugar free frozen yogurt. The past couple of months have been exciting and memorable for me...To begin with, our HHJC - [Shabbat Korah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/06/shabbat-korah-5774/) - This hasn't been the easiest week for the Jewish People and for the State of Israel. The kidnapping of three Israeli teenage boys on their way home for Shabbat from their yeshiva is traumatic enough. To add insult to injury, we await a vote at the Presbyterian Church's General Assembly (scheduled for Friday) on a - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5774/) - If one's life is judged by how many countries one has visited, I've lived a rather pedestrian life. I've been to Canada, the US, Israel, and Mexico. Stopovers in France and Spain don't count because I never left the airports. The most obscure Jewish community I've ever visited was in Elmira, NY. I applaud those - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5774/) - My favorite menu notation is in one of those classic New York kosher delis. Under the sandwiches it lists the costs for all the extras--club bread, lettuce and tomato, extra extra lean meat--along with a warning: "Aggravating your server: $1." Apparently, "waiter, there's a fly in my soup" would be a tame interaction in this - [Celebrating Israel's 66th Anniversary](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/celebrating-israels-66th-anniversary/) - We recently celebrated YOM HA’ATZMAUT, Israel’s 66th Anniversary of Independence, and the SALUTE TO ISRAEL PARADE is coming up soon, on June 1st. The celebration of our Jewish Homeland is glorious! For me, it brings tears to my eyes and astonishment to my mind. With all the dangers Israel faces with her surrounding enemies, with - [Shabbat Naso 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/shabbat-naso-5774/) - Few passages in Torah trouble us more than Parshat Sotah, which we will confront this week in the weekly portion, Naso. It's the ritual forced upon a woman accused of adultery by her suspicious husband. But lest we think that only we, fortunate products of modernity and the age of reason, struggle with the bitterness of this - [Passing of Rita Goldman z'l ](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/passing-of-rita-goldman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Rita Goldman, mother of our long-time member and ritual director. Gordon Goldman. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, May 27 at 12:45 PM at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at Old Montifiore Cemetery in St. Albans, Queens. Shiva will be observed at Gordon - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5774/) - If you've ever been to Jerusalem, you know it's a special place. The Talmud famously records the statement that when God created the world, Jerusalem was allocated 9/10 of all earthly beauty. But with Yom Yerushalayim, the 47th anniversary of the reunification of the Jewish People's capital, coming this week, we can learn a great deal - [Shabbat Behukotai 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/shabbat-behukotai-5774/) - What does shalom, peace, really mean to you? At the Rabbinical Assembly convention in Dallas this past week, I had a chance to explore this question while studying this week's parshah, Behukotai, with Dr. Walter Hertzberg, who teaches Bible at JTS. The question arises because of a phrase early in the Torah portion, when God promises blessings if - [Shabbat Behar 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/05/shabbat-behar-5774/) - It's always a pleasure to have a guest giving the dvar Torah, as we do for Lay-leader Shabbat this week. But since we always use this spot as a kick-start to the Shabbat morning dvar Torah, our darshan, Robert Fogel, welcomed my invitation to give you something to think about in advance of his teaching. Parshat Behar, which - [Yom Hashoah Commemoration - We Shall Never Forget](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/04/yom-hashoah-commemoration-we-shall-never-forget/) - As we remember and pay honor to the six million Martyrs (precious men, women & children) on Yom Hashoah 5774, I recall an article I recently read in the New York Times, and subsequently heard about on many News stations including JLTV, about how the Vienna Philharmonic is finally returning a painting back to its - [Shabbat Kedoshim 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/04/shabbat-kedoshim-5774/) - Earlier this week, the Boston Marathon went on without incident. One year after deadly bombings rocked the event, we had opportunity to look back at the attack and reflect on the courageous responses of the city of Boston, the running community, and other heroes who emerged from the story. This week's parshah, Kedoshim, contains many famous phrases, - [Shabbat Hol Hamoed Pesah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/04/shabbat-hol-hamoed-pesah-5774/) - Along the way during the seder, as we're telling our story, we make mention of being chosen. "In the beginning our ancestors served idols," but then God brought us close in order to do things differently. From the outset, this was our promised destiny. Even before learning that one day his descendants will be enslaved, - [Aharei-Mot/Shabbat Hagadol 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/04/aharei-motshabbat-hagadol-5774/) - We're coming to the last Shabbat before Passover. For those who are expecting a long sermon in Yiddish exhorting you to prepare properly for Pesah, you may find yourself disappointed. We'll have many opportunities to discuss the themes of the holiday throughout Yom Tov. This Shabbat, though, we welcome back our recent initiative, "Breakout Shabbat." - [Shabbat Metzora 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/04/shabbat-metzora-5774/) - It's not very often that the Torah tells us about illness. Generally, Biblical characters get old and die, or meet with a violent death. The language near the end of Genesis about Ya'akov's illness suggests that even the concept of a terminal illness was foreign enough to be surprising to others. But this week, in Parshat Metzora, illness - [Shabbat Tazria/Hahodesh 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/03/shabbat-tazriahahodesh-5774/) - Have you ever encountered Westboro Baptist Church? I once saw them on a street corner near the UN compound. I was headed to a pro-Israel rally, and they were perched on the sidewalk chanting offensive, anti-Semitic lyrics to the tune of Hava Nagila. I walked by and burst into laughter at their pathetic, harmless attempt to - [Spirituality & Celebration at HHJC](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/03/spirituality-celebration-at-hhjc/) - I have been getting so many phone calls from those who attended our recent Shabbat Across America event. It was a very special, beautiful, informative & spiritual Friday Night that was very well attended. It was a musical evening as we paid tribute to the many Jewish composers of Broadway. We began with Mincha & - [Shabbat Shemini/Parah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/03/shabbat-sheminiparah-5774/) - We're going to spend the next several weeks of Torah portions grappling with the theme of kedushah, usually translated as holiness. The problem, as I see it, is that we can't define holiness with much certainty either. Whether our Torah is addressing the special regulations for the kohanim, or the dietary laws, both of which appear in - [Shabbat Tzav/Zakhor 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/03/shabbat-tzavzakhor-5774/) - I'm excited that on Shabbat morning, the teaching, Torah reading and davening will be done by members of the community--we call it Lay-Led Shabbat. I don't want to steal Steve Teleky's thunder, as he's giving the dvar Torah. So instead, I'll give a brief hint about my Friday evening dvar Torah on this week's parshah, Tzav. A - [Shabbat Vayikra 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/03/shabbat-vayikra-5774/) - Imagine taking something that is precious to you, giving it away of your own free will and volition, and watching it go up in smoke. By the end, your prized possession is nothing but a pile of ashes, soon to be swept away so that the next person's prized possession can be burned in its - [Mazal Tov to Ilene & Lewis Strongin](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/mazal-tov-to-ilene-lewis-strongin/) - Mazal Tov to Ilene & Lewis Strongin on the birth of their new grandson, Drew Benjamin, to Meredith & Jonathan - [Passing of Myra Levy z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/passing-of-myra-levy-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long time member Myra Levy, sister of Arthur Levy. The funeral will be held tomorrow, Tuesday, February 25th at 10 AM at Sinai Chapels on the Horace Harding Expressway. Burial will be at New Montefiore Cemetery on LI. Shiva will be observed at the home of Arthur - [Passing of Israel Biegel z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/passing-of-israel-biegel-zl/) - We are saddening by the passing of Israel Biegel, brother of our member Ruth Herman. The funeral was held on Sunday, February 16. Shiva will be observed until Tuesday evening, February 18th at the home of Ruth and Manuel Herman, 80-35 Springfield Blvd., Apt. 3C in Hollis Hills. The telephone number is 718-464-9196. HaMakom Yenahem - [Shabbat Tetzaveh 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/shabbat-tetzaveh-5774/) - Reading Torah every week, we get very familiar with the main characters of the story. Throughout Sefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, we've become especially attached to Moshe, whose name has been everywhere from the moment he was named. Lo and behold, this week, in Parshat Tetzaveh, we will not read his name once! Actually, Moshe's far - [Mazal Tov to Mary & Dana Johnston](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/02/mazal-tov-to-mary-dana-johnston/) - Mazal Tov to Mary & Dana Johnston on the engagement of their daughter Elizabeth to Jake. - [Shabbat Terumah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/01/shabbat-terumah-5774/) - As we begin reading a series of portions about the building of the Mishkan, the project that would become Israel's traveling sanctuary, let's consider a fundamental question about building projects. Who's more crucial to the project: the architect or the interior designer? On the one hand, I would argue for the architect as follows: what good - [Shabbat Mishpatim 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/01/shabbat-mishpatim-5774/) - When I was in 5th grade, my family moved from the home they had owned for more than 25 years. My sisters were both married and out of the country (not to mention the house), and my parents were ready to "right-size." But the main attraction of the new place was that it was part - [Shabbat Yitro 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/01/shabbat-yitro-5774/) - When Moshe first encountered Yitro back at the beginning ofSefer Shemot, the Book of Exodus, he knew the man was special. Not only was he the father of seven daughters, he was the priest of Midian. Little did he know that one day, Yitro would be Moshe's judicial consultant. As Moshe reconnects with his wife, - [Shabbat Beshalah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/01/shabbat-beshalah-5774/) - Strong emotions can lead to strange behaviors. Anger, for example, can lead to bitterness, and then to hatred, and render us so blinded that we are unable to act in an appropriate and ethical manner. Such anger may even create excessive traffic on the George Washington Bridge! Even the Torah and its ancient interpreters noted - [Shabbat Bo 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2014/01/shabbat-bo-5774/) - Pharaoh's almost ready to relent and allow the Israelites to fulfill Moshe's demand that they go out of Egypt for three days to celebrate and worship God. But he wants Moshe to provide a VIP list of those who will be granted exit visas. "Mi vami haholkhim--Who's who that is going?" he asks (Exodus 10:8). - [Shabbat Va-era 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/12/shabbat-va-era-5774/) - Have you ever been so distraught that you can't appreciate something that should bring you joy? Who would so turn away the bearer of good news? That's exactly what happens to the Israelites in our parsha, Va-era, as Moshe tries to bring them a promise of redemption but his words fall on deaf ears. "But when - [Shabbat Shemot 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/12/shabbat-shemot-5774/) - What are your plans for this coming Tuesday evening and Wednesday? You can be sure that whatever you have in mind to do, it'll be different than what you would have done in, say, Poland in the 18th century on that same date, or in Venice in the 16th century. The term "December dilemma" has - [Shabbat Vayehi 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/12/shabbat-vayehi-5774/) - Just as the Torah portion, Vayehi, dwells extensively on a father giving deathbed guidance to his sons, so does the haftarah. But the tone of the fatherly instructions in the haftarah is jarring. Here, in the second chapter of the Book of Kings, David advises his chosen successor Shlomo to do more than just to - [Shabbat Vayigash 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/12/shabbat-vayigash-5774/) - As Pharaoh had dreamed and Yosef had interpreted, the Land of Egypt was wracked by famine. Yosef's initial economic advice was for Egypt to prepare for seven years of scarcity by stockpiling grain during seven years of surplus. But when it came time to address the population's needs, things got dicey for the average Egyptian. - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/11/shabbat-miketzhanukkah/) - Who, really, were the Maccabees? We've always learned about the courage of the five sons of Mattathias: Yohanan, Shimon, Yehudah, Elazar and Yonatan. Yehudah--the Judah Maccabee of classic Jewish folklore, is the symbol of military strength in the face of persecution. Then there's the heroism of Elazar, who took on the elephant in an act - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/11/shabbat-vayeshev-5774/) - As a native Torontonian, it's been nice to see my city getting so much attention in recent weeks. Well, that's not quite true. As the world watches the train wreck that is Mayor Rob Ford speed faster and faster out of control, I can't imagine that anyone with roots in Toronto is proud of the - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5774/) - It's been 20+ years since Ya'akov and Esav have last seen each other. Now, they are on a collision course, and given how they felt about each other when they parted, the upcoming scene is fraught with tension. All that tension seems to melt away when Esav approaches his estranged twin: "Esau ran to greet - [Shabbat Vayetzei 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/11/shabbat-vayetzei-5774/) - Reuven had the best of intentions. He saw that his mother, Leah, was in tough against her younger and prettier sister, Rahel, in the competition for dad's attention. So he goes and picks dudaim, mandrakes, and gives them to his mom. He obviously knows the mythical power of mandrakes--a known aphrodisiac in the ancient world. This - [Shabbat Toldot](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/10/shabbat-toldot/) - Esav the hunter comes in from the field and desperately wants to eat what his brother Ya'akov is cooking. "Stuff me with that red red stuff," he stutters. Ya'akov drives a hard bargain, though, and asks for Esav's birthright in return. " Esav replies, "Hinei anokhi holekh lamut--I am at the point of death, so - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/10/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5774/) - After burying his wife, Sarah, Avraham begins to confront his own mortality and realizes it's time to solidify his legacy. After all, God has promised him a long-term covenantal relationship. It took long enough for Avraham to produce an heir to this covenant, and in order for the heir to have an heir, he needs - [Shabbat Vayera 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/10/shabbat-vayera-5774/) - As I headed for the ballroom where the big plenary session was about to begin, I saw a man in the hallway outside the doors. Because I had heard the upcoming speaker, Ron Wolfson, before, I knew who it was standing there. It was Ron Wolfson. Before speaking in front of a convention of 1200 - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5774/) - Poor Avram just wants to be able to count to one. One child, that is. God has promised him that he will be the father of a great nation, yet for years he and Sarai remain, in fact, the only ones. They are childless. It's understandable that Avram would worry about numbers. We can say - [Shabbat Noah 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/10/shabbat-noah-5774/) - Noah's descendants bring human civilization forward by leaps and bounds. Their mastery of technology in their generation is as impressive as what we've accomplished in ours. "And as they migrated from the east, they came upon a valley in the land of Shinar and settled there. They said to one another, 'Come, let us make - [Shabbat Bereshit 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/09/shabbat-bereshit-5774/) - The events at the Westgate Premier Shopping Mall in Nairobi last week reminded us of the extreme danger of extremist religious thought. The perpetrators were members of al-Shabaab, a Somali jihadist opposition group. At least one witness said that the attackers specifically targeted non-Muslims. They killed in the name of God. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, emeritus - [Yom Kippur 5774](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/09/yom-kippur-5774/) - This Yom Kippur is the 40th anniversary of one of the most anxious days in recent Jewish history--the day Egypt and Syria launched coordinated attacks on the State of Israel, beginning the Yom Kippur War. I will be reflecting on that event and its impact on Israel Friday evening after Kol Nidre. As part of - [Shabbat Nitzavim/Vayelekh 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/08/shabbat-nitzavimvayelekh-5773/) - Read any section of the Torah carefully enough, and you will see literary genius at work. We'll see a word appear again and again in a short passage, begging us to notice it as the central idea of that section. Then, we are beckoned to look closer, to see if there's a pattern to the - [Shabbat Ki-Tetzei 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/08/shabbat-ki-tetzei-5773/) - If you had been alive in the decade before the Civil War and living in this country, you would have been bound by a law that is in direct conflict with a mitzvah that appears in this week's Torah portion, Ki-Tetzei. The mitzvah is: "You shall not turn over to his master a slave who seeks - [Shabbat Shoftim 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/08/shabbat-shoftim-5773/) - When the U.S. government announces that it has intercepted terror threats and puts us on higher security alert, do you feel more safe, or less so? Are you concerned that the threats may be over-hyped, and calculated to cause the public to be more afraid than we need to be? Or do you feel that - [Shabbat Re-eh 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/08/shabbat-re-eh-5773/) - Does Judaism permit us to believe that our children are perfect? Now that Jenny McCarthy is about to become a co-host on The View, we can expect that her unorthodox parenting philosophy will gain more attention. One of her beliefs is in the highly-dubious concept of Indigo and Crystal Children. According to this theory, some children - [Shabbat Ekev 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/07/shabbat-ekev-5773/) - It's easy to forget amid the noise surrounding some of the candidates, but the New York mayoral race also includes some serious questions about the city's future. As always, education reform is one of these questions. There's a passage in the Talmud that addresses education reform that I'd like us to ponder this Shabbat, since - [Shabbat Balak 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/06/shabbat-balak-5773/) - Does Jewish law sanction Big Brother? In light of allegations made by the NSA whistle blower, Edward Snowden, that personal electronic communications are subject to government surveillance, halakhic experts have weighed in on the issue of privacy in Jewish law and ethics. One such expert is Rabbi David Golinkin, in his columnResponsa in a Moment. You can - [Shabbat Hukkat 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/06/shabbat-hukkat-5773/) - When it comes time to transfer leadership from one person to another, how should the community be involved? Does this take place in the private space, or in the public sphere? On this Shabbat of the installation of new officers at HHJC, I'd like to notice something that happens in our Torah portion, Hukkat. God tells - [Shabbat Korah 5773 (Rosh Hodesh Tammuz)](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/06/shabbat-korah-5773-rosh-hodesh-tammuz/) - On the surface, Korah had a good point. "All the community are holy, all of them, and the LORD is in their midst." It's the challenge that follows that marks Korah as a rebel: "Why then do you raise yourselves above the LORD's congregation?" (Numbers 16:3). We might classify the tension in this week's Torah - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/05/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5773/) - The Book of Numbers, Sefer Bemidbar, is just one story after another of cranky Israelites challenging their leadership. Last week, we had the complaints about the menu options in the wilderness. This week, the scouts bring back a report that editorializes enough to send the people into a panic attack. Next week, Korah will attempt mutiny, - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/05/shabbat-behaalotekha-5773/) - Don't we all wish we could control our time? I typed "How to control my time" in the Google search box and saw 1.36 billion results. Apparently, yes, we all wish we could control our time. With all of the gurus offering time management tips, and though there are many extraordinary time planning tools on - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5773/) - Imagine yourself as a member of the Levitical family known as the Kohathites. As we learn in this week's parshah, Bemidbar, they are the ultimate schleppers--it is their responsibility to carry the raw materials of the Mishkan when Israel breaks camp. They put the "portable" in "portable sanctuary." Their work is considered "avodat massa," which unlike the removal - [Shabbat Behar/Behukotai 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/05/shabbat-beharbehukotai-5773/) - You're likely familiar with the expression "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." The usual context for this tidbit of wisdom is in the realm of medicine. For example, regular well-patient visits to the doctor are likely to forestall the need for emergency care. Or, maintaining a healthy lifestyle is a preemptive - [Shabbat Emor 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/04/shabbat-emor-5773/) - In the days since the capture of Boston Marathon bombing suspect Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, much of the nation's attention has turned, or returned, to the question of the death penalty. Massachusetts state legislators debated but ultimately shelved a proposal to reinstate capital punishment. We can expect the debate to continue in greater earnest in the months - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/04/shabbat-aharei-motkedoshim-5773/) - I hope you were able to get all your accounting obligations in order for tax day this week. The question is: are we ready for the ultimate audit? The Talmudic sage Rava taught that when a person dies and meets with the heavenly court, the interview begins not with questions about Shabbat observance, or our - [Shabbat Tazri'a-Metzora' 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/04/shabbat-tazria-metzora-5773/) - With the 65th anniversary of the birth of the State of Israel just a few days away, let's take some time to ponder the meaning of a key phrase that appears in the prayer for the State: reishit tzmihat geulatenu--the beginning of the flowering of our redemption. What do those words mean to you? Of course, - [Shabbat Shemini 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/04/shabbat-shemini-5773/) - You may have read recently of the tragic and bizarre death of Rabbi James Diamond, who was for many years the Hillel director at Princeton University. On Thursday of Hol HaMo'ed Pesah, Rabbi Diamond and friends were entering a car after their weekly Talmud study group in Manhattan, when another car sped out of control, crashed - [Shabbat Hol HaMo'ed Pesah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/03/shabbat-hol-hamoed-pesah-5773/) - "By the merit of righteous women that lived in that generation were the Israelites redeemed from Egypt," says a midrash in the Talmud (Sotah 11b). The list of women who play an integral role in the Exodus narrative is impressive. Consider Shifrah and Pu'ah, the midwives to the Israelites, and their refusal to carry out - [Shabbat Tzav/HaGadol 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/03/shabbat-tzavhagadol-5773/) - The Shabbat immediately before Pesah is called Shabbat HaGadol--the Great Shabbat. What's behind this special name? The most traditional answer is that we name the Shabbat after the culminating phrase of the special haftarah we read from the prophet Malachi. In that verse (3:23), God promises through the prophet to send Eliyah "before the great and awesome day - [Shabbat Vayikra 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/03/shabbat-vayikra-5773/) - This Shabbat, we'll have the pleasure of learning Torah from USYers from the five boroughs as we host Kiriyah Spring Kinnus at HHJC. And then we have our monthly Lunch n Learn with The Observant Life. Assuming it doesn't snow this time (!), we'll look into the chapters on the Secular Justice System and Crime - [Shabbat Vayek-hel-Pekudei/HaHodesh 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/03/shabbat-vayek-hel-pekudeihahodesh-5773/) - In the months that followed the Exodus from Egypt, the Israelites undertook two building projects: the Golden Calf and the Mishkan. One was a profane denial of God's sovereignty; the other expressed a desire to build sacred space for God. What should be today's Jewish building project, and what are the implications of choosing to be - [A Night to Remember](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/03/a-night-to-remember/) - We did it!! Our Temple presented a magnificent and memorable concert to the Jewish community of Queens, like no other. We are leaders…pioneers...heralders...and most importantly, we are a Congregation, a family…bonded together by our steadfast dedication to our people, to our heritage and to ensuring that our Jewish culture lives on for generations to come. - [Shabbat Ki-Tissa/Parah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/02/shabbat-ki-tissaparah-5773/) - It wasn't easy getting God to calm down, but Moshe succeeded, at least for the moment. God has even tried to disown the Israelites, who responded to all God had done for them by building the Golden Calf. God said to Moshe, "Hurry down, for your people, whom you brought out of the land of Egypt, have acted basely" - [Shabbat Teztaveh/Zakhor 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/02/shabbat-teztavehzakhor-5773/) - What does the term "God-fearing" mean to you? For some, it conjures images of Bible-thumping fundamentalists in the American south. It sounds like a characteristic of religious fanaticism, but to others it's at the very core of religion. It's certainly at the core of the passage we read every year on Shabbat Zakhor, the Shabbat before - [Shabbat Terumah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/02/shabbat-terumah-5773/) - The most famous phrase in this week's parashah, Terumah, comes near the beginning of God's instructions for the building of the Mishkan, Israel's portable sanctuary: "And let them make Me a sanctuary that I may dwell among them--ve'asu Li mikdash veshakhanti betokham" (Exodus 25:8). The word betokham, translated here as "among them," has long puzzled me. This week, I've - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/02/shabbat-mishpatimshekalim-5773/) - With Parshat Mishpatim we begin what is called Sefer HaBrit, the Book of the Covenant. Its appearance so soon after last week's reading of the Decalogue, God's will revealed at Mount Sinai, tells us that we are on the hook for more than just the "Ten Commandments." How, exactly, are we "on the hook?" Notice that early in - [Shabbat Yitro 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/01/shabbat-yitro-5773/) - When someone who isn't Jewish looks at you, what does he or she see? Is it anything like this classic movie scene? Woody Allen has been criticized severely for his ambivalent Jewish identity, but in that classic clip from Annie Hall, he may have been on to something. No, we don't all have black hats and payes, but - [Shabbat Beshalah/Tu Bishvat 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/01/shabbat-beshalahtu-bishvat-5773/) - How different this seder is from all others! I refer to Seder Tu Bishvat, which we will conduct on Shabbat afternoon followingminhah in the waning hour of the day designated as the New Year for nature. A Tu Bishvat seder is not merely an opportunity to eat rare fruit in great quantity, or to experiment in shades of grape juice. It's - [Shabbat Bo 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/01/shabbat-bo-5773/) - Who shot J.R.? Who Framed Roger Rabbit? Who killed all the Egyptian firstborn? The classic line in the haggadah for Pesah says that God did the deed, in all Divine glory: "Not by way of an angel, nor by way of a seraph, nor by way of an agent." The basis of this is a verse in our parashah: "For - [Shabbat Va-era 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/01/shabbat-va-era-5773/) - Justice is complicated. Finding the appropriate way to punish wrongdoing is a challenging business for lawmakers in any legal system. Societies set policy in an attempt to balance the needs of the victim of the crime (or his/her survivors) and the need to educate/improve/punish the perpetrator. In our parashah, even God has to come up with - [Shabbat Shemot 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2013/01/shabbat-shemot-5773/) - On the day that the survivors of Sandy Hook Elementary School return to class, albeit in a new building, I'm remembering a Facebook posting I saw a number of times in the days after the horrific shootings. It went like this: "Dear God, Why do you allow so much violence in our schools? Signed, A - [Salute to Israel Concert - A Night to Remember](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/salute-to-israel-concert-a-night-to-remember/) - It’s just around the corner!This year’s “SALUTE TO ISRAEL CONCERT” will beA NIGHT TO REMEMBER….A spectacular evening filled with Elegance & Sophistication. This will be an event you will never forget! SAVE THE DATE…SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 10, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the LEFRAK CONCERT HALL at QUEENS COLLEGE. You will hear so many different flavors - [Shabbat Vayehi 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/shabbat-vayehi-5773/) - One of the featured motifs of Sefer Bereshit, the Book of Genesis, is sibling discord. It began with fratricide when Cain killed Abel, and continued in each generation of the patriarchal/matriarchal narrative. Yitzhak and Yishma'el couldn't coexist; the twins Ya'akov and Esav had to separate for 20 years before they could see each other again; and - [Shabbat Vayigash 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/shabbat-vayigash-5773/) - Of all the heroes in the Bible, only one character earns the title Tzaddik, righteous, from the Rabbis. That character is Yosef, the man who rises from obnoxious teenager to Egypt's chief economic adviser, from slave to master of his family's destiny. And perhaps most significantly, Yosef is the one to break the cycle of sibling - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/shabbat-miketzhanukkah-5773/) - Nothing tells the story of Hanukkah quite like its repertoire of songs. Each song emphasizes a different angle to the holiday--the fun of spinning the dreidel (Sevivon), God's role in the miracle (Ma'oz Tzur), the power of the Maccabees (Mi Yemalel). But to me, there's one song that is really what Hanukkah should mean in the 21st - [Shabbat Vayeshev 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/shabbat-vayeshev-5773/) - As the eldest of 12 brothers, Reuven should have immense authority. And in a moment of crisis, he steps forward. Hearing his brothers' murderous designs on Yosef, he makes an attempt to save his obnoxious younger sibling's life: "He said, 'Let us not take his life.' And Reuben went on, 'Shed no blood! Cast him - [Passing of Eleanor Brafman z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/passing-of-eleanor-brafman-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of our long-time member Eleanor Brafman. The funeral will be on Thursday, December 6 at 9:00 AM, at Sinai Chapels on Horace Harding Expressway. Burial at Riverside Cemetery in Saddle Brook, NJ. Shiva will be observed at the Brafman home, 85-23 214th St. in Hollis Hills. The phone number - [Mazal Tov to Sally & Harvey Goldstein](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/mazal-tov-to-sally-harvey-goldstein/) - Mazal Tov to Sally and Harvey Goldstein on the engagement of their three grandchildren in Israel. - [Mazal Tov to Linda & Arthur Liederman](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/mazal-tov-to-linda-arthur-liederman/) - Mazal Tov to Linda and Arthur Liederman on the engagement of their son Joshua and Leah Ring. - [Mazal Tov to Viviane & Steven Verstandig](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/mazal-tov-to-viviane-steven-verstandig/) - Mazal Tov to Viviane and Steven Verstandig on the marriage of their son Michael and Allana Kasell. - [Mazal Tov to Marcy & Jeff Sackett](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/mazal-tov-to-marcy-jeff-sackett/) - Mazal Tov to Marcy and Jeff Sackett on the engagement of their daughter Jaime to Ashley Marks. - [Passing of Dorothy Weisberg z'l](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/12/passing-of-dorothy-weisberg-zl/) - We are saddened by the passing of Dorothy Weisberg, mother of our member Ellen Kaplan, and widow of our past president, Maurycy Weisberg. The funeral will be on Monday, December 3 at 2:45 pm, graveside at Beth Moses Cemetery in Farmingdale, Long Island. Shiva will be observed at the home of Ellen & Jim Kaplan, - [Shabbat Vayishlah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/11/shabbat-vayishlah-5773/) - After 20 years of estrangement, Ya'akov is about to encounter his twin brother, Esav, and he's not entirely sure what to expect. He hopes for the best, but plans for the worst. Rashi says that Ya'akov prepares for three distinct contingencies: one, to simply give his brother a present; two, he prepares through prayer; and - [Shabbat Vayetzei 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/11/shabbat-vayetzei-5773/) - Did he really think his crimes would go unpunished? The stories of Sefer Bereshit, the Book of Genesis, are so brilliantly interconnected. That's evident in this week's Torah portion, Vayetzei, as Ya'akov the deceiver is himself the victim of a sibling swap. Then he cons the ultimate con-man, his uncle Lavan. No doubt CNN would refer to - [Shabbat Toldot 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/11/shabbat-toldot-5773/) - "When the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the outdoors; but Jacob was a mild man who stayed in camp" (Genesis 25:27). With this famous verse, the descendants of Ya'akov, the Jewish People, have been painted with one brush as docile, bookish, and weak. And it's our own fault, for - [Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5773/) - Two weeks ago, in Parshat Lekh-Lekha, we read the story of Avraham the Warrior, victorious in the battle that rescued his nephew, Lot. Much has happened to him in the interim, but now, in Parshat Hayei-Sarah, we see him at the end of his life, undertaking one more challenge. It's time to find a wife for Yitzhak, - [Shabbat Vayera 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/11/shabbat-vayera-5773/) - We simply can't get through difficult times, like these wrought by the winds of Sandy, without the kindness of others. So many of us in this community, which was far luckier than others, have opened our doors to those left without heat, power, or more. We have tried to look in on those who might - [Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/10/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5773/) - I have always been intrigued by the brief exchange between Avram and the King of Sodom in this week's parshah, Lekh-Lekha. Avram the man of faith proves to be quite capable as a man of war. After hearing that his nephew Lot has been taken captive when Sodom ended up on the losing side of - [Shabbat Noah 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/10/shabbat-noah-5773/) - It could not have been easy being Noah. From the moment he was born, he carried the hopes of humanity. He was named with the following prayer: "This one will provide us relief--yenahameinu--from our work and the toil of our hands, out of the very soil which God placed under a curse" (Genesis 5:29). Maybe, - [Shabbat Bereshit 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/10/shabbat-bereshit-5773/) - We are excited to begin our monthly study of The Observant Life: The Wisdom of Conservative Judaism for Contemporary Jews, this Shabbat at a lunch and learn following services. This week, we will be addressing the chapter "Citizenship" by Rabbi Jane Kanarek. Rabbi Kanarek's approach is to "isolate several discrete aspects of living in a democratic - [Shabbat Hol Hamo'ed Sukkot 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/10/shabbat-hol-hamoed-sukkot-5773/) - In this week's presidential debate, we heard thoughts from President Obama and Governor Romney on the role of government in America. Whether we agree with one approach or the other, it's worth noting that neither candidate's perspective bears any resemblance to authority as the ancient author of Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) experienced it. Consider the following excerpt from chapter - [Shabbat Ha-azinu 5773](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/09/shabbat-ha-azinu-5773/) - We are a little more than a week away from a big transitional moment in the Jewish year. On Shmini 'Atzeret, we will begin mentioning God's ability to bring rain--geshem--after six months of mentioning dew--tal. When it comes to sustaining the Land of Israel, the difference between rain and dew is clearly linked to the calendar. - [Shabbat Nitzavim 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/09/shabbat-nitzavim-5772/) - Do we still have a chance? "When all these things befall you...and you take them to heart...and you return to the LORD your God, and you and your children heed His command will all your heart and soul...then the LORD your God will restore your fortunes and take you back in love" (Deuteronomy 30:1-3) This - [Shabbat Ki Tavo 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5772/) - The origins of the joke are uncertain, but its punchline has become a common figure of speech. The Lone Ranger and Tonto are surrounded by hostile Native Americans. The Lone Ranger turns to his trusted sidekick and says, "Tonto, it looks like we're going to die." Tonto saunters over to their captors and says to - [Shabbat Ki-Tetzei 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/08/shabbat-ki-tetzei-5772/) - You can find 74 mitzvot in this week's Torah portion, Ki Tetzei, making it the most law-heavy parashah of the annual cycle. Each mitzvah can be the topic of a fascinating detailed discussion, but we don't have to cover them all in one year! Instead, let's isolate two different mitzvot, and when we look at the reason for them, we'll learn - [Shabbat Re-eh/Rosh Hodesh Elul 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/08/shabbat-re-ehrosh-hodesh-elul-5772/) - As Thomas Cahill famously wrote, monotheism was one of the greatest "Gifts of the Jews." Did this gift come with a steep cost? You be the judge, based on these two verses from this week's parashah, Re-eh: "You must destroy all the sites at which the nations you are to dispossess worshiped their gods, whether on lofty - [Shabbat Ekev 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/08/shabbat-ekev-5772/) - One phrase in Moshe's ongoing farewell speech has become a key part of our prayers. In describing God's greatness, Moshe uses the phrase "Ha-El Hagadol Hagibor veHanora--the great, the mighty, and the awesome God" (Deuteronomy 10:17). These words were incorporated into the first blessing of the Amidah, becoming so entrenched as a formula that when - [Shabbat Vaet-hanan 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/08/shabbat-vaet-hanan-5771-2/) - On Wednesday night, MetLife Stadium was again the site of a large crowd of Jews. This time, the purpose of the gathering was not to issue public warnings about the dangers of the internet. It was to celebrate the completion of another cycle of the Daf Yomi project, in which Jews study a double-sided page of the - [Shabbat Devarim 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/07/shabbat-devarim-5772/) - For 40 years, Moshe held his feelings more or less in check. But now, at the beginning of Sefer Devarim, his Book of Words, he lets loose. He spares few details and even fewer feelings as he recounts the years from the Exodus until the present, with the nation standing on the brink of the Promised - [Shabbat Korah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/06/shabbat-korah-5772/) - The stress keeps piling on poor Moshe and Aharon. Week after week in Sefer Bemidbar, the Book of Numbers, they encounter challenges to their leadership. This week, the trouble is caused by cousin Korah, and Aharon's priestly role is under attack. By the end of the parashah, he is still standing, but at the cost of - [Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5772/) - It sure seemed like a great idea at the time. Sending scouts to check out the landscape is standard military operating procedure. So when Israel sends a reconnaissance team of 12, one per tribe, to Canaan, why does it fail so miserably? A close reading of the story in our parshah, Shelah-Lekha, led me to new ideas. - [Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5772/) - At our preschool graduation this week, children in our 4-year-old class wore mortarboard hats, received diplomas, and ate cake, just as all graduates do. Though they probably didn't notice, their ceremony included one more tradition from the end of the academic year. While they and their parents ate, mingled, and took pictures, the background music - ["Avinu Shebashamayim" A Prayer for the State of Israel](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/06/avinu-shebashamayim-a-prayer-for-the-state-of-israel/) - When I first started visiting Israel, years ago, and I would attend Shabbat services at Heichal Shlomo, the Great Synagogue in Jerusalem, I would hear the prayer for the State of Israel read aloud in an oratorical voice. It would also include the Prayer for the Tzhalal (the Israeli Army). I had never heard Avinu - [Shabbat Naso 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/05/shabbat-naso-5772/) - As interesting as Samson's life was, the story of his birth announcement is just as fascinating. We read this story as the haftarah for Parshat Naso because both passages address the curious case of theNazir, whose dedication to God and holiness is to the extreme. You can read the full text of the haftarah here, but in short, a childless - [Shabbat Bemidbar 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5772/) - Though they don't always come on consecutive days, it's a pretty sure bet that our Torah portion, Bemidbar, and the Yom Tov of Shavu'ot will happen within the same week. That has to be by design; consider the fact that we have had two instances of double portions in the weeks since Pesah. Granted that one of them enabled us - [Shabbat Emor 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/05/shabbat-emor-5772/) - It's time to make room on your bookshelves for a beautiful new book that will enhance your Jewish life! Conservative Judaism has, in the last dozen years or so, given us a new Siddur Sim Shalom (one for weekdays and one for Shabbat and Yom Tov), a new Humash Etz Hayim, and a new High Holy Day prayer - [Shabbat Aharei-Mot/Kedoshim 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/05/shabbat-aharei-motkedoshim-5772/) - A few years ago, I spent Shabbat in Lower Manhattan, and went to shul at Town and Village Synagogue, where I witnessed something I'd never seen before. The entire Shabbat morning service, including the Torah reading, was provided simultaneously in translation. The alternate language wasn't English, or Russian, and it certainly wasn't Aramaic (the language - [Shabbat Tazri'a-Metzora' 5772 - April 28](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/04/shabbat-tazria-metzora-5772-april-28/) - What happens when Torah and science collide? This week's Torah reading, consisting of two portions that have much to do with medical conditions, raises the above question. A serious study of the parshiyot requires us to look at both traditional Jewish commentaries and current scientific knowledge. And those two lenses don't always combine to produce - [Shabbat Shemini 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/04/shabbat-shemini-5772/) - Click the player and hear Rabbi Wise's Additional Comments About This Week's Message [powerpress url="https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/wp-content/uploads/Shemini-5772.mp3"] What did a pig ever do to you to earn your wrath and disdain? Few other creatures symbolize what it means for us to be Jewish and other than does the pig. The Torah's prohibition aside, we know of stories - [8th Day of Pesah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/04/8th-day-of-pesah-5772/) - Click the player and hear Rabbi Wise's Additional Comments About This Week's Message [mp3_embed playlst="https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/HHJC-web-gems-8th-Day-of-Pesah-5772.mp3"] Where are you from, originally? It's a question we ask people as we are getting to know them. Sometimes their accent or dialect of English gives them away, and sometimes they grew up not far from where they now live, - [Shabbat Pesah I 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/04/shabbat-pesah-i-5772/) - I don't like cleaning. I don't know anyone who does. So when Pesah draws near, we begin to wonder what we did to deserve this new form of slavery. It's pretty sad that the joke greeting around this time is "Hag kasher o-sameah--have a happy or a kosher Passover," as if the effort that goes into making - [Shabbat Tzav/Hagadol 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/shabbat-tzavhagadol-5772/) - It's weird from the word "go," and it leads me to ask many questions. "Why is our table set differently than on every other Shabbat? Why do we sing the Table of Contents of the book at our places? Now we're making kiddush--ok, now I feel a bit better, but you tell me to recline - [Thoughts on Toulouse: March 23, 2012](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/thoughts-on-toulouse-march-23-2012/) - We were horrified by the news from Toulouse this week, the brutal slaying of seven innocent victims of hate. Four Jews, three of them young children, and three French paratroopers were murdered in cold blood. And to learn that one of the victims, 3-year-old Gabriel Sandler, was named for Rabbi - [Shabbat Vayikra/HaHodesh 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/shabbat-vayikrahahodesh-5772/) - "Why do we dip the hallah in salt when we make Hamotzi?" This is one of those questions that comes up frequently. The traditional answer is that the table upon which we eat is a mizbeah, an altar, in miniature; just as the korbanot, the ancient sacrificial offerings, were salted, so, too, is our hallah. But that begs another question: why - [Shabbat Vayak'hel-P'kudei/Parah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/shabbat-vayakhel-pkudeiparah-5772/) - I never had the privilege to study with Nehama Leibowitz (1905-1997), the diminutive giant who taught Torah to generations of students. But she left a legacy for which all teachers strive. She was most famous for her questions; she would mail "gilyonim--pages" of these questions to students, receive their answers, and return them with comments. - [Shabbat Ki Tissa 5772--March 10, 2012](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/shabbat-ki-tissa-5772-march-10-2012/) - After the travesty of the Golden Calf, Moshe manages to save the Israelites from God's anger. But he wants more. He wants God's immediate presence in the Israelite camp. He wants to know how God plans to interact with Israel from this day forward; and, for that matter, how God will interact with him. God - [March 3 2012/9 Adar 5772 Shabbat Tetzaveh/Zakhor ](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/03/march-3-20129-adar-5772-shabbat-tetzavehzakhor/) - Among our Hebrew High School students (and their parents), I'm notorious for introducing passages from the Torah that they never would have been given the chance to learn when they were children. We call the class "Tantalizing Tales of the Torah," though the parents of the older students who learned with me four years ago - [Shabbat Terumah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/02/shabbat-terumah-5772/) - A Hasidic tale: On Shabbat Terumah, when we read of God's demand for an offering, Rabbi Yitzhak of Vorki happened to be visiting Rabbi Mendel, the Kotzker Rebbe, who had recently begun to live in great seclusion, receiving only close friends such as Rabbi Yitzhak. "Why," asked Rabbi Yitzhak, have you gone to such extremes - [Shabbat Mishpatim/Shekalim](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/02/shabbat-mishpatimshekalim/) - The expression "caught red-handed" seems to suggest the worst possible result of being a thief. After all, if someone else's property is found in someone else's possession without evidence of a legal transaction, the "someone else" has some explaining to do. The Torah, however, tells us that it can indeed be worse. The penalties - [Shabbat Yitro 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/02/shabbat-yitro-5772/) - Whether it is in our search for a mate, an employee, a job, or an elected official, we begin with an ideal set of criteria. Usually, that list is wholly unreasonable. Even in the lab it would be difficult to create such a perfect match. That leaves us in the position of prioritizing our - [Shabbat Beshalah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/02/shabbat-beshalah-5772/) - How long do you keep canned or jarred goods in your pantry? That's where we keep the non-perishables, and were it not for Pesah cleaning, some of those food items might be older than we are. But we're generally inclined to keep things moving off the shelves. Since we prefer to eat or cook with - [Shabbat Bo: January 28, 2012/4 Shevat 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/shabbat-bo-january-28-20124-shevat-5772/) - Parashat Bo is a favorite of Jewish educators. Three times we see instructions about giving instructions: Exodus 12:26-27, 13:8, and 13:14. In the first and third of the passages, it is expected that a child will prompt the lesson by asking a question; in the middle text, the adult is to take the lead and - [Shabbat Vaera 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/shabbat-vaera-5772/) - Like many other Jews, I had an Uncle Chaim who was a baker. He was from the Old Country, and because of his exalted place in our family (and probably because of his vocation, too), he had a standard job at all family simchas. He was the Motzi Man. In his apartment, you could see a - [January 14 2012/19 Tevet 5772 Shabbat Shemot](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/january-14-201219-tevet-5772-shabbat-shemot/) - It doesn't take us long to get to know Moshe. In the very first episode we read of his adult life, we see he's an activist. He's not afraid to insert himself into a situation when he sees injustice. His impulsive response to seeing an Egyptian taskmaster beating an Israelite slave, his attempted intervention when - [January 7 2012/12 Tevet 5772 Shabbat Vayehi](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/january-7-201212-tevet-5772-shabbat-vayehi/) - This space is usually my medium for getting readers to think about an issue that emerges from the coming Shabbat's Torah reading. We then continue the conversation during my Dvar Torah in shul on Shabbat morning. But this week, since we will have words of wisdom from the women of Sisterhood on Shabbat, I wanted - [December 17 2011/21 Kislev 5772 Shabbat Vayeshev](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/december-17-201121-kislev-5772-shabbat-vayeshev/) - As if we haven't seen enough of this throughout the book of Bereshit, our parashah this week includes another episode of favoritism. "VeYisrael ahav et Yosef mikol banav--Now Israel loved Joseph best of all his sons" (Genesis 37:3). What is the Torah's given reason for this? Because Yosef was a Ben-zekunim lo--a child born in - [December 10 2011/14 Kislev 5772 Shabbat Vayishlah](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2012/01/december-10-201114-kislev-5772-shabbat-vayishlah/) - The moment of truth is upon him. After 20 years of estrangement, Ya'akov cannot run from Esav any longer. Esav is headed directly for him, with a band of 400 ostensibly armed men. So Ya'akov divides his camp, giving one group a chance to escape in the event of an attack on the other. He - [Shabbat Miketz/Hanukkah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/12/shabbat-miketzhanukkah-5772/) - December 24 2011/28 Kislev 5772 We tell two very different stories about Hanukkah. In one, the courageous Maccabees are the heroes, seizing their destiny by one hand with sword in the other. In another version, God is the Rescuer, providing the spiritual support for the military campaign, which was really secondary anyway to the true - [Shabbat Vayetze](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/12/shabbat-vayetze/) - When I am in Israel, as I was this past week, it doesn't take much to make me mindful of where I am. But I had a new experience of mindfulness last week at each weekday service I attended. It came in the blessing for sustenance in the daily Amidah, which has a seasonal variation. On Shemini - [>Shabbat Hayei-Sarah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/11/shabbat-hayei-sarah-5772/) - A new study by Barclays Wealth released this week reveals that more than a third of "high-net-worth" people have serious reservations about the ability of their beneficiaries to handle their inheritance. Some are ambivalent, and others just plain don't trust their children or stepchildren to protect their fortune. After burying his wife, Avraham turns his - [November 12 2011/15 Heshvan 5772 Shabbat Vayera](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/11/shabbat-vayera-5772/) - We've had hints of the depths of evil of the residents of Sodom. Last week's Torah reading had plenty of foreshadowing. This week, in Parashat Vayera, God decides to destroy the city--all five of its boroughs. But before carrying out this comprehensive punishment, God does something interesting. God consults with Avraham. "Now the LORD had - [>Shabbat Lekh-Lekha 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/11/shabbat-lekh-lekha-5772/) - No sooner does Avram arrive in Canaan at God's instruction that he has to leave. "There was a famine in the land, and Avram went down to Egypt to sojourn there, for the famine was severe in the land" (Genesis 12:10). The man who later becomes the model of hospitality, entertaining guests with a lavish feast - [>Shabbat Noah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/10/shabbat-noah-5772/) - How difficult was it to be Noah? He had to have felt rather lonely both before and after the Flood. Before it, the Torah tells us, he stood out as the one righteous person worthy of saving, since the rest of humanity "had corrupted its ways on the earth." Even in the opinion of the - [>Shabbat Ha-azinu/Shuvah 5772](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/09/shabbat-ha-azinushuvah-5772/) - Is there such thing as "gone too far?" It's a pertinent question for this time of year, and for this Shabbat, known as Shabbat Shuvah, the Shabbat on which we read the words of the prophet Hosea: "Shuvah, Yisrael, 'ad Adonai Elohekha--come back, Israel, to the LORD your God," he implores his listeners, in his - [>Shabbat Nitzavim-Vayelekh 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/09/shabbat-nitzavim-vayelekh-5771/) - Several weeks ago, in Parshat Re-eh, the Torah lays out a clear choice: a blessing or a curse (Deuteronomy 11:26). Coming full circle, after hearing last week all of the blessed and cursed details on the mountains of Gerizim and Eival, the choice is summarized concisely in this week's Torah reading: "I call heaven and - [>Shabbat Ki-Tavo 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/09/shabbat-ki-tavo-5771/) - In our urban environment, it's not easy for us to relate to the Torah's agriculturally-based laws. But although we are not farmers, there is still much to learn from passages that spoke directly to those who did work the land. Our parashah begins with a first law for a people who will first enter the - [>Shabbat Ki-Tetzei 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/09/shabbat-ki-tetzei-5771/) - "If, along the the road, you chance upon a bird's nest, in any tree or on the ground, with fledglings or eggs and the mother sitting over the fledglings or on the eggs, do not take the mother together with her young. Let the mother go, and take only the young, in order that you - [>Shabbat Shoftim 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/09/shabbat-shoftim-5771/) - Parshat Shoftim provides advance guidance in anticipation of the inevitable request of the Israelites to be like other nations and establish a monarchy. The Torah provides a number of limitations on kings, including a restriction on foreigners and limits on royal wealth and excess. Two particular rules catch my attention. The first is a warning - [>Shabbat Re-eh 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/08/shabbat-re-eh-5771/) - The Torah doesn't much like idolatry. And it's even more concerned with idolatry's PR machine. Chapter 13 of Deuteronomy gives instructions for dealing with those who might instigate the larger community to turn away from God and cast their lots with false gods. Three different scenarios are presented. In the first, a prophet advocates for - [>Shabbat 'Ekev 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/08/shabbat-ekev-5771/) - Why be good? Why bother? This painfully simple question is at the root of religious and philosophical thought. In more complex language, it raises the tension between the intrinsic and extrinsic value of our actions. In other words, do we do what is right--in this case, observance of God's mitzvot--because those commandments are intrinsically good - [>Shabbat Vaet-hanan 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/08/shabbat-vaet-hanan-5771/) - In our tradition of mitzvot, we are commanded to do (or not to do) many things. Rarely are we commanded to feel something. Love, in particular, is rarely commanded; in fact, such a mitzvah appears just three times in the Torah. We are required to love our fellow [as ourselves] (Leviticus 19:18); we must love - [>Shabbat Devarim 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/08/shabbat-devarim-5771/) - We always "celebrate" Shabbat, but this particular Shabbat is the most mournful one of the year. It is called Shabbat Hazon, based on the opening word of our haftarah and the Book of Isaiah. That passage is a scathing critique of Israel's behavior, foretelling the fall of the First Jewish Commonwealth. Most of the haftarah - [>Shabbat Mas'ei 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/07/shabbat-masei-5771/) - Until this week, I wasn't familiar with the word "prolix," an adjective meaning "tediously lengthy." (I was familiar with the concept; just not the word.) Then I stumbled on it twice in one day. Once was while reading about the 2011 Bulwer-Lytton Fiction Contest, which invites submissions of the worst possible opening sentence to a - [>Shabbat Korah 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/06/shabbat-korah-5771/) - When Mayor Bloomberg's mother, Charlotte Rubens Bloomberg, died earlier this week, we read how little her son's immense wealth and fame changed her personality and values. She was happy to remain in her modest house in Medford, MA. When he sent limousines to pick her up, she reimbursed him. She was proud of him, but - [>Shabbat Shelah-Lekha 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/06/shabbat-shelah-lekha-5771/) - "I'd like to use my lifeline, Regis." With these words, a contestant on the hit TV game show Who Wants to Be a Millionaire can phone a friend, ask the audience, or narrow the choices from four to two and "stay alive" in the game. The show's creators picked an interesting term for these helping - [>Shabbat Beha'alotekha 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/06/shabbat-behaalotekha-5771/) - Chronology seems to be less important to the Torah than it is to us. While we often take great pains to establish the sequence of particular events, the Torah's narratives are sometimes arranged out of chronological order. This non-linear style of story-telling is affirmed by Rashi, the great 11th-century commentator, with his principle of Ein - [>Shabbat Naso 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/06/shabbat-naso-5771/) - We sometimes feel a tremendous weight on our shoulders. What is it that we are feeling? The sons of Kehat, Levi's grandchildren, had enough already on their shoulders, so Moshe didn't make them schlep anything more to the Mishkan Dedication Ceremony. While the Gershonites and Merarites had plenty of animals and carts to bring, their cousins were spared: - [>Shabbat Bemidbar 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/05/shabbat-bemidbar-5771/) - There is no doubt that we are all products of our environment. But while last week, my reference to the environment was in ecological terms, this time I'd like us to consider "the 'hood"--where we grew up, and where we live now. In Parshat Bemidbar, we read of the Israelite's housing arrangements. The tribes will - [>Shabbat Behukotai 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/05/shabbat-behukotai-5771/) - Last week, our Torah portion emphasized the mitzvah of Shemittah, the sabbatical year of rest for the land. In our look inside this commandment during services last Shabbat morning, we noted that the following week's parshah, Behukotai, mentions the threat of exile if the Israelites do not observe the laws of Shemittah with bitter irony: - [>Shabbat Behar 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/05/shabbat-behar-5771/) - Parshat Behar addresses the inevitability of poverty. And though the common translation of Leviticus 25:35 says "If your kinsman, being in straits, comes under your authority," the Torah uses the word "Ki"--not "if," but "when." It is bound to occur that we will encounter among us needy whom we must strengthen. In his commentary on - [>Shabbat Emor 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/05/shabbat-emor-5771/) - The Kohen Gadol, the High Priest in ancient Israel, was subject to great privilege. He led a family that lived off the foodstuff of the masses, he wore special clothes, and he had extraordinary access to God through ritual and the sacred precincts of the Temple. In theory, he would never have to worry about - [>Shabbat Hol Hamo'ed Pesah 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/04/shabbat-hol-hamoed-pesah-5771/) - It's my annual custom to buy a few new haggadot each year in the weeks leading up to Pesah. This year things got rather hectic, so my first real opportunity to shop came the Sunday before Yom Tov at a Judaica store in Toronto. One of my new purchases is called The Haggadah Connection; the - [>Shabbat Aharei-Mot 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/04/shabbat-aharei-mot-5771/) - "Mah nishtanah haPesah hazeh mikol HaPesahim--How different is this Pesah from all others!" The last time I spent the seders with my parents was 1996, a month before my ordination from JTS. The last time we were in Toronto for a seder was 1977; I was in third grade. The only time in the interim - [>Shabbat Metzora' 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/04/shabbat-metzora-5771/) - The haftarah for Shabbat Metzora' tells the story of a besieged Samaria, in economic crisis and on the verge of famine so extreme that cannibalism was an appealing option for some. Just before we pick up the narrative in II Kings 7:3, the prophet Elisha has announced great news: the market will recover immediately. But - [>Shabbat Shemini/Parah 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/03/shabbat-sheminiparah-5771/) - For the obsessive-compulsive among us, the next month on the Jewish calendar is one long field day. With Pesah soon to arrive, we start cleaning, and cleaning, and cleaning some more. The night before the seder, as Erev Pesah begins, we are even so obsessed as to go into all the rooms we've cleaned and - [>Shabbat Tzav/Zakhor 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/03/shabbat-tzavzakhor-5771/) - The Shabbat before Purim is known as Shabbat Zakhor, because the word "zakhor--remember"--is the opening word of the special maftir reading. The Torah commands us explicitly to remember what Amalek did to us on our way out of Egypt, attacking the stragglers as they made their way to freedom. But whereas most mitzvot address some - [>Shabbat Vayikra 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/03/shabbat-vayikra-5771/) - As we begin reading Sefer Vayikra, the Book of Leviticus, we find ourselves waist-deep in sacrifices. The central focus of ancient Israel's ritual, sacrifices are foreign to us today. But in truth, we make them all the time. They may not involve quite as much blood and smoke, but still we sacrifice. Of course, the - [>Shabbat Pekudei/Shekalim 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/03/shabbat-pekudeishekalim-5771/) - We find ourselves at the stage between collection and construction. The materials for the Mishkan have been gathered; the people have been more than generous. The time has come to put it all together, and eventually, Moshe will set it up. But first, there's business to conduct: an audit. Seriously, now! The project was commissioned - [>Shabbat Vayakhel 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/02/shabbat-vayakhel-5771/) - When Jesse Owens ran, or Baryshnikov danced, or Judy Garland sang, it was clear to those who witnessed them that they were destined to perform at the highest level. Sure, they had to work hard to achieve fame, but they began with a gift of raw talent, genius, a calling. Apparently, when the Biblical artist - [>Shabbat Ki Tissa 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/02/shabbat-ki-tissa-5771/) - We can read the episode of Egel Hazahav, the Golden Calf, which dominates our Torah portion, in two distinct ways. It is either a ringing indictment of Aaron, or it's an example of a leader thinking quickly to make the best of a rotten situation. Is he complicit in building the calf--remember, he is the - [>Shabbat Tetzaveh 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/02/shabbat-tetzaveh-5771/) - The Ner Tamid, the eternal light that is such a powerful symbol in the synagogue, has its origins in this week's Torah portion, Tetzaveh. Through Moses, God commands Aaron to gather pure olive oil to establish this Ner Tamid. Aaron and his sons are to set up these lamps "in the Tent of Meeting, outside - [>Shabbat Terumah 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/02/shabbat-terumah-5771/) - As we embark on a series of Torah readings that deal with the architecture and furnishings of the Mishkan, the Israelites' wilderness-friendly portable sanctuary, we see a great deal of detail that may seem bereft of meaning. After all, do we look for spiritual inspiration in the technicalities of Ikea assembly manuals? But the beauty - [>Shabbat Mishpatim 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/01/shabbat-mishpatim-5771/) - In 21st-century New York, when we find ourselves exploited and powerless to challenge our oppressor, we call "Help-Me Howard." But long before the popular TV news public advocate became a household name to New Yorkers, there was the Torah, the ultimate champion of the downtrodden. In particular, widows and orphans were seen as most vulnerable - [>Shabbat Yitro 5771](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/2011/01/shabbat-yitro-5771/) - We're all, from time to time, guilty of "biting off more than we can chew." Standing at the foot of Mount Sinai, preparing for the presentation of God's covenant, that which we call Torah, the Israelites seem to have done just that: "All the people answered as one, saying, 'ALL that the LORD has spoken ## Pages - [Home](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/) - Creating Meaningful Experiences in the Northeast Queens Jewish Community We are an egalitarian community serving families throughout northeast Queens, including Hollis Hills, Bayside, Fresh Meadows, Little Neck, Douglaston, Glen Oaks, Queens Village and Bellerose. 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This program - [Social Justice](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/social-justice/) - To make the world a better place - to help cure the imperfections in our world. To recognize that we are not an island unto ourselves and that there is a moral imperative to care, to help and to support those who do cannot put bread on the table, or obtain proper healthcare, or have - [Sisterhood](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/sisterhood/) - The Sisterhood of Congregation Etz Hayim is a congregation affiliate committed to the ideals of the conservative movement and the Women's League. Our programs and efforts unite us in our commitment and support for mitzvot and our congregational life. This blog will keep you posted on new events and important information regarding our work. Our - [Upcoming Events](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/upcoming-events/) - CONTENTS - [Photo Gallery](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/photo-gallery/) - Sisterhood Mystery Dinner Theater Chanukah Dinner - [Thinking Out Loud with Rabbi Gary Greene](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/about/meet-our-clergy/thinking-out-loud-with-rabbi-gary-greene/) - [MASA - Our Learning Journey for Families and Children](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/family-learning/) - Helping your family learn and grow together on your Jewish journeyA bold approach to Jewish Education in a redesigned program that goes beyond traditional Jewish Education and the School Model. We believe that every child deserves to grow in an environment filled with joy, curiosity, and a deep sense of belonging. Our mission is to nurture - [Mission & Educational Vision](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/family-learning/mission-and-educational-vision/) - We guide children in developing:Pride in their Jewish identity – A confidence rooted in knowing who they are, where they come from, and the community they are part of.Knowledge of Jewish history and the Torah – Through age‑appropriate exploration of biblical stories, Jewish heroes, and the unfolding journey of the Jewish people.Understanding of ritual and - [Our Curriculum](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/family-learning/our-curriculum/) - Focusing on Jewish values, rituals, pride, and languageStudents in our Masa program enjoy a well-rounded, age-appropriate curriculum that is planned by the religious school principal and implemented by our talented and experienced teachers. Our school offers small classes with attention to individual achievement.LiteracyEven our youngest learners are taught to decode Hebrew. Beginning students learn the - [Meet Our Staff](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/family-learning/meet-our-staff/) - Our staff brings passion, expertise, and a deep commitment to nuturing our student’s knowledge, pride, and love for Judaism. Our PrincipalDr. Scott Eckers is an educator, historian, cantor, and entertainer. For many years, Scott taught Hebrew, Yiddish, Jewish culture and music at the Workmen’s Circle’s I.L. Peretz Jewish School of Nassau. He was on the - [Reflections on Ritual & Prayer](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/in-worship/reflections-on-ritual-and-prayer/) - From the Desk of our Ritual Director Gordon Goldman Parshot Mattot BE A PERSON OF YOUR WORD July 12, 2026 Mattot-Massei A man dies and heads toward the proverbial pearly gates. He is met along the way and told he is being given a choice between spending eternity in Heaven or in Hell. 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Congregation Etz Hayim works to fulfill the value phrase of Etz Hayim Cares with an active Chesed committee, a Health Initiative supported by a Congregational Nurse and a - [Men's Club](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/mens-club/) - The Men’s Club provides the opportunity for social interaction, learning, and community service to the members of our congregation.Upcoming Events No Events "*" indicates required fields Your Name* First Last Email* Phone*Subject*Comments / MessagePreference for Reply* Email Phone CAPTCHA Δ - [Get Involved](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/get-involved/) - Congregational life is about relationships and how our congregation is a community - serving the core values of Jewish communal life. This area affords members of our Congregation Etz Hayim community an opportunity to communicate about their activities. Equally Etz Hayim is a community that together shares in our members simchas and supports its members - [In Lifelong Learning](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/in-lifelong-learning/) - Etz Hayim is committed to cross generational life long learning for our community. These pages highlight our adult education offerings and our hebrew school. Our life long learning programs are highlighted by both a fall and spring series with Rabbi David Wise; programs and classes with Rabbi Gary Greene; classes led by our Cantor, Sol - [Map & Directions](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/about/map-and-directions/) - The Hollis Hills Jewish Center is located in the Northeast Queens, considered the one of the most beautiful parts of Queens and New York City.It is located along the Q46 Bus route of the NY City Transit – which travels from Union Turnpike/Queens Boulevard (A stop on the E and F Line of the NY - [Learning](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/) - [In Worship](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/in-worship/) - Our community commitment is to enhance and support each congregant's spiritual journey. Our clergy are available to inspire, support and teach how Judaism can provide spiritual sustenance as we face the challenges of our modern day world. There are many portals for which each individual can fulfill their own spiritual need, we seek to help - [Raise Money With Your Own Shopping](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/giving/raise-money-with-your-own-shopping/) - Whether it’s shopping for daily essentials like groceries, buying furniture for your home office, or even booking your next trip, the ShopRaise app lets you turn your everyday shopping into support for Etz Hayim all at no additional cost to you. Click the Image Below - [Donate Now](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/giving/donate-now/) - [Giving Opportunities](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/giving/giving-opportunities/) - The synagogue affords you a multitude of opportunities to contribute to the work of Congegation Etz Hayim at Hollis Hills Bayside and also remember losses, honor friends and family and say thanks to those in our community with a act of Tzdakah – charity. 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Please share with us your news regarding your family, honors, new arrivals in your family and special events. - [Cantorial Candidate Wendi Fried Shabbat](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/cantorial-candidate-wendi-fried-shabbat/) - Schedule Thursday Night - April 30 - Sanctuary = 8 pm - A Conversation with Cantor Fried followed by Hagim Davening Selections [Only streamed on Sanctuary Website Stream] Friday - 7 pm - Kabbalat Shabbat (Website and You Tube Stream) Saturday - 9:30 am - Shabbat services followed by Kiddush lunch and opportunity to meet - [Cantor Fried Weekend Congregation Feedback](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/cantor-fried-weekend-congregation-feedback-copy/) - Please provide your feedback on Cantor Fried based on your attending or viewing on line her Thursday program and davening for Shabbat. We trust that given the multiple opportunities for meeting her and listening to her in multiple types of musical and liturgical selections she has provided an example of her range and you have - [Candidate Cantor Shamash](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/about/cantor-search/candidate-cantor-shamash/) - April 17 - 7 pm Kabbalat Shabbat / April 18 - 9:30 Shabbat Services / Kiddush / 7 pm Mincha-Enhanced Seudah - Havdalah-Ma'ariv / 9 pm Song Circle Please provide your feedback on Cantor Shamash based on your attending or viewing on line his davening over the Shabbat services. We trust that given the multiple - [Cantor Search](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/about/cantor-search/) - Our congregation's leadership is inviting cantorial candidates to submit their resumes for the position of Cantor for our community. The process entails posting for the position with the Cantors Assembly (Conservative Movement). If the search through the assistance of the CA is not productive, after a stated period of time, the congregation will proceed with - [Rabbi Wise's Sermons](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/about/meet-our-clergy/rabbi-wises-sermons/) - [Our Photo Gallery](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/learning/family-learning/photos/) - [Our Losses](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/our-community/our-losses/) - All losses are notified to our community through our email list and through our phone message system. In addition we post below relevant information regarding any congregant's loss. Keep in mind that our community regularly bands together to aid the mourning family with shiva meals throughout the shiva period. 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There is, of course, a lot of truth in this old saying but it need not necessarily be true that I talking to God and God talking to me - [Documents](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/mdocuments-library/) - [mdocs] - [Archive of Prayers](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/in-worship/archive-of-prayers/) ## Events - [Urgent Flyer and RSVP for July 19 IMPACT Event - Combating Jew Hatred](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/urgent-flyer-and-rsvp-for-july-19-impact-event-combating-jew-hatred/) - Dear Friend, Join the Jewish & Israel Affairs Action Committee at Etz Hayim HHB , participating Synagogues - Israel Center of Conservative Judaism - (Men's Club), Jewish Center of Kew Gardens Hills, and Guest Organization 'IMPACT", to learn how to make a difference in today's fight against Jew Hatred and Anti Zionism. Hoping to see you! Sunday July - [Bereavement Meeting](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/bereavement-meeting/) - [Etz Hayim Men's Club - NY Mets vs Chicago Cubs Wednesday](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/etz-hayim-mens-club-ny-mets-vs-chicago-cubs-wednesday-june-24/) - NY Mets vs. Chicago Cubs Wed. 6/24 7pm at Citi-field $50 congregants, $60 non-congregants, $80 Ticketmaster Section 330, rows 5-7. (only 333 steps from kosher food stand) LIMITED NUMBER OF TICKETS, payment due by 4/27 RSVP ASAP to Neil Cohen by texgt 631-691-9201 ** ALL ARE WELCOME ** - [Etz Hayim Mens Club - NY Yankees vs. Cleveland Guardians](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/etz-hayim-mens-club-ny-yankees-vs-cleveland-guardians-june-3/) - NY Yankees vs. Cleveland Guardians Wed. 6/03 at 7pm at Yankee Stadium Section 324 rows 3-4 (near Kosher food stand & bathroom, . . in that order) $60 congregants, $70 non-congregants, $112 Ticketmaster LIMITED NUMBER OF TICKETS, payment due by 4/23 RSVP ASAP to Neil Cohen by text 631-691-9201 ** ALL ARE WELCOME ** - [Torah Without Curfew](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/torah-without-curfew-4/) - [Celebrate Shavuot](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/celebrate-shavuot/) - CLICK HERE TO REGISTER BY MAY 13 - [Sisterhood Paint & Pizza](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/sisterhood-paint-pizza/) - [Jewish Short Stories with Rabbi Greene](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jewish-short-stories-with-rabbi-greene-2/) - Class Dates and Stories: April 14 - After Liberation by Wolf Karmiol April 21 - Under the Tree by S.Y. Agnon We will read Yiddish, Hebrew, and English (primarily from the United States) Jewish short stories. Foreign language stories will be in translation. Class will be held in the Ballroom. We will still provide a Zoom - [Jewish Short Stories with Rabbi Greene](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jewish-short-stories-with-rabbi-greene/) - Class Dates and Stories: April 14 - After Liberation by Wolf Karmiol April 21 - Under the Tree by S.Y. Agnon We will read Yiddish, Hebrew, and English (primarily from the United States) Jewish short stories. Foreign language stories will be in translation. Class will be held in the Ballroom. We will still provide a Zoom - [Reading the Rabbis with the Rabbi](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/reading-the-rabbis-with-the-rabbi/) - Reading the Rabbis with the Rabbi Join Rabbi Wise as we explore classic stories from rabbinic literature Using Rabbi Burton Visotzky's book Sage Tales Wednesdays from 9-10 AM beginning on April 15 (don't worry if you can't get the book by then!) Sage Tales: Wisdom and Wonder from the Rabbis of the Talmud: Visotzky, Rabbi Burton - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04-2026-05-11/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04-2026-05-11-2026-05-18/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04-2026-05-11-2026-05-18-2026-05-25-2026-06-01/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04-2026-05-11-2026-05-18-2026-05-25-2026-06-01-2026-06-08/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/jews-on-the-outside-heretics-and-other-wayward-ones-2026-04-27-2026-05-04-2026-05-11-2026-05-18-2026-05-25-2026-06-01-2026-06-08-2026-06-15/) - Jews on the Outside: Heretics and Other Wayward Ones Join Rabbi Wise for a survey of some of the battles over who's in and out of the Jewish community. We will look at conflicts over the boundaries of Judaism from the Bible until the modern age. Monday Evenings April 27, May 4, May 11, May - [Yom HaShoah Speaker](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/yom-hashoah-speaker/) - [Adult Ed: On Being Jewish Now](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/adult-ed-on-being-jewish-now/) - Books for the Sunday morning April 26 program and most recently published books by the authors are available for purchase on Amazon. Amy and Rachel will be available for book signing after the program. Anthology with contributions by Amy Blumenfeld and Rachel Levy Lesser. Amy and Rachel will read their essays from On Being Jewish Now at - [Pesah University](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/pesah-university-4/) - PESAH UNIVERSITY SHABBAT, MARCH 28 Rabbi Wise and Rabbi Greene teach insights from the Hagaddah during a special Shabbat schedule 9:30-10:50 AM – Shaharit-Torah Service 11:00-11:20 AM – Choice between 2 classes 11:30-11:50 AM – Musaf 12:00-12:50 PM – Kiddush luncheon 1:00-1:20 PM – 2nd round of classes - [Pesah University](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/pesah-university-3/) - PESAH UNIVERSITY JOIN RABBI GREENE ON TUESDAY, MARCH 24TH FOR A PESAH STORY DURING HIS JEWISH SHORT STORIES CLASS (story to follow) - [Pesah University](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/pesah-university-2/) - PESAH UNIVERSITY JOIN RABBI WISE FOR A SEDER MUSIC MARKET REVISIT OLD CLASSICS, PICK UP SOME NEW TUNES THURSDAY, MARCH 19TH FROM 8-9 PM IN PERSON IN MENCHEL HALL AND ON RABBI WISE'S ZOOM WE PROVIDE THE WORDS, YOU BRING YOUR VOICE! Watch for your Etz Hayim emails for the link to join on Zoom - [Purim 5786-2026](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/purim-5786-2026-2/) - VEN A LA LECTURA DE LA MEGUILA (For those who don't speak Spanish, that means "come to the Megillah Reading") PURIM SCHEDULE 5786-2026 MONDAY, MARCH 2 Family Connections megillah warm-up at 6:30 PM in the sanctuary Ma'ariv and Megillah reading at 7 PM Costumes welcome in all languages! Links for Services Streaming from the Sanctuary - [Purim 5786-2026](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/purim-5786-2026/) - VEN A LA LECTURA DE LA MEGUILA (For those who don't speak Spanish, that means "come to the Megillah Reading") PURIM SCHEDULE 5786-2026 MONDAY, MARCH 2 Family Connections megillah warm-up at 6:30 PM in the sanctuary Ma'ariv and Megillah reading at 7 PM Costumes welcome in all languages! Links for Services Streaming from the Sanctuary - [Purim Carnival](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/purim-carnival/) - THIS EVENT IS OPEN TO ALL CONGREGANTS WITH GRANDCHILDREN CLICK HERE TO REGISTER - [Sisterhood Torah Fund Brunch](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/sisterhood-torah-fund-brunch-3/) - [Shabbat Chinese Dinner](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/shabbat-chinese-dinner/) - [Sisterhood Paint and Nosh](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/sisterhood-paint-and-nosh/) - An Invitation from Sisterhood: Let’s PAINT AND NOSH and have some fun!! Sunday February 22, 2026 – 11 AM Our painting teacher is an artist, so we will really learn She is bringing the supplies – so we MUST KNOW by Feb. 17th if you are attending THERE CAN BE NO - [Tu B'Shevat Seder - On Zoom Only](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/tu-bshevat-seder-4/) - Tu B'Shevat Seder A Seder in February? Join us for a festive Tu B'Shevat Seder as we celebrate the New Year of the Trees on Sunday, February 1, 2026 For everyone's safety in this cold weather, the seder this year will be held virtually only. Below you will find what you will need for the - [Thursday Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Wise-Cancelled](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/thursday-lunch-and-learn-with-rabbi-wise-6/) - THURSDAY LUNCH AND LEARN WITH RABBI WISE 12:00-1:30 PM By an overwhelming vote, respondents to the RDW lunch and learn survey chose "Reading the Women of the Bible" by Tikvah Frymer-Kensky to be our next topic. Everyone is welcome to join us. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon. Class meets from 12:30-1:30; those who want - [Hagim Committee and MASA Tu B'Shvat Program](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/hagim-committee-and-masa-tu-bshvat-program/) - [Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/talmud-class-with-rabbi-wise-22/) - Wednesday Morning Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise returns on September 11th in Menchel Hall and via Rabbi Wise's Zoom link. Class is from 9:00-10:00 AM. Everyone is welcome, including first-timers. - [Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/talmud-class-with-rabbi-wise-21/) - Wednesday Morning Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise returns on September 11th in Menchel Hall and via Rabbi Wise's Zoom link. Class is from 9:00-10:00 AM. Everyone is welcome, including first-timers. - [Thursday Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/thursday-lunch-and-learn-with-rabbi-wise-5/) - THURSDAY LUNCH AND LEARN WITH RABBI WISE 12:00-1:30 PM By an overwhelming vote, respondents to the RDW lunch and learn survey chose "Reading the Women of the Bible" by Tikvah Frymer-Kensky to be our next topic. Everyone is welcome to join us. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon. Class meets from 12:30-1:30; those who want - [World Wide Wrap](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/world-wide-wrap-3/) - Join Congregation Etz Hayim at Hollis Hills Bayside Men's Club for the WORLD WIDE WRAP SUNDAY MORNING, FEBRUARY 8TH at 9 AM in The White Chapel Join us for a bagel after the wrap in Menchel Hall RSVP to Neil Cohen so we know how many to expect for breakfast - [Twelfth Annual Superbowl Tailgate Party!](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/twelfth-annual-superbowl-tailgate-party/) - Please join us for CONGREGATION ETZ HAYIM AT HOLLIS HILLS BAYSIDE'S TWELFTH ANNUAL SUPERBOWL LX (60) TAILGATE PARTY Bring your appetite, Bring your family, Bring your friends - Food, Fun, Football and this year Bad Bunny will perform at Halftime Kosher BBQ! Featuring Wings, Hot Dogs, Hamburgers and creations by Tony Snacks, Beer & Soda! - [Sisterhood Zoom Program - Taming Your Inner Critic](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/sisterhood-zoom-program-taming-your-inner-critic/) - Please join Sisterhood on Wednesday evening, January 14, 2026, at 8 pm, for an extra-special Zoom program presented by Rabbi Dahlia Bernstein, a life coach whose perspective we have enjoyed and learned from in the past. Her topic this time is: TAMING YOUR INNER CRITIC. • Learning to name the Inner Critic and reduce its - [Thursday Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/thursday-lunch-and-learn-with-rabbi-wise/) - THURSDAY LUNCH AND LEARN WITH RABBI WISE 12:00-1:30 PM By an overwhelming vote, respondents to the RDW lunch and learn survey chose "Reading the Women of the Bible" by Tikvah Frymer-Kensky to be our next topic. Everyone is welcome to join us. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon. Class meets from 12:30-1:30; those who want - [Thursday Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/thursday-lunch-and-learn-with-rabbi-wise-4/) - THURSDAY LUNCH AND LEARN WITH RABBI WISE 12:00-1:30 PM By an overwhelming vote, respondents to the RDW lunch and learn survey chose "Reading the Women of the Bible" by Tikvah Frymer-Kensky to be our next topic. Everyone is welcome to join us. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon. Class meets from 12:30-1:30; those who want - [Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/talmud-class-with-rabbi-wise-20/) - Wednesday Morning Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise returns on September 11th in Menchel Hall and via Rabbi Wise's Zoom link. Class is from 9:00-10:00 AM. Everyone is welcome, including first-timers. - [Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/talmud-class-with-rabbi-wise-19/) - Wednesday Morning Talmud Class with Rabbi Wise returns on September 11th in Menchel Hall and via Rabbi Wise's Zoom link. Class is from 9:00-10:00 AM. Everyone is welcome, including first-timers. - [Family Connections Pajama Havdalah - January 10](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/family-connections-pajama-havdalah-january-10/) - CLICK HERE TO REGISTER ONLINE ON BY WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 7 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR FOOD DRIVE BY BRINGING CANNED FOOD - [Etz Hayim Mens Club - Tues. 2/10 Knicks vs. Pacers 7:30pm](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/etz-hayim-mens-club-tues-2-10-knicks-vs-pacers-730pm/) - Men's Club invites you, your families & friends to a NY Knicks vs. Indiana Pacers game at MSG on Tuesday 2/10 at 7:30pm ** Seats are in the usual section 323, rows 1 & 2 on the corner of the Skybridge ** **VERY LIMITED NUMBER OF TICKETS** $115.00 for congregants, $125 for non-congregants, whopping $170 - [Etz Hayim Mens Club - Sun. 2/22 Israel Hockey at UBS](https://www.etzhayimhhb.org/events/etz-hayim-mens-club-sun-2-22-israel-hockey-at-ubs/) - Men's Club Israel Elite Hockey on Sunday, 2/22 at 5pm at UBS arena, section 107 HC Tel Aviv vs. Jerusalem Capitals $30 congregants, $35 non-congregants, $42 Ticketmaster Free for all dentists willing to come 4 hours early for free player Czechups. 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